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How do you deal with dealers blowing you off?

addictfiend

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Anyone ever been in a situation where you only know one dealer in town with high quality drug(s) that you have been customer to for 4 years and then get suddenly blown off/the cold shoulder?

They're been incredibly nice to me since last month, they have a full-time job, I don't bother them, but when they say they'll text me when they're available it usually means I'm going to be left hanging again.

How do you guys deal with that stress?
 
Anyone ever been in a situation where you only know one dealer in town with high quality drug(s) that you have been customer to for 4 years and then get suddenly blown off/the cold shoulder?

They're been incredibly nice to me since last month, they have a full-time job, I don't bother them, but when they say they'll text me when they're available it usually means I'm going to be left hanging again.

How do you guys deal with that stress?

Dude, it's very simple. I'm guessing you know other users of your drug of choice? If not, make it a priority to meet them. It really shouldn't be difficult, depending on the drug (which is what, by the way? Which drug it is changes the nature of the users and the most likely places to find them, thus changing the answer). All you have to do is ask other users who their guy is and if it's the same guy network a little and make friends with other users and find more dealers. Another key point is not to be putty in your dealers hands - you have to set a line. I had a dealer before, and I'd call him, usually when I was getting sick, and he'd always say he'll be with me in ten minutes, no matter how long it was going to take him. Every time I called he'd say "ten minutes" or "five minutes", sometimes stringing me along like that for up to an hour! Needless to say, I grew tired of it. His stuff was good but not worth that shit. So, I started calling him every time I needed something, and I'd always set a limit - I would wait 20 minutes, then go to a different guy instead. So after he'd told me "ten minutes" twice, I'd just call him and apologize and say that I really had to go. I repeated the process, and eventually he got the message, and came a damn sight faster, and stopped lying about how long he'd be. If your guy knows he can text you and you'll come running, as you have done for 4 years, he doesn't think he has to put effort in to keep you sweet.

This answer can be personalized a LOT more if you elaborate on what drug you're buying. The advice for finding suppliers of MDMA will be hugely different on finding suppliers of heroin, for example. It's pretty weird you've talked around it but haven't included the actual drug in your post - I have no idea why you'd intentionally make a point of leaving your drug of choice out, but my advice is if its because your username can be linked to you and its incriminating, then you should pick a new username.
 
The only advice I can give (but I think it's damn good advice & and it's advice which has been echoed by other posters) is to find other dealers and users. Develop your connections by going through different people, and when the time comes YOU will be the one ignoring the dealer, because that asshole didn't respond to you within ten minutes of your text/phone call and you've already got another source coming through. If someone thinks they have a monopoly on some drug you desperately want, forget it, they will become totally complacent...develop your connections and reward good business practices.

Whenever a friend of mine wanted drugs he would send a mass text message to every dealer he knew and the first one to respond (usually within the first few minutes) would be the one he'd go through. That's how it's done :)
 
The only advice I can give (but I think it's damn good advice & and it's advice which has been echoed by other posters) is to find other dealers and users. Develop your connections by going through different people, and when the time comes YOU will be the one ignoring the dealer, because that asshole didn't respond to you within ten minutes of your text/phone call and you've already got another source coming through. If someone thinks they have a monopoly on some drug you desperately want, forget it, they will become totally complacent...develop your connections and reward good business practices.

Whenever a friend of mine wanted drugs he would send a mass text message to every dealer he knew and the first one to respond (usually within the first few minutes) would be the one he'd go through. That's how it's done :)

Hell yes! Plus one to this! That's a fucking awesome bit of advice man, couldn't have put it better myself! And your "friend" sounds like a wise man, haha. Personally, I never had any problems finding drugs until my heroin problem escalated into full-on addiction. Unfortunately ironic that when my need for a drug grew greater than I'd ever needed a drug in my entire life, for fear of terrible sickness coming on, I found myself relying on the fucking slowest, douchiest group of dealers I'd ever had. I was used to buying all sorts of drugs, but primarily weed, and without fail I'd call one of the many guys I had that sold it and they'd be at my door in under fifteen minutes. Fucking heroin dealers though? Forget about it. Literally every single one of the bastards was ALWAYS going to be ten minutes or fifteen minutes, and without fail they'd always always take longer. It didn't make any fucking sense why they all lied about it, when I clocked how I was being taken for a mug by all of them, the first thing I did was tell them all that if they're gonna be blatantly dishonest about how long they're going to be, don't expect me to call them back more than once, and I'll take my business elsewhere. When they were all used to that, I'd do a similar thing to you, Burnt Offerings, I'd call all of them to get a quote on how quickly they could drop me however much I wanted, and I'd go with the fastest one. I allowed them ten minutes leeway, but if they said 15 minutes and 26 minutes later I still didn't have heroin in my possession, I'd call them and tell them that I had to go. If they tried to get mouthy I'd just tell them that the reason I asked how long they were gonna be was because I was going to work, and that next time they should be honest about how long they were going to be. It didn't take very long of this at all for a couple to stand out as being consistently reliable and speedy all of a sudden, and before I knew it I'd "trained" my group of heroin dealers to be just as good as the weed dealers I was used. In my experience, a lot of dealers will treat you like a mug if you let them. If they know that you'll happily wait an hour and wait patiently like a little dog then they'll do that and prioritize their customers that hold them to their word. You've got to appear to adopt the mindset that they want your money more than you want their drugs - you have to present that image at all times, because if they sense that you need their business more than they need your custom, they will essentially treat you like a bitch.

I don't know where you live OP but unless it's in some backwater little rural village in the middle of nowhere then it sure as hell shouldn't be a seller's market, no mater what the drug. The only little caveat I'd add to Burnt Offerings' brilliant post is a little piece of advice if you're still networking and branching out looking for new connects but haven't found any yet - you have to make sure you can back up the threat of taking your business elsewhere with aciton. For example, if you bluff and tell your guy that you have to go somewhere, or that if he messes you around you're not gonna buy off him, and he calls your bluff by fucking you around and you buy off him anyway, you're still gonna be putty in his hands. Now, I can't be specific here because of the rules on sourcing, but we live in the 21st century mate, nobody with money need to go drugless these days, do some research on the deep web. I can't be anymore specific than that for fear of reprisal, but if I were you, I'd use the deep web to your advantage, buy some of your DOC, and then call your guy and if he messes you around you can tell him you're going elsewhere and then just dip into your stash. Rinse & repeat till your dude fixes up and starts treating you like the loyal customer you've been. If you clarify what your DOC is I can give you some more specific tailored advice on where to find new connections for it if you're totally stuck.
 
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Yeah heroin dealers are the worst sometimes. All the heroin dealers around where I live are also heroin addicts, so sometimes they will be nodding out or unconscious when you call them, nodding out when you pass them money, like "hey asshole, I'm trying to give you money! monnnn-aaaaaaayyyyyy!" I've seen some pretty funny rage moments involving heroin junkies getting a "yes" text message back to the inquiry "are you good?", and then just getting no response after that lol

Meth dealers are much better because they're always awake and are always on the grind for the most part. But they can be kind of sketchier and represent a more dangerous and legitimately fucked up criminal element (at least that's the case around these parts...)
 
Yeah heroin dealers are the worst sometimes. All the heroin dealers around where I live are also heroin addicts, so sometimes they will be nodding out or unconscious when you call them, nodding out when you pass them money, like "hey asshole, I'm trying to give you money! monnnn-aaaaaaayyyyyy!" I've seen some pretty funny rage moments involving heroin junkies getting a "yes" text message back to the inquiry "are you good?", and then just getting no response after that lol

Meth dealers are much better because they're always awake and are always on the grind for the most part. But they can be kind of sketchier and represent a more dangerous and legitimately fucked up criminal element (at least that's the case around these parts...)

Hahahah! Shit man, I can SO relate to that, the amount of times I've thought to myself "I literally have money in my fucking hand waiting to be given to you, get you're fucking act together holy shit", I actually thought it to myself just yesterday and it pissed e off and I wasn't even buyng the drugs for ME. The worst part of the whole experience for me was always waiting with other junkies. I hated associating with all of the junkies around my area at the very best of times, but holy fuck were they annoying to wait with. When I'm getting sick and I'm waiting for my guy to show up, I liked to attempt to try to enter a zen-like state where I know he's coming so try not to stress about it and just wait, but they made it fucking impossible. If they had credit they'd be calling him every 2 mins as they get increasingly irate, if they didn't have credit they'd literally be askng to use my phone every minutes. If I was sicker than them I'd just be thinking to myself "oh my god you're such a pussy I'm twice as sick as you are and I'm not hopping around like a little bitch", if they were sicker than me you'd just want them to shut the fuck up cos you knew that that was a reminder of whats in store for you. Also if I had £1 for every time I'd heard "thats it, thats it, he's taking the fucking piss, I'm gonna rob him, wait till he gets here and watch me, I'm going to steal all his money and all his drugs and I'm gonna rob him, he'll regret making me wait this long, does he know who I am because I swear when he gets here I'm literally gonna rob him" followed by the guy turning up and Mr Hard Man suddenly saying "heey, alright mate! how you doing, no worries about the wait dont worry about it....." then I'd be a fucking well off man! I don't know if its just all users round here are total pricks but you can probably tell why I kept my contact with other junkies as to an absolute minimum.

Also, that's really odd about dealer demographics. I've never known a heroin dealer who also used in my life, I always figured being a heroin addict and dealing as well was kinda imcompatible, I guess? But with all other dealers, most of them have also used the product they sold - especially coke dealers & the speed/pill guys as well. I never got high enough up the chain with hard drug dealers to meet any of the real criminal element, I only ever got to deal exclusively with the relatively small-time street dealers. I imagine it's a little intimidating!
 
Thanks guys. I'm just talking about high quality weed. Still no answer from my dealer and I've reupped from someone else for the time being. It's a little frustrating to me because I was always said to be a friend of the dealer but then they put me through the shit.

The problem I feel is they don't really need my business because they have a full time job but they still sell to help friends out.
 
Thanks guys. I'm just talking about high quality weed. Still no answer from my dealer and I've reupped from someone else for the time being. It's a little frustrating to me because I was always said to be a friend of the dealer but then they put me through the shit.

The problem I feel is they don't really need my business because they have a full time job but they still sell to help friends out.

Always said to be a friend... what makes you friends besides that he sells you drugs? Lol
 
Really what can you do? Besides going Rambo on the guy to show you mean business lol.
The only real option is to keep your eyes open for a new hookup that will be more responsive and respectfull of your time and money.
 
That's what just happened to me lol!!! well not lol!! Fuckin disappeared for a week ended up finding out I blocked him with my butt like butt dial but butt block on iPhone it's not impossible and I was spam texting him begging him to come offering extra money asking if I offended him the entire time he was replying I wasn't getting the texts ... Fuckin makes you look so sad and low I hate it
 
Also, that's really odd about dealer demographics. I've never known a heroin dealer who also used in my life, I always figured being a heroin addict and dealing as well was kinda imcompatible, I guess? But with all other dealers, most of them have also used the product they sold - especially coke dealers & the speed/pill guys as well. I never got high enough up the chain with hard drug dealers to meet any of the real criminal element, I only ever got to deal exclusively with the relatively small-time street dealers. I imagine it's a little intimidating!

Some heroin dealers have really good connections and can afford to get themselves high for free basically, by buying dope in a bulk amount and then selling by the point to a variety of people, or selling slightly overcharged half grams/grams etc.

The heroin scene here is pretty laid back and it's basically comprised of dealer-users, I don't think that there's any sort of organized crime element that dominates it (I live in a very rural area though). That's not the case with methamphetamine, the trade of which is controlled by the local 1% motorcycle gangs. I've known some people around here who've pushed some serious weight. They invariably also smoke and/or shoot their own product too, on a regular basis, making their mental states range from simply being annoying to straight-up paranoid psychosis.
 
Some heroin dealers have really good connections and can afford to get themselves high for free basically, by buying dope in a bulk amount and then selling by the point to a variety of people, or selling slightly overcharged half grams/grams etc.

The heroin scene here is pretty laid back and it's basically comprised of dealer-users, I don't think that there's any sort of organized crime element that dominates it (I live in a very rural area though). That's not the case with methamphetamine, the trade of which is controlled by the local 1% motorcycle gangs. I've known some people around here who've pushed some serious weight. They invariably also smoke and/or shoot their own product too, on a regular basis, making their mental states range from simply being annoying to straight-up paranoid psychosis.

You can be certain that if you went higher up the chain of heroin distributors you would very, very quickly find organized crime.
 
That's how it is in Los Angeles it's user dealers here , but my user dealer buys ounce or two at a time from a Mexican organization that brings it in vacuum sealed kilo bags and then to him than to me you for sure have organized crime you need to be very organized to bring in that much weight consistently and not get busted
 
You can be certain that if you went higher up the chain of heroin distributors you would very, very quickly find organized crime.

This no doubt, there is always another dealer out there pushin the same shit.
Could be much better could be much worse, bounce around till you find the one that suits you best.
 
It's funny i have friend who hooks people up with stuff and his pet hate is people telling him to rush rush rush. Often i'm using at his place and his phone is going crazy with calls from people who want such and such amount but they already owe him and they only have half the money and want credit.

It works both ways and trust me being a drug dealer has it ups and downs too, apart from law enforcement that is
 
You can be certain that if you went higher up the chain of heroin distributors you would very, very quickly find organized crime.

Not in this area, though, as far as I can tell. I think that there is some cartel influence in the nearest major city but that's 350 miles away from where I live.

Of course if you go back far enough in any drug supply chain you'll eventually find major wholesale distributers but those kinds of people don't exist in my area...if they did the price of heroin wouldn't be as expensive as it is compared to the rest of the United States. (In contrast to meth, where local manufacturing still does take place.)

Also I guess at least some of the H up here is "suitcased" in from the west coast cities like Los Angeles.
 
It's funny i have friend who hooks people up with stuff and his pet hate is people telling him to rush rush rush. Often i'm using at his place and his phone is going crazy with calls from people who want such and such amount but they already owe him and they only have half the money and want credit.

It works both ways and trust me being a drug dealer has it ups and downs too, apart from law enforcement that is

Being a drug dealer is a worthless soul sucking job IMO (apart from legal ramifications). Everyone acts all friendly and smiles at you and pretends to like you, but if you didn't have the dope they couldn't give a shit whether you lived or died. Plus everyone seems to think that they're smarter than you are for some strange reason (although I've met plenty of stupid drug dealers, so maybe this prejudice has some basis in reality). That's without getting into the fact that (depending on the drug that's being sold) you're feeding someone's fucked up self-destructive substance habit...I mean everyone ultimately has to take responsibility for their own decisions and actions, but it can't feel good if you have any sort of conscience at all.
 
Not in this area, though, as far as I can tell. I think that there is some cartel influence in the nearest major city but that's 350 miles away from where I live.

Of course if you go back far enough in any drug supply chain you'll eventually find major wholesale distributers but those kinds of people don't exist in my area...if they did the price of heroin wouldn't be as expensive as it is compared to the rest of the United States. (In contrast to meth, where local manufacturing still does take place.)

Also I guess at least some of the H up here is "suitcased" in from the west coast cities like Los Angeles.

Dude, heroin is made from opium that's grown from poppies, the vast, vast majority of it in the Middle East and SE Asia. How do you think it gets onto the street in your area? The production and wholesale of heroin is exclusively in the hands of sophisticated, organized crime rings and it's the same all over the world. Just because the street-level suppliers don't belong to any particular gang, and perhaps even the dealers who supply the street-level dealers may not belong to a gang, but that doesn't mean that the heroin in your area is made from local poppies or that it's just appeared spontaneously. I don't know why you think your area is different from the rest of the world, man - what's made you believe that your area is unique in that the heroin supply isn't in the hands of large, sophisticated, organized criminal groups?
 
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