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He deleted me off of facebook

^ A lot of people use their facebook accounts a whole lot more than their email accounts. Not entirely disagreeing with you there but when I try to reach certain people, facebook is more reliable. With others email is better.

Seriously some people I email them and I wait maybe a week for them to get back to me. I send them something on facebook and they respond in about an hour. It's sad but it's true.

But being as how I'm in China right now and don't have access to facebook anyway I guess this is relevant as I depend on email to reach my friends anyway. As well as skype. Skype is great. Just you have to pay for the ability to dial phones up.
 
I have never had a facebook. Im too deep into my own shit to have others comment on how they see me.
 
I just got FB in 2010, and my current BF is on it, and he even asked me if I wanted him to delete his ex-GF. lol I said, no, it's fine. I don't really care, but I admit I did look at her profile. (baaaad curiosity baaad lol) If he talked to her, I wouldn't care, but I think it's mainly because he's 1000 miles away. I know she has been chasing him recently, but with him being so far away, it doesn't bother me. I've wondered if I would be more upset if she was 5 mins from him...weird.

I refuse to set up my relationship status, though. The whole relationship thing on FB is stupid and yet even though I know it's stupid, it really crushed me when my ex changed his status. I think I said this in this thread earlier when I wasn't over him yet, and now that I am, we are friends again and are in each other's circles on G+. TBH though, I know that I will be a little sad when he posts one day that he's madly in love and with some beautiful girl. ho hum. lol Stupid social stuff...it's so stupid, really.
 
Yeah I hid my relationship status a month ago. It will remain that way even when the divorce is finalized.
I deleted him as I don't want him privy to my social feed and I don't care to find out through fb when he is with someone new.

Coffeedrinker...neither. He isn't into faceboob like I am.
 
pofacedhoe said:
or a free way to keep in contact with friends who live far away when their telephone number/address/country changes

if you only want to see the negative then that fine but it has positive uses mainly based in the fact its free, you can hear music other people post links to and expand your tastes via youtube and that thing where you can turn youtube into mp3s for making cds for when your driving (my friend sent me the link via facebook), plus it satiates an inherent nosiness which is better than reading magazines and newspapers about celebrities you never even met.
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All my friends who live in other states/countries, I communicate with via text message or skype. Or go visit them.
If I want to expand my tastes in music, I'll read Rolling Stone or Spin or go to live shows around town.
Not huge on "you-tubing..."
I never read articles or magazines about celebrities I've never met. I hate pop culture. Celebrities are non-existent to me.

Yup, FB still sucks.
 
An ex-friend whom I had let live in my son's room for the past five months for dirt cheap rent just blocked me on FB a few days ago. She ripped me off for january rent and utilities which adds to my anger. I have her real email address but it seems pointless to send a hate email to her just to showcase my rage. Still, a small part of me wants to send some kind of revenge (vitriol? virus?)

FB is good for connecting with friends and acquaintances. I don't have everyone's actual phone number, so it gives a glimpse of what is going on in their lives (the part they choose to reveal) It also is a time suck. I don't mind it, however.

People can act all high and mighty and anti-FB but that doesn't discredit that it does keep people connected with those whom they may have otherwise lost touch with.
 
Oh, this is an easy one. If it wasn't another chick that made him delete you, then it's because you weren't doing anything for him. I am seeing him hanging out with you and after a while expecting sex because you like him, but he didn't get any. After a while he gets irritated, and figures "what's the use?" He sent you a message by deleting you. I am not far off, I know it. I went out with this girl who was showing a lot of interest in me, but after 3 times of jumping in bed and getting to "that" point, and listening to her excuses about being too soon, or she's sick, or whatever, I stopped seeing her. Guys don't generally hang out with chicks because they are interesting, they have their bro's for that. They put in time with chicks because they expect to get something out of it. Anyone telling you different is oblivious or is trying to make you feel better. Anyway, good luck with that......
 
^as a guy I would say this is a good guess - I wouldn't personally do it, but if I was totally driven by sex I could see me doing it if I wasn't interested in being friends.

I agree with the part about us not hanging out with girls coz they're interesting people - we start to hang out with chicks we wanna fuck, unless we see them as a "bro" (lesbian/ugly etc).
 
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