hey man. Good to hear that you went on got help. i thoroughly recommend going and seeing a psychologist. I did this for depression and anxiety and it worked really well.
it might be a good idea to see how you go with seeing a psychologist first before you go and start taking SSRIs. i have taken them, and they have both good and bad effects. there's a few threads about them floating around Aus DD, but if you want more info I am happy to post it.
The problem with benzos is it is very easy to overdo it if you have an anxiety disorder. In my experience, they are quite effective, but you might want to take them all the time because they provide relief. also if you post on bluelight I also presume you like to get high, so there is a good chance you will abuse them for that too. It only takes a couple of weeks of daily use, and you start getting a physical dependence. I, and many others can vouch for this, being addicted to benzos and getting off them is HARD and VERY PAINFUL. You think your anxiety is bad now, but wait until you are going through withdrawals.
So i would only recommend benzos if you keep their use to the times when the anxiety is severely effectling you, and don't do them everyday.
This is probably poor advice, because it is also addictive, but if the anxiety gets really bad, I found that codeine is quite effective in reducing it. I used to use this every few weeks when it got unbearable before I started seeing someone about my anxiety. Do a cold water extraction to get rid of the ibuprofen or paracetamol which can be very bad for your organs.