honEbee
Bluelighter
^^^^
thanks, I couldn't figure out what the hell he was talking about.
thanks, I couldn't figure out what the hell he was talking about.
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Hmmm...Fat Chicks: The Ultimate Malian Sexual Hesitation
- Thread starter NecroTrance
- Start date
64tf
Bluelighter
Since NecroTrance decided to spark the fire I'll throw some fuel on it.
Isn't "Fat" the best verbal hand grenade ever. It can insight a riot faster than the "N" word. Just by using the word fat you can turn a completely reasonable female completely insane. The really exciting thing about it is that the it doesn't even have to be true. Society has built up so much emphasis on weight that almost all women regardless of size worry about. As soon as the word is uttered all hell breaks lose. It holds amazing power, and should be used with extreme caution.
Isn't "Fat" the best verbal hand grenade ever. It can insight a riot faster than the "N" word. Just by using the word fat you can turn a completely reasonable female completely insane. The really exciting thing about it is that the it doesn't even have to be true. Society has built up so much emphasis on weight that almost all women regardless of size worry about. As soon as the word is uttered all hell breaks lose. It holds amazing power, and should be used with extreme caution.
plazma
Bluelighter
Well. Having read your post, Necrotrance, and seeing the way in which you relate to women, and your attitudes towards them. I'm surprised you get laid at all. I guess its proof that there ARE girls out there with no taste, perhaps.
And just a handy reminder for you, before you go bitching about people's appearances and judging because of them.
They can lose weight. But you can't lose ugly.
-plaz out-
And just a handy reminder for you, before you go bitching about people's appearances and judging because of them.
They can lose weight. But you can't lose ugly.
-plaz out-
64tf
Bluelighter
The word can also encourage chivalry in males.
SoHiAllTheTime
Ex-Bluelighter
While i agree the original post was tasteless, i have to give him credit that he was %100 honest about his situation and how he feels. Right? I mean how else can he get honest answers to his question if he doesnt give all of the info, including exactly how he really feels. He obviously has negative feelings about these girls and he portrayed those feelings rather well in his post. But if he didnt, wouldnt all of the responses be totally different?
Without his honesty, it would be hard to actually try to give a helpful response to his question. So while i enjoyed all of the flaming (any CE&P posters know i love a good flaming argument), but dont you all think you overlooked his need for sincere helpful responses?
I say honesty is the best policy and its the only way to get real help with real problems. Which he obviously has real issues that need help, at least he is asking for outside opinions. Well he also could be just posting to get people fired up, and if that is the case you all fell right into the trap.
Without his honesty, it would be hard to actually try to give a helpful response to his question. So while i enjoyed all of the flaming (any CE&P posters know i love a good flaming argument), but dont you all think you overlooked his need for sincere helpful responses?
I say honesty is the best policy and its the only way to get real help with real problems. Which he obviously has real issues that need help, at least he is asking for outside opinions. Well he also could be just posting to get people fired up, and if that is the case you all fell right into the trap.
Amazon Bee
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FoxyKel said:
aww he's kinda cute.. i dont think necro is really as big a dickhead as he says he is. i think he's bluffing.
SoHi has a good point too though. i think my original advice still fits.
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honEbee
Bluelighter
If he truly had a point to make and discuss, I have no doubt that he could word his points so that they are not as flammatory as they are. Of course, maybe I'm giving him too much credit.
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Shallow you ask? Yes.
As others have said, you might be missing something. Maybe the gals are using you?? You never know....they might be telling their friends about this shallow, average looking guy that they romped the night before.
I know a guy that has a similar attitude as you.....and unless I wanted to "use" him....I wouldn't give him the time of day.
Look for beauty inside....without it, you have no beauty outside.
As others have said, you might be missing something. Maybe the gals are using you?? You never know....they might be telling their friends about this shallow, average looking guy that they romped the night before.
I know a guy that has a similar attitude as you.....and unless I wanted to "use" him....I wouldn't give him the time of day.
Look for beauty inside....without it, you have no beauty outside.
SoHiAllTheTime
Ex-Bluelighter
honEbee said:
Maybe that is part of the problem? Ever think of that?
babysoftskin
Bluelighter
If he had a problem with his wording fine but theres no need to be rude about these girls, calling them fat and flabby mess of an appearence. he has no respect for these girls and cant have for himself if this is his behaviour.
honEbee
Bluelighter
Originally posted by SoHiAllTheTime
Maybe that is part of the problem? Ever think of that?
Maybe that is part of the problem? Ever think of that?
yes, yes I have. And based on his other post in Life, I dismissed that idea. Seeing how after people tried to suggest real opinions/answers he said "try again". And instead was looking for people to back up his crap attitudes.
Sorry, but I'm not an enabler.
SoHiAllTheTime
Ex-Bluelighter
honEbee said:
I got a good laugh out of that myself! lol
I agree i am not an enabler either, i am just trying to say that with the way he talked about those girls it is obvious to me he has issues within himself. Maybe people who actually care enough to even respond should try to help him with that instead of flaming him.
Personally, i enjoy reading the flaming more
babysoftskin
Bluelighter
its just a immediate reaction after reading it.
To avoid this with the 'fat girls' then i think you need to take a step back look at why you are sleeping with them if u dont find them attractive, sort any other problems you have out i.e maturity, attitudes and then see what you are looking for in a girl, if u want something with no strings or a long term girl. once you have worked on your other problems you can work on this and maybe respect girls more than you seem to already. girls in the long run will have more respect for you and you may end up with your model bodied girl. some guys are shallow (so are some girls) and cant see past appearence if you are truely liek that then you will have to live with it but dont go hurting these girls feelings and treating them like they dont matter - its simple just dnt get involved!!
To avoid this with the 'fat girls' then i think you need to take a step back look at why you are sleeping with them if u dont find them attractive, sort any other problems you have out i.e maturity, attitudes and then see what you are looking for in a girl, if u want something with no strings or a long term girl. once you have worked on your other problems you can work on this and maybe respect girls more than you seem to already. girls in the long run will have more respect for you and you may end up with your model bodied girl. some guys are shallow (so are some girls) and cant see past appearence if you are truely liek that then you will have to live with it but dont go hurting these girls feelings and treating them like they dont matter - its simple just dnt get involved!!
honEbee
Bluelighter
SoHiAllTheTime said:I got a good laugh out of that myself! lol
I agree i am not an enabler either, i am just trying to say that with the way he talked about those girls it is obvious to me he has issues within himself. Maybe people who actually care enough to even respond should try to help him with that instead of flaming him.
Personally, i enjoy reading the flaming more
I agree that he has issues and could use some help with his problems. It's just that I think he doesn't really want help. I think he just wants to be flamed. Which is fine with me. I enjoy the flaming too. I usually don't participate, but couldn't resist.
glad you had a good chuckle out of the situation.
No harm or insult intended before.SoHiAllTheTime
Ex-Bluelighter
^ Oh no harm taken at all. I love it! I say BL should have a forum where flaming and insulting is aloud, now that would be awesome!
I would volenteer to mod that forum, because moderating wouldnt be needed! Only maybe to warn people that they are being too nice
I would volenteer to mod that forum, because moderating wouldnt be needed! Only maybe to warn people that they are being too nice
Why don't you just crack them over the skull with your trusty braining cudgel "Cool Breeze" whenever they have the audacity to approach you?
That oughta learn 'em good...
You're blaming less attractive people (assuming they ARE less attractive than you) for takin' a shot? And you NEVER approach a girl who's outta your league looks-wise, right?
Here's a hint for ya...those attractive girls that you get up with that never cling to you or seem needy? Well, YOU may be the "fat chick" to them...maybe they're silently cursing themselves for letting THEIR standards drop so low.
Since you profess to be shallow when it comes to physical attractiveness, either learn to "punch your weight" on the attractiveness scale or learn to be happy you're scoring anything at all...that would be my advice. Given the shallow attitude you've expressed, I doubt you would deal well with your jealousy and mistrust of a girlfriend who was far more physically attractive than you anyway.
That oughta learn 'em good...
You're blaming less attractive people (assuming they ARE less attractive than you) for takin' a shot? And you NEVER approach a girl who's outta your league looks-wise, right?
Here's a hint for ya...those attractive girls that you get up with that never cling to you or seem needy? Well, YOU may be the "fat chick" to them...maybe they're silently cursing themselves for letting THEIR standards drop so low.
Since you profess to be shallow when it comes to physical attractiveness, either learn to "punch your weight" on the attractiveness scale or learn to be happy you're scoring anything at all...that would be my advice. Given the shallow attitude you've expressed, I doubt you would deal well with your jealousy and mistrust of a girlfriend who was far more physically attractive than you anyway.
Morrison's Lament
Bluelighter
God damnit - you beat me to making the "why don't you crack their skulls" comment
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Cosmic Mist
Bluelighter
all i have to say to you pal is: good luck.
WIth an attitude like yours you will be lucky if you ever find someone whom you could actually love, who would give enough of a damn about you to love you back. ANd as i'm sure most of the people here will be able to tell you, love and sex do not go hand in hand necessarily. But when they do, there is no better sex than that. (At least in my experience.)
People like you make me feel sick inside - have you ever had a long term relationship? Do you even know how it feels to connect with someone on a deeper level than the superficial image they may or may not present to you?
WIth an attitude like yours you will be lucky if you ever find someone whom you could actually love, who would give enough of a damn about you to love you back. ANd as i'm sure most of the people here will be able to tell you, love and sex do not go hand in hand necessarily. But when they do, there is no better sex than that. (At least in my experience.)
People like you make me feel sick inside - have you ever had a long term relationship? Do you even know how it feels to connect with someone on a deeper level than the superficial image they may or may not present to you?