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Hurhel said:
I'm just trying to see if he even cares enough to make sure I don't wander away.
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Yeah, I get what you are saying. But, I think in a relationship forthright and honest talking is better than playing some kind of game or running some sort of test.

Why don't the two of you masturbate together? I've done that a few times with my missus, bodies close to each other, face to face, loving each other vicariously through our own appendages. I would rather just stick it in :D but it can be really enjoyable. Than again, I love watching Miss Willow as she comes, the look of concern and concentration on her face gets me going. Like she is in so much pleasure that it's painful and almost overwhelming for her. I feel very protective of her in these states. Almost fatherly- no no no, I did not mean that, oops. :D Moving on...
 
Vagina Lover said:
Are you attractive, though?
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Who me?

Yes, I am.

Even before dating my hubby. I never had a problem with dating or having a boyfriend. I'm Puerto Rican, long curly hair, light brown eyes, full lips and I'm tall.

Put it this way I'm NOT ugly. And if I was ugly. Who cares. We are all deserving of some good loving and tenderness. Right?
 
willow11 said:
Yeah, I get what you are saying. But, I think in a relationship forthright and honest talking is better than playing some kind of game or running some sort of test.

Why don't the two of you masturbate together? I've done that a few times with my missus, bodies close to each other, face to face, loving each other vicariously through our own appendages. I would rather just stick it in :D but it can be really enjoyable. Than again, I love watching Miss Willow as she comes, the look of concern and concentration on her face gets me going. Like she is in so much pleasure that it's painful and almost overwhelming for her. I feel very protective of her in these states. Almost fatherly- no no no, I did not mean that, oops. :D Moving on...
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We've never tried masterbating together. He says it's awkward.

I enjoy moaning and groaning so much. Now with the kiddo so much has changed.

I just really miss what we had, ya get me?
 
Masturbating with my girlfriend is one of my favourite things to do, short of fucking :)

At first, she was like "why do I have to do it?"

But then she started liking watching me do it, so sometimes we masturbate in front of each other just for fun!

I seriously love watching her make herself orgasm, it is super hot!!! :D
 
Vagina Lover said:
Masturbating with my girlfriend is one of my favourite things to do, short of fucking :)

At first, she was like "why do I have to do it?"

But then she started liking watching me do it, so sometimes we masturbate in front of each other just for fun!

I seriously love watching her make herself orgasm, it is super hot!!! :D
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Wow, sounds amazing !

Nah, he won't try it.

I've tried to get him to drink some wine to loosen up. He won't fall for my tricks. That punk.
So, I just fantasize about my past lovers.

Don't get me wrong --he knows my clit well. He knows how to get me sopping wet. Having a kid really changes your whole lifestyle.

He totally manscaped his manhood today so he is getting ready for me.

I'm going to let him hunt me down.....
 
You sound like fun, Hurhel :)

Why wouldn't hubby wanna fuck such a fun-sounding woman?

I am flabbergasted that such a horny housewife could be left with a wet pussy all day long, when hubby could be hitting that from all angles and satisfying his woman.

It's totally against the rules of love to leave a horny partner hanging with no satisfaction.

You deserve better! You deserve pleasure! Find a way to solve this issue, even if it means downright telling hubby that he gotta start putting out or let you find your satisfaction elsewhere ;)
 
Vagina Lover said:
You sound like fun, Hu

Why wouldn't hubby wanna fuck such a fun-sounding woman?

I am flabbergasted that such a horny housewife could be left with a wet pussy all day long, when hubby could be hitting that from all angles and satisfying his woman.

It's totally against the rules of love to leave a horny partner hanging with no satisfaction.

You deserve better! You deserve pleasure! Find a way to solve this issue, even if it means downright telling hubby that he gotta start putting out or let you find your satisfaction elsewhere ;)
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We talked it last night and he was being difficult. He can be a dick. I feel that he's just lazy to give me the intimacy I want. He's the breadwinner and he feels "tired" so there's that. I stay home with the baby and "do nothing " right. So childish. We both agree i would stay home. I don't want to leave my baby girl. It took us 10 years to Concieve her. I don't want to miss anything.

I told him that if he's not up to par to let me have a boyfriend then. He was like fuck no!
The thing is men flirt with me all the time! Even right in front of his face!
Sometimes men grab my ass in public! Wtf. Can u believe that? Ahhaa!

There was this teacher I used to work with he was so tall and sexy. OMG. He would look down my shirt and always undress me with his eyes.
I could always feel his heat. But I just adored him from far. I know I am desirable to men. Just this man of man has taken me for granted. I guess.
 
Awh, Hurhel, I feel your pain, honey-bunny.

Some men are just poor lovers.

Sounds like you got a dud, I'm sorry to say :(
 
Sucks to be me
Lol

Yup, a dud

He's a great provider and all that.
Just the love making dept he's been off track.
I think he's bored with me.
And most likely addicted to porn.

I like porn too.
But I need a hot body with a hard dick waiting for me too.

So let's see what happens this weekend. Sigh
 
Good luck this weekend! :)

On a side note, I did read that porn can cause some unwanted changes in the brain when it is used compulsively, so that could be having a negative effect on your sex life.

Discussing this with him, after you finding the evidence of course, could provide a means to getting him away from porn and back in between your legs.

As lame as it is calling porn an addiction, I think this line of reasoning could help you in your quest to get laid!

Look into it ;)
 
He tries to hide it from me.
Like i don't know what he's doing in the office every morning. Lol

Hey, I will watch porn too! Not a problem for me at all.

How can porn replace a warm body??
I just don't get it!

I gotta wait and see..
 
If I beg for Sex --isn't that kinda sad and desperate?

He should give in.. If I corner him--and press my body against his cock. He fucken Better respond to my advances.
 
Why not watch porn together and masturbate each other?

You may have a shared porn interest, like most guys and many girls like lesbian porn.

Talk to him about it! Embarrass him a little, then say you are interested in it, too.

Watch some lesbian porn and say you want him to eat you out like the women do to each other.

It works for my partner and I ;)
 
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paper ladies never said no :)
 
Hurhel said:
If I beg for Sex --isn't that kinda sad and desperate?

He should give in.. If I corner him--and press my body against his cock. He fucken Better respond to my advances.
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I get that you are frustrated but I don't think cornering your husband is the right way to go about this. IME pressure is anti-erection.

I've said this to you before, you guys need to talk. You need to calmly explain your feelings to him. There must be a reason he does not want sex. Maybe his feelings for you have changed? Who knows- you will if you speak to him. Being aggressive is unfair and might have the opposite effect to what you intend. Talk it through and if he doesn't want sex, at least you'll know why.
 
I experienced my first dry orgasm at 6 years old caused by straining to climb to the top of a pole on the playfield. I continued to pursue the incredible pleasure this produced. I had no clue what this was until at the age of 13 a droplet of fluid appeared at the tip of my penis after a pole climb. Masturbation by humping poles while naked.
 
Well I was about 11years old male and got a nice feeling humping my bed, didn’t really know what sex was then, they teach it a lot younger these days then my day, one day I humped the bed more harder and faster and had my first orgasm, very scary but exciting and ended up with WET pants lol disgusting! Then had my first hand wank at on holiday in Blackpool in 1992 at 13, in a hotel or something like that fantisizing over chicks at school in there PE gymslips. It was wierd and wonderful and a bit taboo to talk about things like that in them days. Some people thought you were gay if you touched yourself but as you get older you realise everyones probably done it and natural unless you were 0% libido asexual or something. Lol.
 
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