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How does it make you feel when someone cries in front of you?

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And I mean someone at least mildly important to you... a friend, significant other, parent, sibling. etc..?
Does it make any of you uncomfortable? Maybe it makes you feel important? Sympathetic? Sad?

Has a stranger ever cried in front of you, or maybe someone you didn't know so well? How did you feel about that?

Personally I kind of like it (not because they're sad, I don't really know how to put it into words), just because it shows that the person is comfortable enough with you to express themselves in that way.
 
depends why they are crying

joy? i'm cool with that

laughter? cool

death? uncomfortable but jusitfiable

self pity over something minor? GTFO my face!
 
Consoling a female who is crying over something small has gotten me several dates and laid.

I generally don't cry but when I do it feels gut mane.
 
But my pants are just fine.

It started in highschool. We began eating lunch together and it progressed to skipping class. She came from more of a broken family than I did. She had several small problems that caused her to have panic attacks. I also think some of it might have been to seduce me but I still speculate over that one.

Anyway it continued for years and we became engaged.

We ended up separating anyhow, but I ended up meeting a couple other girlfriends who did something similar.

Maybe I attract goth chicks? My pants really are just fine.

What's your story "Awkward"?
 
Sympathetic... I mean, I don't want people to be sad, so I don't want anyone to cry. I'm also not good in those situations.
 
I usually don't know what to do or say, so I might hold them... Even if awkward.

Both times I'm thinking of, their parents had died. One was a guy and it was recent. One was a girl, and she broke down in front of me after just meeting me, about a father that died of cancer 6 or 7 years before.

Then the girl said she didn't know me a week later, when she went back to her job, stripping.

Emotions are funny. I am suspicious of them, and my own motivations for consoling/providing support. I think I have a decent handle of how it works though.
 
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I like when women cry.

Also. women love crying.

But mostly its funny to me.

I haven't cried in years.

Nothing is wrong with crying.

There are examples of tears near eyes that gross me out. For example, I'm not into deepthroat. Also spit is gross.

This is pretty random but there's this D12 interview, I think its from a movie, but there all stand hugging in a huddle crying and talking about kiling somebody. I think their eyes were dry.
 
Im one of those strange women who don't really ever cry so when anyone cries around me it freaks me the fuck out lol

I get really frustrated when someone close to me cries and I never know what to do. I usually hide if that option is available. :p and whenever I've dated someone it's been an issue because if my bf at the time cried over anything less than idk a death of an immediate family member for example ... I pretty much lose all respect for them and feel grossed out. But I'm a bitch honestly and I just really don't understand emotional things very well and it frustrates me and I handle situations the wrong way lol
 
Depends. Ussualy I want to comfort but if they are crying and refuse g any form of comfort from me I get really frustrated and angry. I don't actualy say it but in my head I'm just all like "shut the fuck up you attention whoring waste of time"
 
When people cry in front of, it generally makes me feel like taking advantage of them. Sometimes it just pisses me off though.
 
When my kids cry (for real. Not whining because they want something) It breaks me up.

Now when my brother-in-law is going to meet the dope man somewhere, but can't understand what he's saying because he can't speak spanish, and doesn't want to hand the phone over so me and dude can talk and possibly form a relationship (he was middlemanning us hard in those days. Fucking crook.) then cries in anguish when he hangs up the phone, it all I can do not to Riverdance with JOY. Love seeing that asshole cry.
 
Your brother in law cried in front of you because he couldn't score dope due to not speaking Spanish?

Dude..
 
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