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B-Diesel-More

B-Diesel-More

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So how many people have ever been in that relationship where you both are raging junkies who like nothing more than to get smacked off dope and screw. These relationships are rather unhealthy because once the goodies run out peoples ugly sides show and its rather unpleasant. Having been in several of these relationships there are a few(very few) benefits and a rather large number of drawbacks.

Benefits include not having to hide being high from your partner or any of your gear/drugs/etc.
Say you are both jonesin and your girl(or guy) has money and you don't; she will most likely buy you a bag too "cure"(haha) you.
Sex while high is great for the most part
All benefits I can think of, be sure to add your own if you can think of some


Drawbacks: Fights often occur usually over tiny things, especially when you are both illin; also fights over drugs in general will occur.
Relationship is for the most part solely based on the drugs, no real emotional connection
You both are junkies , unless you are those rare breed of functioning working junkies money will be very tight

Feel free to add anymore from your experiences you can think of.

In my opinion if I'm out on a dope run I could usually give 2 shits about anyone else except myself, and how/when I am gettin some.
 
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My opinion is long term relationships where both partners are junkies will only last as long as the high is there. As soon as one person, or both people hit rock bottom decide to detox and/or maybe goto recovery you will find out that things will never be the same and you will have a completely different partner, one that you never truly knew. 99.99% failure rate in the scenario i just mentioned.

The good part is what you described, for the 2 years or so being junkies enjoy the benefits!! Lol
 
Wtf how do you get a Nut while high?
It has prooved mighty challenging for me, only achieved it a few times unless I wasnt very high or coming down, the time I did tho was AMAZING
Im also assuming your smoking it? Cause shootin im guessin would deff not allow for an erection let alone an orgasm.

-That aside I agree with most of the posted. Your relationship will last as long as your habit, unless you became junkies together and not untill after having a stable relationship beforehand.
 
I'd say about 90% of the time I cannot get a nut while in the act of actually screwing, BUT usually if the chick knows how to give a good beej then the percentage gets a little better at about 60% or so.
 
I think this belongs in the Love & Relationships forum (it's something like that), maybe Drug Culture. Not really fitting for OD

Kinda interesting though
 
I met this one girl back when I was actively using every day and so was she and we really hit it off and felt a connection to each other right away but it's absolutely true that when the dope supply was running low or gone completely, our darker sides came out and it could get very ugly & sad. She went into rehab a couple months ago and I talk to her over the phone now and have visited her a couple times and she's doing great, but as for me I'm not doing nearly as well. I really want to be in a relationship with her and get back to where we were but without the junk interfering but I'm still so weak and close to another relapse. I even moved to another state to get away from the shit (from oklahoma to texas). Apparently H is all over the place here but I still don't know where (thank god) and I wrecked my car a couple weeks ago so scoring isn't really an option even if I wanted to.

Oh yeah, hi everyone, this is my first post.
 
I have onie specific story of this girl I got into a 2 month fligng with at college this semester. Now I am in a fraternity and we throw parties every Friday and host social events with sororities; all that type of shit, ya know. Well this chick was at our gathering one night and I was completely blitzed, i think i did like 240mgs +/- of oxycontin that night (also at the time I had been slangin OCs. Now the fact that my eyes had the opiglow in them could have been 1 reason this chick decided to hit on me or b/c she actually wanted to fuck me and had no clue I was a junkie. Well needless to say we started hanging out and whenever she would be over if I needed to fix I would just tell her I was going to use my bathroom in my apartment. Then one time when I came out she was telling me she had to go meet her friend to pick something up. I asked her what and she refused to answer me. I told her I didn't care and to just be honest. Well sure enough she says she was going to pick up some oxys. Now my dumbass decided that I would let this little leech bitch never pay me anything for these expensive high demand pills. Well needless to say I went through about $4grand in about a month (paying for 2 peoples addiction is never a good idea). After I realized how much money I was spending on this bitch to get her high i told her NO MORE for her unless she paid me everytime she wanted an 80. Well the one time she lied and told me she had money in her room so I busted out an 80 for her. We get to her room and somehow, crazy how this could happen, someone stole her money. That was it, i flipped out told her to not come over or call me until she paid me my money. Then after i stopped lettin her use me and she paid me back she would whore it up with other dudes and get them to buy her shit. I would always tell her that the 80s were going for $1/mg which I would rarely ever sell them for that much only to her when she would call.

Well after all this there was 1 time when i got ultimate payback on this cunt, it was so sweet. We had both been drinking at one of my parties and I was actually pretty sober just having had a few beers and some 80s. She was pretty hammered i got her to come over. She asked if I had anything and told her I didn't. Her dumb drunkass then decided to explain to me how she just got her financial aid check back and was trying to get a good amount of 80s. Well I waited until she passed out and BAM; i hit up her purse and got close to $500 cash , then woke her up , she was still very drunk and took her to meet her friend who was still out partying. IT was like she finally paid for all the free drugs I had been giving her.
 
i was in a relationship were I was the junkie... when i was full blown doing pills, and fent, i was withdrawn from everything about her... sex, feelings, everything... just cared about scoring..

one thing i realized is that the only relationship i had was with the pills, and not her. and i kicked her out and did more for a year before getting clean...
 
The amount of 80 OCs i gave that ungrateful, money grubbing, bitch whore was probably well into the thousands of dollars mark. I needed to get repaid so i could continue to cop and slang em
 
My boyfriend and i have been to hell in back on a horrible 300mg a day oxy habit. I do admit times were very tough during that period, and we ended up fighting a lot over absolutely nothing. But needless to say we have stuck together throughout the whole thing and have helped eachother stay off for about half a year now. Maybe this is because we werent junkies when we first got together...but we've been together about 2 years now. Wouldn't have ever thought to leave him if we were out of drugs....if you can get through that shit together, you can get through anything. yay!
 
B-Diesel-More said:
Well after all this there was 1 time when i got ultimate payback on this cunt, it was so sweet. We had both been drinking at one of my parties and I was actually pretty sober just having had a few beers and some 80s. She was pretty hammered i got her to come over. She asked if I had anything and told her I didn't. Her dumb drunkass then decided to explain to me how she just got her financial aid check back and was trying to get a good amount of 80s. Well I waited until she passed out and BAM; i hit up her purse and got close to $500 cash , then woke her up , she was still very drunk and took her to meet her friend who was still out partying. IT was like she finally paid for all the free drugs I had been giving her.
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Wow, so not only are you an idiot - but an asshole too! Awesome!!! 8)

Maybe you shouldn't be so angry at this girl, sounds to me like you freely gave her all those oxies thinking that you were going to get some pussy or something. Regardless of how 'ungrateful' you feel that she was towards your generosity, stealing money from her purse was criminal and totally unjustifiable.
 
So basically you shared your resources with your significant other (like every good man and women on earth does) .....than decided you resented it and robbed her while she was vulnerable and naive enough to trust you by passing out.

I hope rob her is all you did while she was passed out, she'd be lucky to learn her lesson that way. Girls, Don't Pass Out Around Scumbags.

plus your one of those $ a mg dealers.

hmm. good story.
 
me and my gf both use sometimes, we always share whatever we buy equally.... But we trust each other, and use in moderation.....No problems so far....

btw we went through W/D a couple times, and that only brought us closer... if you can go through that with your partner you can do anything...
 
Sounds to me like buddies a low life!!!!! Ripped off yur ex-gf welll she,s passed out drunk cause you gave her yur OXY,S SHE gave you how much free PUSSY????????I WOULD NEVER DOTHAT EVER!!!!!!! BUT THATS JUST MEI GUESS!!!!!!!!I HATE F IN THIEVES
 
Unbreakable said:
me and my gf both use sometimes, we always share whatever we buy equally.... But we trust each other, and use in moderation.....No problems so far....

btw we went through W/D a couple times, and that only brought us closer... if you can go through that with your partner you can do anything...
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Sooooooooo romantic, right? <3<38)8)8)

Heroin + any kind of relationship that you actually give a shit about = a ticking fucking time bomb. Best wishes.
 
Smothered_Hope said:
I met this one girl back when I was actively using every day and so was she and we really hit it off and felt a connection to each other right away but it's absolutely true that when the dope supply was running low or gone completely, our darker sides came out and it could get very ugly & sad. She went into rehab a couple months ago and I talk to her over the phone now and have visited her a couple times and she's doing great, but as for me I'm not doing nearly as well. I really want to be in a relationship with her and get back to where we were but without the junk interfering but I'm still so weak and close to another relapse. I even moved to another state to get away from the shit (from oklahoma to texas). Apparently H is all over the place here but I still don't know where (thank god) and I wrecked my car a couple weeks ago so scoring isn't really an option even if I wanted to.

Oh yeah, hi everyone, this is my first post.
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I love this man. I truly do. One of the most sincere and genuine people on this board.

I wish I had some more advice for you on this issue, like you so kindly provided for me, but unlike your situation, the person in my life did not use (not like we do anyways - she smoked hella weed and drank a little, I guess.) I don't know what your definitions of "hit it off" or "felt a connection" are, but I would be weary about reconnecting with someone you had a serious drug history with, especially if she's in rehab and you aren't doing so well. I'm sure you want her to continue to do good and the two of you getting that close again may jeopardize that for her. I feel like I already know you and I don't think that's what you want. I don't think you would be that selfish to jeopardize her progress by trying to reconnect too soon. I know you'll do the right thing. I think you're like 2 years younger than me and based on what you wrote to me, I don't know if I'm even worthy of giving you advice.

Anyway, I wish you the very best with everything. You are a good person and if karma has anything to say about it, things will work out for you one way or another. I'm sure I don't have to tell you this, but please always keep in mind how your feelings and actions can affect those around you (ie: this girl you speak of) and that sometimes its best to take things slow.

Peace and Love,
2oclockbeanfiend
 
I was the junkie in the relationship, but it wasnt all bad. When i was high--and i was high often-- things were better than ever, and I was so fun and happy to be around. When i wasn't, we got in fights quite often and i just wasnt the same. things have been much better since i've been stabilized on suboxone.
 
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