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How do you deal with a very small penis? Support and advice needed:

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I think if you pitched it right, a tiny dick could be a feature! Certainly it would be a different angle, and hence mysterious/intriguing. Possibly girls will take you home just to see if your dick is as small as you say it is. Just make sure your a pro kisser.
 
Ok a more accurate analogy would be the tightness/looseness of a pussy. I dont mind if a pussy is a bit loose, albeit i have a nicely sized penis. I just am less inclined to come back for seconds. I guess its kind of like, if my penis is already inside a girl, im not really at the point where im being fussy, because no doubt, much foreplay and sexual tension has occured prior to experiencing this pussy being loose, that i no longer give a shit. Of course, after the deed is done i will think... hmm, this pussy aint that good, i dont think ill hit this girl up again. If youve already got a girl in your bed and its at the point where your dicks out.. shes probably so wet that she doesnt give a fuck. Just expect that repeat business is probably less likely than someone with a larger more satisfying penis.
 
I_need_dat said:
I had a boyfriend with a very small penis and not a lot of confidence. The combination of the two was a problem. I've also had a boyfriend who was smaller than average who thought his junk could move mountains. We always were in bed.
Love what you have and enhance your positives. Learn great oral techniques and how to stimulate the G spot with your fingers.
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"Love what you have and enhance your positives" is great advice! No use feeling sorry for yourself, accept what you have and make sure you know how to make it work for you and any womam you'

morpher001 said:
I think if you pitched it right, a tiny dick could be a feature! Certainly it would be a different angle, and hence mysterious/intriguing. Possibly girls will take you home just to see if your dick is as small as you say it is. Just make sure your a pro kisser.
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This is true also. It has happened to me, if you have a reputation for something like that, some people will be intrigued by it. Doesn't have to be a negative thing, just make sure you know how to use it and really surprise them!
 
tender lamb shank said:
Well moonyham, the comparison is pretty much irrelevant seeing as a girls nipples are almost purely aesthetic from a guys perspective whereas dicks aren't
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But, anatomically speaking, the difference between a four and a half inch penis and a six inch penis is merely aesthetic.

You could argue that a larger penis simply looks more appealing and so it serves a utilitarian purpose in that respect by turning you on, or, whatever. But then I would argue that one's inverted, cauliflower nipples would turn me so far off to the point that my bracciole would want to jump off and run the other way.

At the end of the day, in the dark and under the covers, nipples are nipples, dicks are dicks, and the size and shape of either are (for the most part) merely aesthetic...
 
You deal with it very easily. You think the saying is true people with high I.Q's have smaller penises. But i tend to disagree on that old wives tale. Ill give you 3 great choices. Or 2 do not have sex so no one but you will know the size just look at porn the rest of your life. And 3 if thats the case take a vow of celibacy and become a priest. If all else fails man. Make sure the girl is totally plastered out of here mind she wont know the difference if your johnny holmes or lil johhny. I have been fortunate to put that old stigmatization to rest that black men have larger penises than your white men. Well that may be true to some but in recent survey's and studies it all even's out white black or spanish we all equal out anywhere from 3 inches to the extreme of 16. And i have been blessed to fall in the upper spectrum. But with a big head and overconfidence carries sometimes a lifetime of negative consequences whether you get in porn or not. there are over 50 std's out their so becarefeul sorry seen this thread had to post
 
tender lamb shank said:
I dunno man I reckon they'd feel pretty different inside but I would be speculating seeing as I don't have a womans anatomy
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Feedback from female friends of mine has always suggested differences in girth are more likely to be felt than length. I'm sure there is a difference in how a 4 inch penis feels compared to a 6 inch one, but it isn't going to be a dealbreaker.
 
I would agree with you on that quote. Every girl i ever asked said That width is more important than length. Agreed Especially if you have a width of say the inside of a empty toilet paper roll 5 1/4 around. Than well your blessed again. Anywayt as far as alot of women saying o its how they use it size does not matter. Give me a darn break They are not trying to hurt an ego or are being modest. It may not matter if they just want to sit their and get no enjoyment out of it? its like whats the importance of sex is to orgasm. And i do not think even if they can work it like a professional hula Hooperif they are 3 inches. The girls not going to feel it or enjoy it. So i wish they would stop saying that. But on one more note. Having to big of a penis is not good either because it will hurt the girl. You can not fit it all the way in. And its to big you can not work it like you want to or just dont know how. The ladies i talked to said guys with 10 or above suck they cant use it. Avg. 6 inches is ok. But 90% prefer a guy to be above avg. 7-8 and that's there Top number. This is all taken not just off of me but also various survey's Any one Agree here'
Draugen said:
Feedback from female friends of mine has always suggested differences in girth are more likely to be felt than length. I'm sure there is a difference in how a 4 inch penis feels compared to a 6 inch one, but it isn't going to be a dealbreaker.
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verso said:
But, anatomically speaking, the difference between a four and a half inch penis and a six inch penis is merely aesthetic.

You could argue that a larger penis simply looks more appealing and so it serves a utilitarian purpose in that respect by turning you on, or, whatever. But then I would argue that one's inverted, cauliflower nipples would turn me so far off to the point that my bracciole would want to jump off and run the other way.

At the end of the day, in the dark and under the covers, nipples are nipples, dicks are dicks, and the size and shape of either are (for the most part) merely aesthetic...
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Well if you look at the analogy as you are than nothing matter's all would be considered equal. So i guess for some turn the kitchen light off feed someone a piece of mouth watering steak. Than feed them a piece of raw uncooked pork. And see which one they prefer. Testing that food is food and no matter what its all edible goes in one way out the other at the end of the day right? Well i guess some people would eat anything to survive and some people are fortunate enough to eat what they like and most times choose that because that is more enjoyable to eat something you like. So is not the point of sex to be enjoyable. I mean if a person say a lady is just having sex to please her husband and not getting any enjoyment out of it. She is mentally ill, or is very challanged in bonding and sexual relations. And the bottom line is for alot of women they can not enjoy sex. If the man's penis is not even big enough to be felt. it becomes a chore not a pleasure. Why do you think they made dildo's and women cheat. They say if their man can not satisfy them they will get it elsewhere. So at the end of the day maybe according to 5-10% of women really do not care. But im going with the majority here and sticking to the fact. That women prefer a larger penis, or atleast one that would give them pleasure. Which should be 5 1/2 or better, And a man prefer's a woman to have some sort of walls. I mean your not going to find it enjoyable if its like throwing a hot dog down a tunnel now are you?:D i liked that one. Anyway i had to reply and disagree but that's just me.
 
simmerman said:
If the man's penis is not even big enough to be felt. it becomes a chore not a pleasure.
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OK. So, then let's review the female anatomy for just a second: You've got the clitoris front and center, the g-spot at high noon and about one to one and a half inches inside the vagina, and the greatest concentration of pleasure-registering nerve endings just two inches inside the vagina and no further back than that, really.

Now, explain to me how a six inch penis would hit those spots but a four inch penis would not; or, explain to me how a six inch penis would hit those spots any differently than a four inch penis.
 
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Well i would if i could but i can not explain your answer if it were true or not. Because though i know about the female anatomy, i do not have one. Therefore i have to go by the majority of those that do have it and their response to sex. I have not had a 4 inch or 6 inch penis in me speaking as if i had a vagina because im a man and i do not. So i would not know how either are felt or what the difference is unless i was a woman. Its true what you claim about the anatomy. And with the facts 2 inches should be enough because yes the nerve endings and most sensitive Spots are the first 2-3 inches inside a woman. So maybe with the woman as with the man. Its psychological. He thinks his penis is small so she must not feel it. Or she wont so whats the point in trying. And the woman could be like that little thing he expects me to get pleasure out of that. So their mind tells themselves if its not a certain length im not going to enjoy it as much. its the stigma of it all i suppose bigger is better. But that does not make it accurate or correct. /you are right in that statement my friend

Now, explain to me how a six inch penis would hit those spots but a four inch penis would not; or, explain to me how a six inch penis would hit those spots any differently than a four inch penis.[/QUOTE]
 
simmerman said:
Well i would if i could but i can not explain your answer if it were true or not. Because though i know about the female anatomy, i do not have one. Therefore i have to go by the majority of those that do have it and their response to sex. I have not had a 4 inch or 6 inch penis in me speaking as if i had a vagina because im a man and i do not. So i would not know how either are felt or what the difference is unless i was a woman. Its true what you claim about the anatomy. And with the facts 2 inches should be enough because yes the nerve endings and most sensitive Spots are the first 2-3 inches inside a woman. So maybe with the woman as with the man. Its psychological. He thinks his penis is small so she must not feel it. Or she wont so whats the point in trying. And the woman could be like that little thing he expects me to get pleasure out of that. So their mind tells themselves if its not a certain length im not going to enjoy it as much. its the stigma of it all i suppose bigger is better. But that does not make it accurate or correct. /you are right in that statement my friend

Now, explain to me how a six inch penis would hit those spots but a four inch penis would not; or, explain to me how a six inch penis would hit those spots any differently than a four inch penis.
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A 6 inch dick will push the sexual boundaries, something like a four can't do.....
 
you ever seen a women get plowed by a huge cock, she squirms, hollars, grunts, moans and roars

a 4 inch dick wont do any of that to a woman
 
Petite girls usually have smaller vaginas. Find a chick that is really little and she will probably be glad you have a 4.5 inch dick.
 
I was actually quoting someone else but im new to blue light so its look as if that was my quote at the bottom of my last post it was not. but i agree with what you said. that quote was sarcasm
 
Need4speed said:
you ever seen a women get plowed by a huge cock, she squirms, hollars, grunts, moans and roars
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"a women"? lol. if your view of sex generally is shaped in large part by watching porn - as yours seems to be - there will be a gap between what you expect and reality.
Need4speed said:
a 4 inch dick wont do any of that to a woman
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maybe you're not doin' it right?

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