SHIT..I'm only trying to help but have you looked at he Sober living forum and read that first post about home detox?..or is that why your feeling so discouraged. H is not my problem but I was engaged once to a guy who did the 12 step rehab thing etc. so I know a bit about it. It says in the rules us greenlighters can only pm every 2 hours but i'll message you again. how did you do the friend request? is it automatic with a pm and am I your friend now too?..Have you tried PM to moderator Capt.Heroin,wonder if that's worth a try?..failing that well think of something else.