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Have you ever cheated on someone or been the other person who someone's cheating wit?

I've never done it to anyone I've been with long-term and was serious about.....

On the other side, I grew up around a lot of east coast Italians, and if the guy who was fooling around with my girl knew me at all, I would take it as the ultimate form of disrespect and it would throw me into a blind rage for an hour or so.....The way I'm wired, I'd have to get revenge and cause you pain directly proportional to the pain you caused me(if not more)....

...thats how I think of it the first day, and in the first hour after I find out, well I'm genuinely concerned I may just spontaneously murder the guy in that situation....I don't think that makes me cool or tough, it probably makes me unstable, insecure, insane etc...anyway, after the first day I can put it in perspective and deal with it like a real human being....

I've been cheated on 3 times.....I don't take things as personally these days, so....I can put it in better perspective....sometimes shit just happens....
 
Serotonin101 said:
I've cheated and have been cheated on. it sucks sometimes. I'm currently "seeing" a girl I guess but never agreed to monogamy so I still see other women. I ain't slept with anyone else... yet. I'd definitely cheat though with a few bluelighters I've seen pics of ;)
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Yeah, I've been there where I kinda sorta was into someone but not that much. I've seen people just because I have nothing else going on (is that wrong? lol) and I never agreed to monogamy. For me (and men don't know this) is if I don't tell my sister about you, then I'm probably not that into you. haha. It's weird, but if I know it's never gonna work out, I just save myself the headache and don't tell my sister (she will give me shit if it doesn't work out, and it's annoying). If I am really into someone, I talk about him a lot with my sister. This was the case a few months ago where I knew it wasn't going anywhere and knew I was gonna call it off but I had nothing else going on so I stuck around. I don't know if I should feel guilty or not for that. Lucky for me, I was able to get him to call it off so I didn't have to sit down and have that awful talk.
 
pontifex01 said:
Woah man. Just read this. Get your sawn-off out and teach those cunts a lesson. Serious.

[Edit] Scratch the sawn-off. Home-made claymore with light-sensitive trigger. Blam.
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LOL...I've wanted to! Get out the AR-15 with an M203 slung under it...fire a few 'nades into the house, then open up on anyone who survives and tries to escape? :P
 
I've been "the other woman" quite a few times. Married Aries and Scorpio men are the best. Those fuckers are always horny...and completely unfaithful.
 
In all honesty...

Yes. First relationship in high school the girl lived in a different part of Sydney and we went to different schools. That was the first couple times i cheated. I don't know about her and didn't really care what she did with who to be honest.

In senior high school I was seeing a girl that I really loved. I was drunk one night and cheated on her with some other girl from our school a few years below...we 'had a break' then she tried to get me back by hooking up with another guy who sexually assaulted her. I still feel bad about it, she is single with a kid now.

I don't think "friends with benefits" shagging other people counts as cheating.

One night stands at Uni and seeing the girl(s) with other guys at the Uni bar... But it goes both ways.

I went travelling with a girl friend to Amsterdam. When we got high one night she fell asleep. I got bored and went walking through the red light district, ended up cheating on her with a South American prostitute. What she didn't know couldn't hurt her.

Hooking up with multiple girls in one night doesn't count as cheating. Nor does them hooking up with other guys...

I know I have more than likely been cheated on by girls, but I have done the same. I don't really mind tbh.

In future perhaps I will have a "monogamous relationship", but for now its all fun and games. Such is life.
 
Have I been cheated on? Yes, by a few of my previous partners. That was well before I sought out people of mature mindset, though. Since then, I've been in a long-term relationship (3.5 years so far), and neither of us would really enjoy getting off with someone else on our own. Though, my fiance has insisted multiple times in the past that it's okay if I want a one-night stand here and there, but I honestly don't find very many people attractive, nor do I desire having sex with people I barely know. I've done it before, and it has always been dissatisfying to say the least.
 
I once was chased by and got together with my Ex Bosses girlfriend, was kinda awkward at work sometimes, found out after she had a string of about 4 other people, she's now happily married to the fool with a kid too. I hope it was just a phase, we were both pretty young, was like 7 years ago, hope she doesn't cheat anymore, he was a decent guy.

I did end up telling him about it though but he didn't believe me and in return for that I got severely beaten up by her brother, the psycho madman, he sat on a train with me for 20 minutes making smalltalk then when we got to the station steps at the exit just went mental on me and unless I person who I am grateful for didn't step in and tell me to run I wouida been down the hospital that night, had some horrible bruises on my face from being kicked in the head though, wasn't the best, I carried on with my evening though and met up with friends and got drunk in the pub.

I am totally against cheating on the other side though and have never cheated on a girlfriend and never would, I'd rather break up with them than cheat on them.
 
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I am not sure hooking up with other people while in an open relationship counts.

But, I have definitely been cheated on.

I once turned down an offer by this fiery young thing from the Dominican Republic, because she was married. I actually still regret that from time to time.

It was probably a wise decision though. I can't say I wasn't tempted.

Her ass was devine.

:)
 
Firstly, I have never cheated while I was in a relationship. But.
Was cheated on by my second ever gf. It was with a guy I vaguely knew while I was on holiday. I later broke off their relationship by sleeping with the girl several times at a 3 day music festival we were both at. (Side note ; the girl and I nevet spoke again but me and the guy kind of bonded over the whole thing and are good friends now.)
Years later I had a passionate week with a girl who had a fiancee. We were friends sort of, through other people . And it just kinda happened. A couple of times. She broke it off with me after that out of guilt towards the fiancee. I don't think the guy evrr found out, but I did feel kind of bad for him. But it was so goddamn hot.
Strangely enough, a week after that I had sex with a girl who had a boyfriend, I found out later though, when it happened I didn't know so emotionally that one doesn't count but factually it does.
I think that's it.
 
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