Forgive me, this may be long:
Okay, I've had a crush on this man since I was 14 years old, he was 20 years old at the time and he didn't even know I existed. Fast forwards 9 years later, he's now single; but has three kids with the same woman. He's been asking around about me (who I am, who are my people, etc..) and finally while out he introduced himself and trying to talk, I wouldn't give him my number so he found me on POF and then on Facebook so I figured why not.
He's fun to talk to over the phone and whatnot, but since I hear his baby moms is crazy (from him and my own friends) he's secretive about his business. Seems shady, right? Yeah, so I'm thinking he still is with her; but I checked out her page and have seen her out with other men at the bar exclusively, I'm like okay maybe not. He's a really great dad and always has his kids, but he says she kind of has him on a leash because every time she gets mad she threatens to put him on Child Support (Oh Lord) so after knowing that, I quickly dropped us ever being anything so I just suggested we hook up and he was cool with that.
He is very sexy and his sex is AMAZING and he says my kitty (lol) is so good it scares the hell out of him and after we're done a few days later he thinks I'm having sex with other men, wth??, he said I could call him whenever I needed it. So, I usually call late nights on weekends (after I've gone out) BUT he always has an excuse. I make it very clear what I want from him, but it's like he purposely ignores me and holds out. When we talk he's always quoting me from my facebook about other dudes, says he sees conversations on texts of me pursuing other men and whatnot, which I think is a lie. Anyway! He says he likes me and I can admit, I do kind of like him too but I know what it is and I just love his penis (very blunt, I know) but it's the truth and I tell him that all the time. I also am very honest and let him know I date other men.
He makes me so mad when he won't give me what I want! I cut him off, curse him out and delete his number and he always comes back, but just not to give me what I want...his penis, lol. I just want to know what is his problem? I'm almost %100 positive he sleeps with other women and I tell him I don't care and honestly, I don't...but since our town is so small, I can't just sleep with who I want out here so he's pretty much my only option and I am very sexually frustrated...if we both knew what it was, why is he acting like this? Maybe because every time I contact him it's only for sex?![:\](https://bluelight.org/xf/BL_Images/Orig_Emoji/wrygrin.gif "wry grin :\")
Okay, I've had a crush on this man since I was 14 years old, he was 20 years old at the time and he didn't even know I existed. Fast forwards 9 years later, he's now single; but has three kids with the same woman. He's been asking around about me (who I am, who are my people, etc..) and finally while out he introduced himself and trying to talk, I wouldn't give him my number so he found me on POF and then on Facebook so I figured why not.
He's fun to talk to over the phone and whatnot, but since I hear his baby moms is crazy (from him and my own friends) he's secretive about his business. Seems shady, right? Yeah, so I'm thinking he still is with her; but I checked out her page and have seen her out with other men at the bar exclusively, I'm like okay maybe not. He's a really great dad and always has his kids, but he says she kind of has him on a leash because every time she gets mad she threatens to put him on Child Support (Oh Lord) so after knowing that, I quickly dropped us ever being anything so I just suggested we hook up and he was cool with that.
He is very sexy and his sex is AMAZING and he says my kitty (lol) is so good it scares the hell out of him and after we're done a few days later he thinks I'm having sex with other men, wth??, he said I could call him whenever I needed it. So, I usually call late nights on weekends (after I've gone out) BUT he always has an excuse. I make it very clear what I want from him, but it's like he purposely ignores me and holds out. When we talk he's always quoting me from my facebook about other dudes, says he sees conversations on texts of me pursuing other men and whatnot, which I think is a lie. Anyway! He says he likes me and I can admit, I do kind of like him too but I know what it is and I just love his penis (very blunt, I know) but it's the truth and I tell him that all the time. I also am very honest and let him know I date other men.
He makes me so mad when he won't give me what I want! I cut him off, curse him out and delete his number and he always comes back, but just not to give me what I want...his penis, lol. I just want to know what is his problem? I'm almost %100 positive he sleeps with other women and I tell him I don't care and honestly, I don't...but since our town is so small, I can't just sleep with who I want out here so he's pretty much my only option and I am very sexually frustrated...if we both knew what it was, why is he acting like this? Maybe because every time I contact him it's only for sex?
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