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Have you ever masturbated without porn or sexual fantasies?

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I tried this recently and - although much harder to climax - I felt much more refreshed afterwards, energized even. It's strange because after masturbating I usually feel sedated, but this time it was something else. I actually payed attention to the buildup while staring at the lamp on my desk. I was surprised at just how much more I got out of it. Has anyone else tried this before?
 
i do it on the airplane quite a lot. or when i have a pretty solid bench. just usually with my eyes closed...

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I've never needed porn to get off. Just kind of saw it as an added bonus making things more interesting. My sex drive has always been strong enough on its own without that need for extra help. Porn becomes boring after a while.

However, I usually am still imagining past times with lovers or picturing girls I know in real life that I would potentially want to sleep with. Do you mean using masturbation as a sort of tool to aid you in mental balance? Like a meditation of sorts?
 
I guess I didn't specify in my post that over 50% of my masturbation time is spent without looking at porn. I ussualy fantasize about people I want to have sex with during these times. When I try to masturbate without any sort of sexual aspect, I find it very hard to cum.
Masturbation is more than simply achieving or gas for me; it's a way to cope with the bottled up sexual disgratification I live with so fantasies play a really big part.
 
All the time...I've done it tons of times; but I think that's what happens when you grow up without a constant stream of easily accessible good porn?
 
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Honestly I can masturbate with no visual/mental stimulation and the physical stimulation is still enough to induce an orgasm.
 
MissVL said:
Honestly I can masturbate with no visual/mental stimulation and the physical stimulation is still enough to induce an orgasm.
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So you just sit there with a blank mind, focusing on your body? If you can really pull this off, more power to you. :)
 
MissVL said:
Honestly I can masturbate with no visual/mental stimulation and the physical stimulation is still enough to induce an orgasm.
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this is basically my goal in terms of my future wanking routine.

my orgasms used to be alot more magical before high speed internet porn
 
Porn is distracting for me when masturbating, I know it sounds stupid but I prefer to clear my mind and just focus on my body instead of distractions. Took me years to figure out that this is a more effective way to reach orgasm - for me at least.
 
I don't think so. Masturbating, while thinking of nothing? I always need some visual stimulation from fapdu to get the job done :D
 
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When I was a kid I only had to stroke the thing and it would come to life. A few more strokes and there would spunk everywhere. No porn no fantasies.
 
i havnt masturbated or watched porn for almost a week now.

ill see how long it takes for me to get hardons without any noticeable stimulus. then try orgasm purely focusing attention on sensation.

hope to never watch porn again tbh
 
Men use video porn more than women, because we are visual... we like to SEE things. Examples: the 5 million porn sites on the internet.

Women use text porn and use their minds to visualize what is happening - maybe put themselves in a characters place. Examples: Romance novels, fifty Shades of Grey.
 
Clitnhawk said:
Men use video porn more than women, because we are visual... we like to SEE things. Examples: the 5 million porn sites on the internet.

Women use text porn and use their minds to visualize what is happening - maybe put themselves in a characters place. Examples: Romance novels, fifty Shades of Grey.
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im interested in questioning if thats true for me.
 
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