As far as meeting a dealer, start inquiring about softer drugs like weed, just randomly throw a joke in about getting stoned, usually this will help find a fellow toker, I mean don't say something jokingly then jump right in and ask do they smoke. Feel things out a while. During a conversation bring up something about medical marijuana, this will usually pinpoint if someone is cool with it. After you find someone cool in that area, then move on to harder drugs like cocaine, or pharms. It may take a little work, but this should get you what you want eventually.
