Curious Christoph
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Hey again, Curious Christoph coming back at you with an experience report that happened to me sometime in August of 2011. Been thinking about making this report for a couple of days now because I personally love telling the story to my close friends and thought that it would be great to share with you guys due to my inclination for responsible substance use.
I did a recent trip report on my first candy flip experience: http://www.bluelight.ru/vb/threads/...Trip-into-Candy-Flip-Crazy-Shit-Rave-Festival!
Just.. throwing that out there :D
Anyways, let's begin
Background Information
At the time I was 18 years old and going out to shows every other weekend. I was in band and we were trying to get ourselves out there by playing shows, we thought that was a great way to market ourselves, but really it was a sorry excuse to party. Little regrets though, I had a lot of fun during my high school years.
Show Time
Alright so we get invited to play a show at this girl's birthday party that my drummer knew (we were a three piece band). It was about a 30 minute drive, we get there with ease thanks to my handy GPS navigation skills. We enter and examine the backyard to see where to unload all of our equipment and what not. Most of the backyard was concrete with a smaller side of dirt and grass on the side which led to an alley where you would find the trash cans. You had a DJ booth by the slide door to the house, a make shift bar on the back side of the backyard and the band area to the right of bar. We unload and we sit by our equipment and wait for our turn to play. I did notice a group of dolled up girls by the bar, I assumed they were the birthday girl's girls (if that makes any sense). Our group (the band and 2 friends) took the time to enjoy the music and the vibe to smoke a couple of bowls.
Before you know it, the whole place was PACKED!
How packed? Well it took effort not to step on people to get from one side of the backyard to another. Ever been to a massive or a packed concert walking through the crowd? Imagine that but in an average sized backyard, it was rad.
We play our show, there's people inches in front of me and we threw it down as best as we could. We get a good response with our psychedelic rock-ish music, a lot of it had to do with our really good guitar player who would carry the shows. He was really really good.
The unexpected encounter
We tear it down, put our stuff towards the back and enjoy of the rest of the acts that were going to play. I ask my drummer where he bought the beer he had in his hand and he points towards the bar in the corner with my DSLR in hand (it came in handy). It took some effort to make my way to the bar but I was able to scooch to the front of it, there was like 4-5 really sexy young girls by the bar having drinks. I asked if they were selling any beer, it seemed like they were occupied and ignored me for a second. During this moment I was seemingly interested in getting my beer fix while I waited for one of these young girls to assist me but then I heard a girl's voice call out to me from my left.
This girl was drop dead sexy, as sexy as the other girls, she had a lot of tattoos which added to the sexyness, she was also wearing short shorts and high heels.
I say hi and what not and I tell her that I wanted to buy some beer. She recognizes me from the band that just played and gave me a discounted price :D dollar beers!
I get close to her because it was really hard to hear each other, we talk for like 2 minutes then she tells me "You're hot" This caught me off guard, I wasn't use to this. I'm not the kind of person that makes girls his priority, let alone knowing how to spit game. I had a general idea of how to manage this situation but was still confused, I responded by complimenting her as well. I then went back to my group and talked to my drummer about what just happened.
He told me to "get back there and talk to her" I look at my beer and chug it, I look at my drummer's extra beer, we look at each other and he gives me the beer and I chug it and gives me the thumbs up and encouragement, so I go back and talk to her.
I move through the crowd and I situate myself next to her and we start hitting it off, we take shots and keep talking. She takes notice to my camera and tells me that she was a suicide girl model, immediately i thought pornstar xD that wasn't the case though, she was a freelance model. Some strangers (a couple) broke the ice with me by complimenting about my camera while I was talking to her and I started talking to them to show off whatever social skills I had and to make it seem like I wasn't all that into her. I told her I would be right back and go back to my friend with 2 more beers in hand, I give him back one and I chug one more.
He told me that he checked up on how I was doing and told me to kiss her. My drummer has had a lot of luck with the ladies so I respected his judgement in that matter especially since I don't go out much. Sounds kinda creepy but he knew I never saw that kind of action and took initiative to guide me through it. Anyways, all he told me was to kiss her and not think twice about it.
I'm Going In!
So I go back again, this time she invites me to the backside of the bar, where all the sexy ladies are at, I squeeze myself in and we are behind this wooden counter in the corner of the backyard surrounded by people. We talk a little more then we go quiet. She's sitting on a stool silent and I'm standing there not sure what to do. I remember what my drummer told me "Kiss her" it had been about a year since I last kissed a girl at the time. I close in, I go face to face with her to make sure she knows what's coming, she wasn't making eye contact but kinda looking down at my lips, I get about an inch away from her lips and then she goes for it! We make out tongue and everything! Needless to say I got a woody ;p
She needed to use the bathroom so I attempted to escort her, when we're in the middle of the crowd she tells me to dance with her. Oh god, haha, never danced with a girl at a party like that before. I guess we were really drunk and started making out again. This time I was able to get get a good handle of dat ass haha. Oh man, looking back that was bad a idea, anywho, i started talking to guy who I can tell was really uneasy on the fact that I had just made out with this girl in front of people, whatever she got to use the restroom, I go back to my group, sit down and smoke some weed.
I was able to get her number at the bar area before I went back with my pals. Another while after the cops raid the place because someone hit a parked car and everyone had to leave. We wait a bit for people to leave and then start bringing our stuff to the car. I had this big smile in my face while I was waiting for my band mates to bring their equipment.
I start talking to another fine young lady o: she was making that cute smile girls make when they're interested in a guy, you just see it and know it. Got her number before she left and we went back home. I didn't even know I had that kind of game in me.
A couple minutes into the ride back home, miss sexy lady #1 sends me a text. She wanted me to go over her house, I complied and went over to her house.
We hung out watching TV, I was really nervous sitting with her in the living room couch she was so attractive. We watched TV together but didn't really talk. I was afraid she was so drunk that she might of thought that I was unattractive enough. At the time I didn't have the best self-esteem. I wasn't really sure what was the right thing to do, I felt like I had taken advantage of her. She made the first move and started talking to me, then she went and started kissing me again. We would stop and then start kissing again, she was getting kinda bored but we still kissed and got really close to each other. I would feel her up and she wouldn't really mind. It was very fun and interesting. This would happen every other 10 minutes or so for about 2 hours, it was a sexy experience.
We talked a little bit, she mentioned that some of her guy friends got jealous and they didn't like me hahaha, I had no idea people were scoping us out at the party. I made my presence in her life minimal to avoid any conflict.
Oh I almost forgot to mention, I saw some toddler toys in the living when I entered and found out that she was a year old mom. Yes, she had a one year old boy. Maybe that's what made me a little comfortable. Guess you can say that she was a MILF
I ended up leaving that night with confidence, something that my emotions desperately needed.
We met up the next night, kinda like a date. I took her on a ride around my town, there was nothing really exciting so I decided to woop out my secret weapon (not my penis). -_-
I took her on a little ride around this old abandoned insane asylum, it was so funny because she thought I was full of shit when I told her it was scary to drive by and when she saw it she got close to me because she was scared xD like I can tell she was having wild fun because it was really dark and she's never been there.
I took her back home and walked her to her house and left after, I think she wanted me to come inside but I was so nervous I wanted to go back and I didn't want to seem disrespectful, I wanted to be her friend.
I have some regrets
Next night we have another date like-outing and we talk about sex, I confess that I'm a virgin. Her response was "really? o:" "that's good, you're clean" "you've never had a girl suck your dick? o: " yea she was asking/telling me those kind of things. The next night I bring her over my house and we watch a movie, she told me that her mom knows about me and that she approves because she saw me the other night. She told her mom I was virgin and that's why we haven't been getting it on, she also tells me she has a condom, we chill in my room for a while, then my mom comes through and tells me to take her home lmao. I got cock blocked by my mom. Here's where I go full retard. She said that we could do it at her house but instead of staying at her house I drop her off and leave home. It could have happened but I left because I was really paranoid and nervous. I bitched out ;p
This girl was the kind of girl that had 5k friends on facebook and 500 likes on her pictures kind of girl. We meet up again a couple more times to hang out but we didn't kiss or do anything intimate, I took pictures of her instead and sent them to her, it was a friendship from then on out. She also mentioned to me that I wasn't a bad looking guy and that I was very mature, which secured the confidence I had gained from the whole experience.
Looking back I have mixed feelings on the whole experience, part of me wishes I should've went for it while the other part is glad I didn't go for it.
Thanks for reading. I hope everyone is having a good day. I apologize for any grammar errors. Feel free to ask questions or comments. And thanks again for reading.
I did a recent trip report on my first candy flip experience: http://www.bluelight.ru/vb/threads/...Trip-into-Candy-Flip-Crazy-Shit-Rave-Festival!
Just.. throwing that out there :D
Anyways, let's begin
Background Information
At the time I was 18 years old and going out to shows every other weekend. I was in band and we were trying to get ourselves out there by playing shows, we thought that was a great way to market ourselves, but really it was a sorry excuse to party. Little regrets though, I had a lot of fun during my high school years.
Show Time
Alright so we get invited to play a show at this girl's birthday party that my drummer knew (we were a three piece band). It was about a 30 minute drive, we get there with ease thanks to my handy GPS navigation skills. We enter and examine the backyard to see where to unload all of our equipment and what not. Most of the backyard was concrete with a smaller side of dirt and grass on the side which led to an alley where you would find the trash cans. You had a DJ booth by the slide door to the house, a make shift bar on the back side of the backyard and the band area to the right of bar. We unload and we sit by our equipment and wait for our turn to play. I did notice a group of dolled up girls by the bar, I assumed they were the birthday girl's girls (if that makes any sense). Our group (the band and 2 friends) took the time to enjoy the music and the vibe to smoke a couple of bowls.
Before you know it, the whole place was PACKED!
How packed? Well it took effort not to step on people to get from one side of the backyard to another. Ever been to a massive or a packed concert walking through the crowd? Imagine that but in an average sized backyard, it was rad.
We play our show, there's people inches in front of me and we threw it down as best as we could. We get a good response with our psychedelic rock-ish music, a lot of it had to do with our really good guitar player who would carry the shows. He was really really good.
The unexpected encounter
We tear it down, put our stuff towards the back and enjoy of the rest of the acts that were going to play. I ask my drummer where he bought the beer he had in his hand and he points towards the bar in the corner with my DSLR in hand (it came in handy). It took some effort to make my way to the bar but I was able to scooch to the front of it, there was like 4-5 really sexy young girls by the bar having drinks. I asked if they were selling any beer, it seemed like they were occupied and ignored me for a second. During this moment I was seemingly interested in getting my beer fix while I waited for one of these young girls to assist me but then I heard a girl's voice call out to me from my left.
This girl was drop dead sexy, as sexy as the other girls, she had a lot of tattoos which added to the sexyness, she was also wearing short shorts and high heels.
I say hi and what not and I tell her that I wanted to buy some beer. She recognizes me from the band that just played and gave me a discounted price :D dollar beers!
I get close to her because it was really hard to hear each other, we talk for like 2 minutes then she tells me "You're hot" This caught me off guard, I wasn't use to this. I'm not the kind of person that makes girls his priority, let alone knowing how to spit game. I had a general idea of how to manage this situation but was still confused, I responded by complimenting her as well. I then went back to my group and talked to my drummer about what just happened.
He told me to "get back there and talk to her" I look at my beer and chug it, I look at my drummer's extra beer, we look at each other and he gives me the beer and I chug it and gives me the thumbs up and encouragement, so I go back and talk to her.
I move through the crowd and I situate myself next to her and we start hitting it off, we take shots and keep talking. She takes notice to my camera and tells me that she was a suicide girl model, immediately i thought pornstar xD that wasn't the case though, she was a freelance model. Some strangers (a couple) broke the ice with me by complimenting about my camera while I was talking to her and I started talking to them to show off whatever social skills I had and to make it seem like I wasn't all that into her. I told her I would be right back and go back to my friend with 2 more beers in hand, I give him back one and I chug one more.
He told me that he checked up on how I was doing and told me to kiss her. My drummer has had a lot of luck with the ladies so I respected his judgement in that matter especially since I don't go out much. Sounds kinda creepy but he knew I never saw that kind of action and took initiative to guide me through it. Anyways, all he told me was to kiss her and not think twice about it.
I'm Going In!
So I go back again, this time she invites me to the backside of the bar, where all the sexy ladies are at, I squeeze myself in and we are behind this wooden counter in the corner of the backyard surrounded by people. We talk a little more then we go quiet. She's sitting on a stool silent and I'm standing there not sure what to do. I remember what my drummer told me "Kiss her" it had been about a year since I last kissed a girl at the time. I close in, I go face to face with her to make sure she knows what's coming, she wasn't making eye contact but kinda looking down at my lips, I get about an inch away from her lips and then she goes for it! We make out tongue and everything! Needless to say I got a woody ;p
She needed to use the bathroom so I attempted to escort her, when we're in the middle of the crowd she tells me to dance with her. Oh god, haha, never danced with a girl at a party like that before. I guess we were really drunk and started making out again. This time I was able to get get a good handle of dat ass haha. Oh man, looking back that was bad a idea, anywho, i started talking to guy who I can tell was really uneasy on the fact that I had just made out with this girl in front of people, whatever she got to use the restroom, I go back to my group, sit down and smoke some weed.
I was able to get her number at the bar area before I went back with my pals. Another while after the cops raid the place because someone hit a parked car and everyone had to leave. We wait a bit for people to leave and then start bringing our stuff to the car. I had this big smile in my face while I was waiting for my band mates to bring their equipment.
I start talking to another fine young lady o: she was making that cute smile girls make when they're interested in a guy, you just see it and know it. Got her number before she left and we went back home. I didn't even know I had that kind of game in me.
A couple minutes into the ride back home, miss sexy lady #1 sends me a text. She wanted me to go over her house, I complied and went over to her house.
We hung out watching TV, I was really nervous sitting with her in the living room couch she was so attractive. We watched TV together but didn't really talk. I was afraid she was so drunk that she might of thought that I was unattractive enough. At the time I didn't have the best self-esteem. I wasn't really sure what was the right thing to do, I felt like I had taken advantage of her. She made the first move and started talking to me, then she went and started kissing me again. We would stop and then start kissing again, she was getting kinda bored but we still kissed and got really close to each other. I would feel her up and she wouldn't really mind. It was very fun and interesting. This would happen every other 10 minutes or so for about 2 hours, it was a sexy experience.
We talked a little bit, she mentioned that some of her guy friends got jealous and they didn't like me hahaha, I had no idea people were scoping us out at the party. I made my presence in her life minimal to avoid any conflict.
Oh I almost forgot to mention, I saw some toddler toys in the living when I entered and found out that she was a year old mom. Yes, she had a one year old boy. Maybe that's what made me a little comfortable. Guess you can say that she was a MILF
I ended up leaving that night with confidence, something that my emotions desperately needed.
We met up the next night, kinda like a date. I took her on a ride around my town, there was nothing really exciting so I decided to woop out my secret weapon (not my penis). -_-
I took her on a little ride around this old abandoned insane asylum, it was so funny because she thought I was full of shit when I told her it was scary to drive by and when she saw it she got close to me because she was scared xD like I can tell she was having wild fun because it was really dark and she's never been there.
I took her back home and walked her to her house and left after, I think she wanted me to come inside but I was so nervous I wanted to go back and I didn't want to seem disrespectful, I wanted to be her friend.
I have some regrets
Next night we have another date like-outing and we talk about sex, I confess that I'm a virgin. Her response was "really? o:" "that's good, you're clean" "you've never had a girl suck your dick? o: " yea she was asking/telling me those kind of things. The next night I bring her over my house and we watch a movie, she told me that her mom knows about me and that she approves because she saw me the other night. She told her mom I was virgin and that's why we haven't been getting it on, she also tells me she has a condom, we chill in my room for a while, then my mom comes through and tells me to take her home lmao. I got cock blocked by my mom. Here's where I go full retard. She said that we could do it at her house but instead of staying at her house I drop her off and leave home. It could have happened but I left because I was really paranoid and nervous. I bitched out ;p
This girl was the kind of girl that had 5k friends on facebook and 500 likes on her pictures kind of girl. We meet up again a couple more times to hang out but we didn't kiss or do anything intimate, I took pictures of her instead and sent them to her, it was a friendship from then on out. She also mentioned to me that I wasn't a bad looking guy and that I was very mature, which secured the confidence I had gained from the whole experience.
Looking back I have mixed feelings on the whole experience, part of me wishes I should've went for it while the other part is glad I didn't go for it.
Thanks for reading. I hope everyone is having a good day. I apologize for any grammar errors. Feel free to ask questions or comments. And thanks again for reading.
