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How does your sex drive differ from your partners'?

Is your sex drive higher than your partners'?

  • I'm female and I don't get as much as I'd like

    Votes: 68 16.4%

  • I'm female and my partner generally wants it more than me

    Votes: 49 11.8%

  • I'm male and I don't get as much as I'd like

    Votes: 141 34.0%

  • I'm male and my partner wants more than me

    Votes: 53 12.8%

  • Our sex drives are basically equal

    Votes: 104 25.1%
  • Total voters
    415
Ive Been with my s/o for just over a year. At the start it was about the same.. horny as all fuck four or five times a day. Its kinda dropped off as the relationship has progressed , to a few times a week. Id have to say thats my fault. She got pregnant three months into our relationship , so Ive been working my arse off to save money for when our baby arrives. Im usually too tired during the week , though if she initiates it i suddenly find some energy.lol..


I voted her wanting more...


Baby is due next sunday....
 
^^ Next sunday! How exciting :D Id be having lots of sex before the bub arrives hehe

We're both lucky enough to have fairly high sex drives =D Im extremely attracted to my partner in that sense, i've had the best sex of my life with him. And i know that maintaining a healthy sex life is important to both of us.
 
I've got no sex drive, one of reasons I can't maintain a steady relationship. God's way of punishing me is giving me extra-horny girlfriends and making Viagra prices through the roof.
 
me and my SO are equal but we always want it so we have a pretty high sex drives, makes for funs on public transport.
 
I'd say that our sex drives are pretty much equal. If I'm not to sore or she can't I want it as much as I can get it, and I'm pretty sure that goes for her too. We can't keep our hands off each other and that's exactly the way I like it ;)
 
SLM, first, HI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I've never been with a partner who had a sex drive like mine. NEVER. The more I have, the more I want. I actually got into arguments with my last boyfriend over it.

I think I'm abnormal though
 
im a guy and my girls sex drive is a little lower than mine. sometimes she wants to have a lot of sex, as opposed to me who ALWAYS wants to have a lot of sex. i get enough though, could be a little bit more but im satisfied! ive pestered her for hours, rubbing against her and everything and she wouldnt give in. she does that sometimes ;)
 
Im 34 and my girlfriend is 25 & she can go. I had sex with her 7 times within an 8 hour period. I only cumed 4 times but she is just hot in the ass. I learned the trick is to break her off 3 good times and she falls asleep. But I must say that when I am with her I am satisfied.
 
ok, well with my last sexual partner, she wanted a whole lot more than i did, but i have a very demanding job, i work about 14hrs a day, and i need to sleep. she only works about 10 hours a day....
 
Hatious said:
My fwb wants to fuck all the time. I thought I was horny ha! She always wants it all the time. Especially in public places. I've been having fun this summer. :)
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fwb? female with balls? :\
 
I'd like sex to be daily.

Unfortunately, he gets worn down faster than I do. Either he'll be too sore or too tired to even get it up.
 
Well I am a 40 year old male and my wife is a 23 year old and we have it daily, but even that is a chore for me at my age. I have no problem getting into it but she must iniate since I am at middle age. There was a time when I actually performed 11 times within 24 hours but that was far away and long ago. Relationships take pateince. the problem now is that I must make children and it has been a long time for that. Still, as long as I am daily about it it does not seem to be a problem.
 
me and my GFs is basicly pretty similar, except she tends to want it more in the morning where as i want it more in the evening, as right before bed it helps me to go to sleep.
 
I've been with my boyfriend about 6 months (with a one month break)

We started off pretty sexual... soon to jump into sex, and then we did it pretty often. Every time we saw eachother (4-5 days a week). Slowly it dwindled after about 3 months, until we didn't have sex once for two weeks.

Shortly after we broke up for a month, and then started having sex again, and now we've been back together for about a month or so. We were pretty heavy for a while... and then we made the mutual agreement to stop using condoms (I am on birth control, we are both safe) and ever since then we've been going at it like 3-4 times a day almost.

Good thing my period came because he was getting a little injured... and I sure could use some rest, too... lmao

We are both Tauruses (same birthday, 2 years apart) so we have crazy sex drives, and hot passionate sex. It's very nice.
 
Several yrs ago, I decided to include sex drive compatibility as one of the many important characteristics of a relationship. Not that is has to be for everyone, but my sex drive is pretty high and freaky.

So basically, I had to find a girl that:
1. had all the personality/physical attributes that I wanted in a woman
2. liked me back
3. a female version of Quagmire

You can only imagine the time it took to find the right one but patience pays off
:)

We are both Tauruses (same birthday, 2 years apart) so we have crazy sex drives, and hot passionate sex. It's very nice.
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That's my excuse too ;)
 
Immortal: How old are you? I am honest, and in fact according to data, average ...even above average since most my age for opt for 3 times weekly at most. I perform daily, despite a heavy opiate/opioid addcition going back to my teens.
 
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