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How important are breast sizes really?

ThaiDie4 said:
^ heh, you're crazy 8)


OP, im an A cup too. Sometimes I get insecure about it, but when I do, I just tell myself this:

1) NOT all guys like big boobs. Some perfer A's and B's.
2) Any guy who would would consider A cups a dealbreaker is not someone I'd want to hook up with anyway. I am who I am, and if that's not your cup of tea then it's your loss :p
3) Smaller boobs are easier to deal with in general, and you're less likely to get breast cancer!
4) Someone else pointed out that as insecure as we may be about having small breasts, girls with large breasts have insecurities too. Either way, there are pros and cons to both so just look on the bright side and focus on the good things about having A cups.
5) Focus on your other features that you are more confident in. I LOVE my ass. I feel like that is a big turn on for a lot of guys I meet, and they aren't so concerned with my breast size when they see what I pack in the back ;)
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I agree completely. I am an A cup now, I have been a few sizes due to pregnancy and breastfeeding everything from a C on down. Being "big" was horrid for me, I hated them. Smaller is better in my eyes.

I find myself liking women with smaller breats too, I wouldn't know what to do with jumbo ta ta's anyhow 8o

As they say, more than a mouthful is a waste.

I used to be insecure when I was younger, then when I hit 24/25yrs old I came to realization that "who gives a fuck?!" if a guy (or girl) doesn't like me for me, they ain't bloody worth my time.

A person who dates you (or is sexual with you) just for your tits, well....don't expect it to last long...or be anything more than just sex.

Big boobed girls can be insecure too, my bestfriend is HUGE and she was insecure all her life until she hit her early 20's and now she's like MEH whatever. 8)
 
at 14 i was 34D and they brought unwanted uncomfortable attention as well as an assumption that big boobs=tiny brain.
after baby and breastfeeding, they stayed at 36DD. it's hard to find a nice dress or blouse w/out needing alterations. bra straps hurt if they're not wide or padded. they are literally a pain in the neck and back especially when participating in any kind of sports. even getting a mammogram is a hassle. if i could have a reduction to B or C, i'd do it in a heartbeat, no hesitation, no second thoughts.
-izzy
 
My take on bewbies are:

large breast size are important to people who get turned on by large breasts, right?

If you have em then you are more than likely dating someone who is turned on by such attributes, maybe, but if you don't have large tits then you are probably dating dudes who are into legs and assz would be my best guess.

Doesn't matter anyway, who you are and what you do is way more important, in general.
 
izzy66 said:
at 14 i was 34D and they brought unwanted uncomfortable attention as well as an assumption that big boobs=tiny brain.
after baby and breastfeeding, they stayed at 36DD. it's hard to find a nice dress or blouse w/out needing alterations. bra straps hurt if they're not wide or padded. they are literally a pain in the neck and back especially when participating in any kind of sports. even getting a mammogram is a hassle. if i could have a reduction to B or C, i'd do it in a heartbeat, no hesitation, no second thoughts.
-izzy
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Does your doctor help you out at all for the obvious pain you would be in or is he an ignorant asshole or crabby bitch? I like how the male doctors have to feel you up (for cancer purposes) and the women doctors are like here is a brochure do it yourself.

When you do get them reduced, as I am sure you will, be careful to research your doctor thoroughly. You know, cuz you might end up in the same boat you are in now, but more broke if they fuck it up and you are still in pain!

I am displeased by the stupid lolipop scars they use to reduce the size....have they come up with something else yet? Seems barbaric to me, because they can do bewb jobs through the stomach and armpit....Idk
 
Here are my views on this. Breasts are beautiful big or small, asses however don't follow the same set of rules. If your ass looks good don't even worry about it!
 
GenericMind said:
I prefer small breasts. I think you'd be surprised how many other men do too.
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My breasts go from a medium A cup to a very full B cup depending where I am in my cycle. My boyfriend recently told me that he looks forward to after I get my period when they shrink down because they are cute when they are itty bitty.

Rock those tiny boobs! Men love boobs period, no need to worry. <3
 
smaller boobs are way better, fake boobs are disgusting, big boobs are a mess when women get older and they hang to their belly...a decent sized dumper though is a ok
 
aesthetically I can find some large breasts appealing depending on how they're proportioned plus other features I like. But I know for a fact if a woman stimulates me in the right way on an emotional and intellectual level all that shit flies out the window.

A good example is this REALLY flat woman I met at a party weeks ago. Her energy and the way her mind worked had me almost instantly attracted and left me going home buzzing heh heh. But if I saw someone I thought was really physically hot I'd forget about them straight afterward. But this woman made a nice impression :)
 
The only reason I can think of where large breasts would truly be an obvious plus would be when it comes to breastfeeding babies. My best friend's mom couldn't breast feed her b/c her titties were too small! True story.
 
Not important at all.

I actually prefer smaller boobs, like a B-cup, because they look more proportionate.
 
marsmellow said:
I actually prefer smaller boobs, like a B-cup, because they look more proportionate.
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I agree. I like having small boobs (proud A cup here!) and I perfer them on other girls as well.

TBH, sometimes I think I'd like to have B's or even small C's, but any bigger, no... most women I know above a C cup have uneven boobs or nipples. Not that I'm saying that's a terrible thing, and it's nothing that can be helped, but I like that my breasts are symmetrical. I feel like that (and my nipple rings) make up for their lack of size ;)

Either way, breasts are a part of a woman's body that cannot really be controlled, or "fixed" (unless you get surgery, of course) so I don't see why some people make such a fuss about it. If you don't like your abs\legs\ass you can usually workout to somewhat sculpt these areas into what you want... but your boobs are just what they are. There is no way to make your boobs look any different unless you gain or lose weight all over.
 
I'm 20 and a 32B. I'm a very tiny girl in general (5'3", 90 lbs) so it's proportionate to my body, but I've still always been really self-conscious about it (as I'm sure most girls with small boobs are, thanks to porn). But! Proof that some guys do prefer small breasts: my boobs were my past boyfriend's favorite thing about me, and my current boyfriend claims he never cared about boobs until he met me, and that I turned him onto them.

I've grown to appreciate my breasts in a way -- they're small, but feminine. They also feel really good to squeeze (esp. when rolling ;)).

Sadly, I also have a small butt, which I dislike even more. Oh well...
 
It doesn't matter at all to me. When I am attracted to someone, I take in the sum of their characteristics, including personality. Breast size doesn't make or break the deal at all.

I don't have a 8" inch dick and I hope that doesn't matter to a lot of girls otherwise I'm screwed :\
 
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