We're a message board, not a chat room...but there are usually lots and lots of people online at any given point during the day/night, wherever you are.
Welcome greenmango What specifically makes you wonder if this is the place for you?
No official live chat for Bluelight but Ecstasy Discussion has an unofficial IRC channel and many folks have IM handles in their profile. If you give board posting a try you may find it richer than real time chats, this board is very active so seldom will you log in without finding lots of new stuff.