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How does everyone have like 6,000 friends on Facebook?

it depends on the people you socialize with. i visited the US once and hung out with a bunch of high schoolers to skate. the next day i had 30 friend request and i hadnt even seen the majority of the people who were friending me. concidentally, these people all had a ton of facebook friends. some people just dont take it so seriously and add anyone they are remotely in contact with. others will carefully consider whose friend requests they accept, maybe these are the type of people you are trying to friend.

but seriously, dont worry about it. i know it can make you feel shitty, but there are so many people with thousands of friends on facebook who are incredibly lonely. and there are people with rich social lives and many friends who barely have any facebook friends.
 
rocketqueen said:
For those people that have 567 friends on a social networking site, my question is this: how many of them will come bail you out of jail should that unfortunate event occur? Oh, hey, whoops, you can't email in jail...
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it's not about actual friends though - it's about networking - like keeping a big fucking circle of people you can go to for advice, drugs, sex, teaching, etc etc the list goes on ya know?

I would say out of my facebook contacts only about 10 percent (maybe a bit more) are my actual friends - I never thought about it really.
 
Once my ex tried to prove he was more "popular" than me cuz he had more Facebook friends than me. It was when I was a bit more into Facebook. He was all "everyone just keeps adding me". I'm like, all my friends have added you too, cuz lots of people add acquaintances. I just happen to click "decline" or "reject" instead of "accept" in comparison to him ... gah. It's weird, he wasn't facebook obsessed, he just figured that he had more friends IRL just cuz he had more Facebook friends?
lmao

Some people have lots, some people don't have many. Depends what you use it for. It is an easy way of communication anymore.
 
^ yup.

llama112 said:
Once my ex tried to prove he was more "popular" than me cuz he had more Facebook friends than me. It was when I was a bit more into Facebook. He was all "everyone just keeps adding me". I'm like, all my friends have added you too, cuz lots of people add acquaintances. I just happen to click "decline" or "reject" instead of "accept" in comparison to him ... gah. It's weird, he wasn't facebook obsessed, he just figured that he had more friends IRL just cuz he had more Facebook friends?
lmao

Some people have lots, some people don't have many. Depends what you use it for. It is an easy way of communication anymore.
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That last sentence didn't make any sense.

THat's pretty fucking funny though. What a div.

Simply_Live said:
I thought there was a maximum of 5,000 friends you could have on facebook?
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Race to see who gets there first?
 
B1tO'RoughJack said:
That last sentence didn't make any sense.

THat's pretty fucking funny though. What a div.
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Should have explained my last sentence better :) It made sense in my head but obviously not when I wrote it :P

I mean some people have lots of friends, some people don't have many friends.
It depends what you use it for - whether you have lots of friends or not many. Do you use it as your main social circle or something? You'd probably have lots of friends. Do you use it for just staying in touch with old friends and family? Probably not as many. Do you use it for stalking? Lots of people do that, you'd have a lot of friends :p.

It was amusing. Ahh well. There is a reason he is an ex ;p
 
I honestly couldn't give a shit about how many friends on facebook, with all these updates to facebook its getting shitter and shitter to use !
 
I have about 230 friends on facebook. I rarely use it though. Most of the people that I would actually want to talk to, I talk to in person or by phone. It is useful to keep in touch or reconnect, but you shouldn't care about friending people that you don't really know or wouldn't normally talk to. The number of friends you have is completely irrelevant. What should matter is the percentage of facebook friends that you talk to. The people who have thousands of friends probably talk to less than 10% of them.
 
gosh man who gives a fuck about having a fraking even 5 hundred friends. Everyone you see with more than 500 freinds has atleast 3 or 4 hudret peope he has really almost no contact with. I only add the people I really know from social groups I visit or from school. Its not how many friends you have its how amny friends post on your wall. Like a good test to see how amny people really know you is when your birthday comes around. Probably only a quarter of your freinds will wish a you happy birtday if you have more than 200 freinds. I use to only add and exsept freidns I really only closly knew becasue its anoying not being able to speek with everyone in my freeind hsip list and I only have 280 friends. It comes with the years I usally dont add. I just acsept or decline.

I world worry baout the people you talk with. If your talking with 6 people a time and only have 30 friends thats great. If you have 500 friends and are onlky talking with 1 person at a time what good does it do you ?
 
U don't have to be in high school or go to club as some people suggested, I got 8,960 subscribers 5,157 friends, I have way too many requists that is why I came across this post, I was looking I way to add all pending friend requests, I am not a hooker, am not that crazy social, some random people through out the world love me, they add subscribe and am more than happy, who keeps their relatives or family on fb? No kidding hey make sure
1. Get ur self cute pic and accep people when they add u, u don't have to chat or know post some random nice stuff and boom 500 likes, post cute pic 1110 comments and 1200 likes, I created this account August 2011 incase u a wondering, people want u to be urself when u have coworkers family bosses u will end up having 80+ forever, expore the world be a celebrity and make friends all over the planet. Even if u are not social u will develop 2 b one. When models are evaluated, social networking score adds a huge part, no one needs ur boss, close friends, and family approval, have many friends as u can and please when ur dreams come true travel and help people who a in refugee camps, kids who lost their parents thro HIV/Aids, explore the world and be some1 who have values
 
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I've got a few friends who've got about 1000 ppl on facebook so I imagine they just add literally everyone they've ever met, even if they're never gonna see them again.
I have to confess I've got about 300+, only about 60-70 of which I actually check up on. But I dunno. I like it this way.
 
honestly most ppl on fb are whores for attention. theyll request ppl theyve never met bc they have mutual friends or think theyre sexy.that or they got drunk at a party together once and immedietly friend request eachother. i get random requests from ppl all the time from all over the world.

im not exaggerating when i say ppl use facebook like its literally their job
 
^eh. That's the case for a lot of people but I dunno if it's 'most'. I do really enjoy the site and like to think I'm not an attention whore ;)
 
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