You should write a book, I like how the text flows, I don't know where you learned to do this but it's quality writing without question. And don't worry about girls, many of them only appreciate you as a person for your money so in general, girls are a pretty poor tool of self evaluation.
Also applies for girls...if every girl would think ''what do guys think about my weight problem...'' cause most guys only care about physical appearance, half of America would be on anti-depressors.