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How can i see my girlfriend more often???

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ovenbakedskittles

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Okay so im kinda pissed off that im not able to see my girlfriend as much as i want to and she feels the same way and im looking for any kind of way for us to see eachother.

So my girlfriends mom is real strict about her hangin out with guys and stuff. im the only guy she really hangs out with and im her boyfriend and we been trying to find ways to see eachother without her mom knowing but now her mom knows and shes not really letting my girlfriend do much as far as hanging out with me and stuff.

Now it just seems shes trying to keep us apart and i feel like things are getting worse as far as us not being able to see eachother.

What should i do? Is there any ways that we can see eachother that you guys can think of?

Thanks
 
Treat her mama with respect and maybe she will start respecting you and allow the two of you to spend more time together.
 
How old are you?

Also why don't you spend time with your girlfriend and her family so you get to know her mom?
 
im 18 years old... Her mom told my girl i have to meet her first before we start hanging out but she really has no interest in meeting me. It sometimes seems like she makes excuses to avoid me having to meet her
 
How old is she?

Invite her and the mother over for dinner or something.
 
Have you met her mom yet? If not tell your girlfriend to tell her mom you want to meet her. Also, how old is she?
 
nuttynutskin said:
Have you met her mom yet? If not tell your girlfriend to tell her mom you want to meet her. Also, how old is she?
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THAT i will try! thanks... the thing is it seems like her mom is trying to avoid meeting me. She has told my gf that i cant meet her until after they move which they were suppose to by the end of september and now shes saying we cant meet at all ...she is also 18
 
Seems like the mom doesn't want to let go of her baby or more precisely her power over her baby. Scared of moving on and having to confront growing pains of her own. But the girl is 18 she could like... move to her own place? Or talk to her mom about how ridiculous it is to control who her 18yo daughter gets to see and when. But you should still meet the mother and be respectful to her just because. Maybe contact her yourself? She will probably be a real bitch and a master manipulator but try to take the high road instead of getting angry, but don't let her manipulate you either.
 
Try joining some sort of co-ed sports team or some sort of club. Her mom probably just doesn't want her to be alone with you. I'm not sure if youre wanted to spend more alone time together or just more time in general. Maybe, you could just sit down with her mom and let her explain her side of the story and then you could also let her know what's up between you and your girl.
 
So it's not like you're 18 and she's 16 then... I guess you're just going to have to use some stealth ninja tactics. Legally you're both adults but it's still her mom's house so she can refuse that you come over unfortunately.
 
BZboo said:
Maybe, you could just sit down with her mom and let her explain her side of the story and then you could also let her know what's up between you and your girl.
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She speaks spanish and i dont but either way it will be sometime before she agrees to even meet.
 
Is she allowed to go jogging or to the mall or anywhere without her mom's supervision? :D I mean, how hard can it be?
 
ovenbakedskittles said:
She speaks spanish
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Oooh... I wonder if there's a cultural thing going on then. Like maybe she wants her daughter to only date Latinos, or as a lot of Latinos are brought up Catholic, maybe she's devoutly religious and doesn't want her daughter having sex? Just some ideas. Either way good luck, you may be up for quite a fight to make things work. But I'd like to think that if it is meant to be that you will find a way. Maybe you could bang her back behind the dumpster during lunch break? lol

ovenbakedskittles said:
haha yup but i dont know what.
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Depending on logistics sneaking into each other's houses? Plan a day where you both make alibis to why you have to stay after school? I'm sure there's a lot of things you could come up with.
 
You really need to figure out how to spend time with the both of them. Invite them out for dinner. Both your girlfriend and her mom. Say you'd like to get to know her mom as well since they are family.
Be mature about it.
 
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