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How do you pleasure yourself?

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eatmy_ladyparts

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Reading all these forums about sex, head, and drugs has honestly got me so hot and wet. I just gave myself hands down the best solo orgasm. I'm a very sexual person, wanting anytime, anywhere. BUT I can't get myself off...

My partner can give me multiple orgasms, I mean soaked sheets, body shaking, mind blowing orgasms.

Sadly I can't do it myself. I get super wet, so fucking horny, back arched and ready to let it go, its right there, I'm so fucking close. My pussy is literally throbbing... I'll be damned if that's it. I can't go any further. It all just stops. Wtf. I can continue fingering my tight hole, thumb deep inside, pointer in my ass, while my other hand works my clit, slap it a couple times for letting me down. Pull and pinch on my nipples hoping to send another spark. Nope.

What techniques do you use? Am I missing something? Honestly, I just want to make myself squirt, I want to be the one giving MYSELF a unforgettable fucking orgasm..
 
Have you tried toys/vibrators? Best vibrator I've found for squirting is the Ultime. I honestly prefer it with the vibrate function off. http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B008D..._UL300_SR300,300_&refRID=082XRWRDHGF6M1CEHKX0
Best vibrator for clitoral orgasms is hands down the Hitachi magic wand. Orgasms possible in less than a minute flat. Use through a cloth or towel if the vibration is too strong directly against your skin. http://www.amazon.com/VIBRATEX-HV-260-Magic-Wand-Massager/dp/B00005M1WE

If you like anal simulation get a little silicone butt plug to free up your hands.

I always masturbate with toys. My hands are tiny and can't do the same things my lovers can efficiently. Definitely look into some accoutrements. ;)

I've also found that with a partner I squirt easier while on my back but by myself it's easier when I'm on my knees. Try different positions.
 
It sounds like you aren't using enough of one of your senses... how would you feel about tasting yourself? I don't mean "lick that finger because it got dry, so it slides better", I mean, as you feel yourself getting wetter, tell yourself that you wish you could lick yourself and lap up all that yummy goodness. Then, put two fingers in you, pull them out, look at all the juice on your fingers, then SAVOR your taste! Imagine using a teaspoon, and eating yourself like an ice cream sundae. Think about how many guys have begged for a chance to taste you, and they don't even know that you taste so GOOD!

If you want to learn how to give yourself an unforgettable orgasm, you have to learn to LOVE your pussy. How it looks (take photos, look at them while jilling).. how it feels... how it smells (panties, sniff them).. how it tastes. You have to love your taste enough that when you can't jill-off, you sometimes think about how soon it can be until you can give yourself another taste.
 
You need to get a bullet vibrator and place it on your clit as you finger fuck your self . You will cum for sure.

While I watch porn I place my bullet vibrator on my clit and just enjoy the view. And eventually I start feeling that pressure build. Then before you know it I have a nice pretty strong clitoral orgasm.

I prefer vaginal orgasms to come from penetration from my gspot toys , dildos or my mans fingers or his dick. Lately , it's just Been my bullet vibrator and nothing else. Ugh oh well.

Amazon has those bullet vibrators.
I got mine from a Passion Party get together. It's where a sales lady comes by (like Avon) and sells lubee, vibes, dildos, lingerie and all that. It was fun. Out of all my friends that were their I was the only one that bought something . They wet so prudish and kept saying their "man" was offended by sex toys! Oh well their loss.

Hope you find your orgasm
Come back and let us know how it works out for ya
 
I wake up every morning with a sopping wet pussyIf my husband is home I'll just have him take care of it but when he travels my 10 inch didldo does overtime. Or my GF will come over for a naked play day and we slowly work those toys to maximum effect.
 
Toys, toys, and more toys! add some music that gives you rythm or euphoria and your gana be feeling damn good.

If thats not enough add in some porn that has your desires in it

And dont forget thers tons of great drugs for it as well, to really amp the pleasure up if, thats your thing =)
 
Depends. My fave is when no ones home and I can run the bath water over my pussy. Or if possible use a shower head. Usually I just spread my pussy and rub my clit in a circular motion. I rub up and down, teasing myself. Almost fingering myself but not quite. Rub the wetness everywhere and go back and forth to the clit until I cant take it anymore.
 
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