how do i convince my parter to do bondage without being pushy or peer pressuring

[koolman69420]

im really into bondage stuff like ropes and restraing them down but i wanna be respectful upon offering and dont push it too hard but also say why i want it in the first place

 

[M!$TER-ED]

Why do you want bondage? Curious Is bondage a control thing that excites you? Not being judgmental, just don't understand?

 

[PenguinWithNapalm]

im really into bondage stuff like ropes and restraing them down but i wanna be respectful upon offering and dont push it too hard but also say why i want it in the first place

When you guys are getting sexy read the room and just just say something like “can I tie you up? I think it would be hot” if she is appalled at the idea then leave it alone for a while. I doubt she will just give you a stone cold no. It isn’t like it’s some uncommon thing. That’s what I did

 

[koolman69420]

Why do you want bondage? Curious Is bondage a control thing that excites you? Not being judgmental, just don't understand?

idk bondage as a whole is just a sexy thing, its kinda like just looking at titties it just activates you in general maybe it could be a control thing but i dont wanna be a rapist lol

 

[abefourth]

im really into bondage stuff like ropes and restraing them down but i wanna be respectful upon offering and dont push it too hard but also say why i want it in the first place

bondage is hawt...lack of consent is nawt. Just make sure they're cool with it. You can be propositional without being disrespectful. You seem like a respectibal dude. Just go with it.

If she's cool than I doubt you respectfully asking her will do any harm. At worst she'll probably say no. If you're respectful about it I bet she'll be willing to move on if she doesn't want it. But it depends on what you're willing to not do in your relationship.

Don't be too worried to ask.

 

[PenguinWithNapalm]

Why do you want bondage? Curious Is bondage a control thing that excites you? Not being judgmental, just don't understand?

Both. It excited you BECAUSE it is a control thing

 

[SoCalShordie]

im really into bondage stuff like ropes and restraing them down but i wanna be respectful upon offering and dont push it too hard but also say why i want it in the first place

Just have a conversation about it. I did a lot of bondage content when I was in adult film. I ended up loving it! It can be super fun and liberating when done correctly.

I’d recommend just having an honest conversation about it. Just tell her it’s something you’re into and would love to try with her. And how hot you think she’d look tied up. Talk to her about safety and that everything would be within the realm of her comfort zone. Start light, maybe just her wrists bound with a length of rope. Rope is very comfortable, don’t do the handcuffs thing lol.