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Havent had sex WITH A MAN in over 2 years..... Im over this lesbian business

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Teenyweeny

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Met my girlfriend in rehab 6 years ago... It was off and on for a while but its been on for over 2 years now. I love her. And shes in love with me no doubt..
Things are good..

But Im just not feeling this amymore. All I can think about is.that I cant be with her forever!.. I CANT not have sex with a man again!..
... I NEED to have sex with a man again!


Dont get me wrong... Shez AMAZING at what she does..
AMAAAZING

Buuuut

Lol I feel like a piece of shit. But I cant stop feeling this way
 
That would NEVER happen. Lol shes one of those if I can't have you no one will types.
I can't even joke around about anything like that..

Im stuck.
 
I don't believe you're stuck. You just need to bring this to her attention. Maybe not that you blatantly want to have sex with a man, but that you feel like something is lacking in your life. I think it's perfectly reasonable to say that you'd like time to go out and see what's out there before really committing yourself. This doesn't go to say that problems won't arise when you bring this to her attention, but if you can't share your feelings with her, then it isn't a very healthy relationship anyway.
 
I'm exactly the same: if I've gone long enough only having sex with one person, then I really really really want to be with someone of the other gender, no matter how amazing my current partner it. If it goes on long enough, I'll go through a phase where I'm practically only attracted to the other gender, but usually after a while of very little sex, I remember that I like both/all genders fine. ;)

I don't think of it as cheating when it happens; I'm bi and very open about it, so people know where they stand with me. I wouldn't start dating someone even halfway seriously unless they were open to the idea of me being with someone of the other gender occasionally, but then I'm old and have been around enough to know how I get. It does limit my lady-dating a lot though; it's sooo much easier to find guys who'll let me fuck a woman sometimes, than women who are fine with me screwing a guy.

Not that any of that helps you right now.

Can you make do with a dildo and a video or something? Scratch the itch just enough that it calms down a bit? That helps me for a little while, although isn't exactly a great long-term substitute, I find.

Or if your girlfriend likes dressing in drag or just butch, add a strapon and you've got yourself a party! ;)

I don't think it makes you a 'piece of shit' to be a bit man-attracted as well; your sexuality is what it is, you can't help who you're attracted to, and a really great sexual partner will help you find ways to express all sorts of things.
 
sounds like you're just bisexual...nothing wrong with that but if you're unable to commit you're better off coming out with it now than walking down the aisle.
 
Sex toys (specifically dildos) may be useful for you. Both for just you and also for you and your girlfriend. :)
 
Teenyweeny said:
That would NEVER happen. Lol shes one of those if I can't have you no one will types.
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From experienence...this^^^is your real problem...
and what you're gonna regret later ..if you don't get out of dodge..
that's not love.
 
I tend to agree. I had an ex like that. I'm glad to be free of that.
 
rules said:
sounds like you're just bisexual...nothing wrong with that but if you're unable to commit you're better off coming out with it now than walking down the aisle.
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Being bisexual does not mean you can't be monogamous just like people of any other orientation.
 
I got married carrying that secret. I was monogamous for the marriage (9 years) and towards the end I was obsessed with man sex.

If you can't open up to her about this, find someone you can be open with, otherwise you're lying to 2 people.
 
Much like a giant tube full of explosive liquid, finesse and planning is the difference between a man on the moon or a fireball.
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EDIT: Much like a giant tube full of explosive liquid, finesse and planning AND SOMETIMES DUMB LUCK is the difference between a man on the moon or a fireball.
 
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