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How guys act on heroin

I would compare it to making out with a sober person at a party. Diamorphine can cause increased confidence, socieability, and a bunch of other effects (less inhibition) that could permit a guy who likes a girl but was too shy to make a move to do so. It could be that he was feeling good and just wanted to make out and doesn't harbour any deeper feelings.

Either way it definitely has less judgment impairment than alcohol (unless he was drinking too).
 
allegator said:
I would compare it to making out with a sober person at a party. Diamorphine can cause increased confidence, socieability, and a bunch of other effects (less inhibition) that could permit a guy who likes a girl but was too shy to make a move to do so. It could be that he was feeling good and just wanted to make out and doesn't harbour any deeper feelings.

Either way it definitely has less judgment impairment than alcohol (unless he was drinking too).
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That is a good analogy. We have no way to know whether or not he really likes you, or wants you to be his girlfriend, or just wanted to make out with you. But you could say all the same things about a sober person. If you (the OP) asked the same question but took out the part about the heroin I still couldn't give you an accurate answer. Now, if what you're really asking is "would being on heroin make someone flirt with/kiss/be affectionate with someone they didn't like, weren't attracted to, and would never be interested in sober?" the answer is that it's very unlikely. Heroin is a pretty mild drug effects-wise (NOT addictiveness-wise, risk-wise and physical dependence-causing wise though!). It normally justs makes people a happier sleepier slightly less inhibited/more confident version of themselves (when on it). Personally when I was on heroin I would be more bold about making a move on someone I already liked, but I certainly wouldn't make out with someone I didn't/wouldn't like sober.

If he isn't flirtatious when sober, it could definitely be the case that when he is sober this guy may not have the confidence to flirt with you on the same level and that heroin puts him in a good mood and makes him bolder and more comfortable.
 
I wouldn't say he doesn't like you but sometimes I think that heroin can make people confess more than alcohol. When you're on dope you feel REALLY good and my theory is that as long as you're feeling that good you can let a lot of shit fly out of your mouth without the sting of overthinking what you just said and being self conscious about it etc. etc.

I know this kid who is plain fugly and a scum bag at the same time and he asked my girlfriend.. (very beautiful girl, too pretty for me) if she would want to bang him. Right to her face. This kid would never do that sober..

Also occasionally if I get a really good bag and am pretty messed up I've had a history of calling my other dealers who overcharge for shitty bags that barely get you high and cuss them out and tell them they're fake ass dealers and it usually lead to threats and whos gonna fight who and "i'll kick your ass" sort of lingo. Then the next day I'm like.."why the hell did I do that?'
 
ballsdeep927 said:
If a guy is all flirty and kissy and lovey with you when hes on heroin, does that mean he likes you will sober too?
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I dunno if this is really other drugs material personally....

and to answer your question..highly doubt it. I highly doubt he even has a sex drive at all.
 
I did in the beginning of my addiction.. and I still love having sex but my sex drive is non existant if I am using heroin all day every day. it comes back quite a bit on suboxone but nothing like being off opiates. I am far from normal.. but I guess thats just me
 
I agree, sex on dope was the bomb, but this can be said of any opioid in my case at least.

To the OP, a past girlfriend feared the same thing after she learned I had been using dope throughout our entire 4 year relationship. The thing is though, even with the dope, and toward the end I was on the constant rollercoast ride that not being able to fund a bad habit and going through W/D every third day, I loved this girl. It was, and still is, the best relationship I've had with anyone. If anything, I feel more strongly and act in a more respectful and loving way when I'm not fucked up on heroin.

This all being said, I think it really depends on the individual. In most cases, especially if you never new your significant other when he or she was not using, you will experience certain changes in mood/behavior that come with recovering from what I am going to assume is an opioid dependency/addiction. That DOES NOT mean he or she will stop loving and/or caring for you though. Like I said, in my case getting off dope allowed me to care for my significant other, let alone myself, in MUCH better, respectful, loving, mature, etc. etc., ways.
 
toothpastedog said:
I agree, sex on dope was the bomb, but this can be said of any opioid in my case at least.

To the OP, a past girlfriend feared the same thing after she learned I had been using dope throughout our entire 4 year relationship. The thing is though, even with the dope, and toward the end I was on the constant rollercoast ride that not being able to fund a bad habit and going through W/D every third day, I loved this girl. It was, and still is, the best relationship I've had with anyone. If anything, I feel more strongly and act in a more respectful and loving way when I'm not fucked up on heroin.

This all being said, I think it really depends on the individual. In most cases, especially if you never new your significant other when he or she was not using, you will experience certain changes in mood/behavior that come with recovering from what I am going to assume is an opioid dependency/addiction. That DOES NOT mean he or she will stop loving and/or caring for you though. Like I said, in my case getting off dope allowed me to care for my significant other, let alone myself, in MUCH better, respectful, loving, mature, etc. etc., ways.
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Damn bro, this post is basically exactly what i was trying to say, but more concise and clear. Exact same situation... and i was in SD until 3 weeks ago [just moved]
 
I dont know about heroin because ive never done it but have done other opiates & its definitely easier to talk to women, especially those hot ones that are hard to approach. Of course alcohol is the best when lowering your inhibitions but when I use to drink, I use to get crazy with how I would easily move in on women........waking up next to a girl you dont even remember her name is not cool.............opiates are a ton better.
 
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ballsdeep927 said:
If a guy is all flirty and kissy and lovey with you when hes on heroin, does that mean he likes you will sober too?
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Heroin does not really alter a person in the same way as other drugs like meth or acid, do.

Heroin does not impair your judgement, it doesn't cloud your mind, but enhances the things you already feel, and removes most negative feelings.

For me personally it gives me an energy boost, though if overtired it relaxes me enough to sleep, I can work faster and harder than anyone else at my workplace when on it, and I become bubbly and talkative, which I want to do sober, but never could due to issues.

If he likes you he likes you regardless of heroin.


Now if we were talking alcohol or meth, it MIGHT be a different story.

Of course I can't tell you accurately, but based on the limited info provided, that's what I THINK, and have personally experienced.

However
 
I'm not really sure that's a hard one to answer. I do agree with Antecessor that heroin makes me more talkative then normal. I'm gay and one of my best friends are straight. Before he left for rehab and I got on suboxen we would do massive amounts of heroin and would sleep in the same bed and somewhat cuddle. We would talk about anything and everything in bed for hours high as shit. We would always kinda wrap our legs around each other but it never seemed to be a big deal. When we were sober there was no cuddling with our legs or anything. Seemed to be just a heroin thing.
 
Znegative said:
I doubt that, I used to love having sex on dope and I'd be able to go hours at a time
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Never tried heroin before but sex on morphine, hydromorphone and oxycodone is fucking awesome. Getting it up is no problem for me no matter how high i am and as long as i don't do too much i can usually get off. Kinda hard to get off after shooting 200mg's of morphine though :\

Opiates don't make women appear more shaggable like alcohol does or even like amphetamines can do atleast not for me. However if I'm on opiates i can certainly be much more lovey dovey then i normally am. They also tend to make me much more sociable and in less of a cuntish mood overall. Granted everyone is different so who knows really.
 
hes most likely into you all the time and just gets the confidence to show it from dope. i used to be like that too, it gives you the confidence like alcohol without making you sorta stupid. so awesome.
 
It means the same as if he wasn't on dope. Maybe the rubbing and hugging was more than the usual 'cause he was more comfortable physically (ie like you'd rub your face against your pillow, lol). But the final reason why he was with you was because he wanted to. Be that for a fun night or be that 'cause he really wants you, that's another story!
 
max_ said:
It means the same as if he wasn't on dope. Maybe the rubbing and hugging was more than the usual 'cause he was more comfortable physically (ie like you'd rub your face against your pillow, lol). But the final reason why he was with you was because he wanted to. Be that for a fun night or be that 'cause he really wants you, that's another story!
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This. Despite its infamous reputation, heroin does not change one's perspective so drastically as, say, alcohol. I'm a pretty regular user, and I haven't noticed any change in my level of attraction to others high vs. sober.
 
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