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How did you meet your current significant other? *merged*

We have been aquaintences for years...live in a small town and have the same general peer group of friends and aquaintences. He also used to be one of a few roomates in a house that my ex fiance lived. Ive just known him a long time and we have always thought each other was hot and hooked up occasionally throughout the years..eventually we just wanted to be with each other and it felt right so here we are. :)
 
we met at a local show. the detailed story of how we met is quite interesting... i'll post it later. anyway, it's been over a year, we're still incredibly happy and i'm positive he's 'the one'.
 
Met at a local pub. I was waiting for a couple of friends for dinner. We struck up a conversation. When my friends arrived I told him he was more than welcome to join us. He did. Needless to say, we skipped dinner and stayed and talked all night. We are getting married in October.
 
My bf and I met on the bus in Elementary school (K to 5th grade.) He was a grade higher than me.

We went to the same Middle and Highschool. We became good friends in highschool and he developed a crush on me. We hooked up on New Years. :)

Now we are both in college... finishing up. =D
 
I met my fiance on New Years Eve 04 @ at a mutual friends party. He wasnt my type but he was really nice. Through out the night I noticed he was alone a lot because he wasnt constantly talking and moving about he waited for friends to come to him, I did see him looking at me quite a bit though. After being at the local bar for awhile before hitting an afterparty I made fun of him for spilling his beer, then right before we left he made fun of me because i spilled one as well. Next thing you know we are all piling into cars to drive to the afterparty and I get put in his car front seat. My pill started coming on and I became chatty Cathy. I asked him to come to the ATM with me and he was really nice during the walk, gave me his jacket because I was cold etc etc...after that walk we were inseperable. I kissed him and invited him back to the house to get it on... I thought it would be a one nihgt stand seeing as he was older, has kids and besides I was fucked up on nye...what did i know. Little did I know that the next day he made me breakfast in bed, and every night after that we went on dates. I moved in 5 months later and now were gonna get married!
 
fancyfresh used to work at a cafe next door to the building i work in. I admired her for a few months from a distance but did not delude myself into thoughts that i even had a chance. I thought she would definitely already be with someone. A workmate of mine got sick of me mentioning her and approached her and asked if she was seeing anyone and got her name. She also put in a good word and the next day i went down and got her number. We went for a drink that friday night, and then made subsequent dinner and drink dates.
Six months later we've married, live together and have just returned from china where i met her rather large extended family.
 
We met at a Motherfucker party.

Then we kissed at a costume party. He was wearing blue face paint that got all over my face. I was upset about that, so I washed it off and ran away from him for the rest of the night.

Apparently he had a huge crush on me and I had no idea. But he never actually made a point of getting my number because i'd idly asked for his, and he expected ME to call HIM. And I expected HIM to call ME because I'd read "he's just not that into you."

We had a few more missed connections and finally, after he had more or less gotten over me, we met up again at Burning Man, talked and went our separate ways for the evening. He thought he was going to meet a million new girls on the playa, but he ended up running into me again at center camp. (Strange coincidence, because Burning Man is huge and the chances of such a meeting are slim.) We spent the rest of the night vibing, and we've been together ever since. :)

A lot of people meet their soulmates at Burning Man. The energy is conducive to bringing the right people together.
 
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I met mine on here :)/:\

I'd seen a few pics and liked his posts, then saw the pic in this post and decided it was pretty funny to still think he was hot in that pic.

We exchanged a few funny pm's and soon after started chatting on msn, 4-5 hours a night, and found out we had an immense amount in common.
After about a month I found out he liked a weird obscure board game that I love. I'd been thinking of suggesting I go visit him and that cemented the idea in my mind, so that night I booked a flight to go see him the next weekend (he was in Sydney and I was in Brisbane).
Despite the 'bler you want to fuck' bit, at that stage it wasn't about hooking up, we just wanted to meet because we knew we'd have a great time together.

He picked me up from the airport and we watched dvd's and chatted on his couch then went to a bar with some of his friends.
Everyone had had a pill and we were sitting with one of his friends who was telling me how cool I was and how she could see he really liked me and am I going to come visit very often?
The boy says "No, she's going to come live with me". I said "Ok" straight away and the next week started to look for a job. We'd just clicked, we knew that it was the right thing to do.

About four months later I'd organised a job and packed my shit up and we drove me from Brisbane to Sydney to live with him. We've now been together 14 months :D
 
xgrrl888: real burners don't chill at center camp ;) jk

i met my gf on the DJ circuit in dallas. we were both house DJs at the time and played out in the same area, had a ton of mutual friends, common interests, etc.

one evening after chatting on aim all day at work, she came and picked me up to spin some records at her house and drink some beer. that night some crazy storm rolled through and all the roads got closed. as a result, i spent the night over at her place and we both got called off from work the next day since everything was shut down. we went out and bought a giant bottle of skyy vodka and the rest is history <3

it will be 3.5 years next month when we celebrate our half-year anniversary at burning man again. awesome!
 
I met my current girlfriend at a party... I was drunk and she thought I was cute so I rode the vibe and got the kiss... however her friends were all wierd about it and my best friend was pretty convinced that I was going to get my ass beat. But I showed him.. ha! In yo face bitches, plus I totally would have fought dirty.
 
I met my boyfriend online first. We occassionally talked about psychedelic trance (our favorite music to dance to). Last september I convinced him to come to a psychedelic trance party near where I lived (he lives 300 miles away), and we hit it off right away. I had a strange perception of him afterwards, though, because I took a hit of acid and had a very traumatic trip... Part of the trip involved my friends being turned into toys, and he became a Windup Robot Toy, and I realized during the trip that I was in love with him... I prayed not to die before I got to know him better.
Sure enough, I didn't die, and we continued talking online and finding out all these other things we had in common, which led to visiting each other, going to raves together, and it's been that way for almost a year now...
 
We met in Prague, traveled together for three weeks, went our separate ways, met up in England a year later after speaking a couple of times during that year, got married three weeks after meeting up again and have been together for almost 14 years now.
 
I met my fiance, Brian when I was about 12 yrs. old at school. We were friends back then and both had crushes on eachother but were too intimidated to say so. A lot of bad things happened to me in highschool and I moved away. We unfortunately did not keep in touch.

Some 6 yrs. later He found out where I worked (at a bar) but he wasn't 21 yet. He tried many times to get in with a fake. He told me later that he was determined to find me. All of his attempts failed but, I ended up running into an old friend one day and he told me about this 21st b-day party that would be taking place later that night. He told me all of my old buddies would be there. So we exchanged numbers and I said I would go.

Later on I decided that I wouldn't feel comfortable because I hadn't seen any of those people in so long and I tried to back out of my plans. When I called, my friend finally convinced me to go. As soon as I showed up I was hounded by like 15 people. Apparently the news had spread that I was coming so Brian told everyone to tell him as soon as I got there. A mutual friend of ours lead me to him.

Little did I know the plans he had made to sweep me off my feet, and that he did. We stayed up all night talking about everything that we had missed over the last 6 yrs. The next morning we went to breakfast together and we have been together, every single day for the past 3 yrs. since that night. We now have a beautiful baby boy together who is almost 14 months old, we also are getting ready to move into our first house together....and life couldn't be sweeter!
 
i was looking for san pedros and meet her at a mates while i was chopping it up and smoking dmt. don't know how she went for me. i was mre interested in the cacti and didn't care for the very hot girl trying to hook up with me.
 
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joannie_mhm said:
I met mine on here :)/:\

I'd seen a few pics and liked his posts, then saw the pic in this post and decided it was pretty funny to still think he was hot in that pic.

We exchanged a few funny pm's and soon after started chatting on msn, 4-5 hours a night, and found out we had an immense amount in common.
After about a month I found out he liked a weird obscure board game that I love. I'd been thinking of suggesting I go visit him and that cemented the idea in my mind, so that night I booked a flight to go see him the next weekend (he was in Sydney and I was in Brisbane).
Despite the 'bler you want to fuck' bit, at that stage it wasn't about hooking up, we just wanted to meet because we knew we'd have a great time together.

He picked me up from the airport and we watched dvd's and chatted on his couch then went to a bar with some of his friends.
Everyone had had a pill and we were sitting with one of his friends who was telling me how cool I was and how she could see he really liked me and am I going to come visit very often?
The boy says "No, she's going to come live with me". I said "Ok" straight away and the next week started to look for a job. We'd just clicked, we knew that it was the right thing to do.

About four months later I'd organised a job and packed my shit up and we drove me from Brisbane to Sydney to live with him. We've now been together 14 months :D
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how many others have met through BL
 
i meet Mrs. Chugs at school. We didn't like each other and thought the other smelled. Though luckily for me - that short skirt and knee high socks she oh so liked to tease us boys with become permanently imprinted into my memory..

I dated all her friends, cheated on them and basically enshrined myself as a asshole in her mind. In fact years later we realised in a drunken fit whilst half-passed out she had stumbled against my rotting carcass (i was passed out on a lawn several houses down from the party we were at), wherein we proceeded to get better acquainted. Strangely nothing happened after that (i think we forgot it happened) until a few years later when we meet at a jazz club in the city (at a bday of former gfriend).

We were emerging into independence. i was living/working in the city and we worked a block away from each other. she was getting out of relationship and i found out the girl i was dating had 5 other guys on the side (she ended up in a perm relationship with the guy that lived across from my room).

Anyway Mrs Chugs and I meet up again - I didn't smell as much anymore and we both had an overwhelming desire to eat Japanese and talk for days at a time (but strictly as friends).

But it all came together one Saturday night. The time was right, the Cricketers Arms hotel beer garden glowed a warm orange light – the tunes were just right, and the night was fine. I slipped a small tablet into her hand we laughed and giggle as friends do as she popped it in the most unsubtle fashion (her first). Her smile and eyes did all the talking that night. I later found she was testing me by wearing the daggiest shirt she could find (stolen from her mother) – I thought she looked beautiful so that completely and utterly backfired on her.

Lucky (again) for me I lived next door to the pub – before I knew she was in my room, strangely, wear my pants. We trashed the room and proceeded to kiss for the second time – we have haven’t stopped since.

Been 6 years now, with our 3rd wedding aniversary happening this year.
 
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