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Mass08

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Hey all...

Isn't it just amazing to be with someone who you love and care about, and you know they feel the same way about you. Where your on cloud 9 doing absolutely anything with the other person, whether it's just watching T.V. together, studying together, exercising...ANYTHING. My girlfriend means so much to me it's insane, she just makes me the happiest person on earth and I couldn't feel luckier than to have someone that is so kind, caring and compatible with me. It's such a great feeling just having a conversation with her. Even when I'm sick from withdrawals just laying with her makes me feel so much better. Sorry for anyone that doesn't have what I have, not trying to rub it in your face. I just feel so blessed to know what it feels like to honestly be completed by another person. She is honestly the definition of a best friend.

Sorry for the rant! I hope all of you know the feeling I'm talking about.
 
That's a terrible outlook. I guarantee you will, as long as your open to finding that someone.
 
i know what you mean, mass08 - i'm in a pretty amazing relationship at the moment. it's not that deluded kind of love happiness - where you love someone so much that you kid yourself everything is going ok - it's just really healthy and good.

i've been on the other end of things too - thinking "that will never be me" and so forth. things can change - very dramatically sometimes - so don't give up hope guys. i took years and a shitload of heartache for me to get to this point, and (for me at least) it is all the sweeter for it.
love is all the more special when you've spent a good amount of time not feeling like there was any love in the world. that's my experience, anyway.
 
I'm glad someone feels like this. I am with my fiance and we "had" that and sometimes we will feel like that but now we have so many issues. I do honestly miss that feeling with all my heart and hope to have back again but at 100 percent.
 
Actually, I've experienced that so many times I'm starting to feel the opposite way. It just doesn't last and sometimes it seems like the only thing I care about is men and that's kind of silly. Or finding happiness in the arms of a man, which isn't really realistic.
 
Mass, you just explained pretty much in detail exactly what I'm looking for in life at the moment. Or at least I "think" it's what I want.

I've never had this and hope to also have it one day. It's not like I have problems with girls, I have more of a problem of actually aproaching them and starting something... ah oh well :\
 
Well...I might have thrown everything I just described out the window by starting to use again...I'm a fool.
 
We found each other after I had given up looking for someone and was concentrating on my health and physical appearance. He wouldn't normally date someone who is 200 lbs, but he did and now I'm 150, the first relationship where I lost weight and not gained...
 
Tude said:
OP, lucky you! I hope to find this someday.
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+1

i think we all do..well, most of us.
OP..calm down..what you described in
your original post..
means you two can make it thru this.
best of luck.

~token
 
I think inner peace is underrated, whereas lovey-dovey couple stuff is seriously overrated. Other people generally pose a threat to the security of my inner spiritual sanctum. That is just my 2c.
 
It is amazing. Enjoy your time with her.

I envy you a little OP, but someone will move into my life again. I'll just have to wait, as I always have.

:)
 
I felt this way before with my ex-fiance. She was my lover, best friend, partner in crime (called eachother bonnie and clyde =P) and just all around my other half for a while. Substance use tore us apart as I am now clean and she is not (and is now dating my bestfriend lol).
 
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