skipjames
Bluelighter
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Hellos,
I dunno whether this is the right place to post this but It s an issue that is fucking with my mind big time so maybe it is . Also. I m sure that many here have lived similar situations sp you ll give good feedback.
This friend of mine has always liked her booze. and booze only. We ve been friends since we were 14 ( now we both are 41) , we ve always had each other back in our hometown, in London when we both were there , then we ve kept in touch ever since . But one year ago, the wine drinking classy friend of mine who always handled her drinks turned into a whisky fuelled mess, calls at the most inappropiate times, when I had the time to answer I had to face 4- 5 hours of drunk rants and insults, especially when I suggested that maybe she was drinking too much and maybe her troubles at Work and with her bf were also booze related.
My workload at the time was absurd, so were the quantities of blow I was doing , after several increasingly Crazy calls I realised that telling her to fuck off and stick that bottle up her arse was about to happen. I stopped talking to her instead.and we haven t talked ever since, just a couple of Whatsapp. She s better, had the sensr of leaving London with her bf , there s something that should be addressed, but how? Should I have taken more bemzos and be the punchball he needed ? Should I have tried to talk to her when she was sober? And who am i to talk about sobriety? 05:39 AM, 4 grams of blow só far but no questions....
I dunno whether this is the right place to post this but It s an issue that is fucking with my mind big time so maybe it is . Also. I m sure that many here have lived similar situations sp you ll give good feedback.
This friend of mine has always liked her booze. and booze only. We ve been friends since we were 14 ( now we both are 41) , we ve always had each other back in our hometown, in London when we both were there , then we ve kept in touch ever since . But one year ago, the wine drinking classy friend of mine who always handled her drinks turned into a whisky fuelled mess, calls at the most inappropiate times, when I had the time to answer I had to face 4- 5 hours of drunk rants and insults, especially when I suggested that maybe she was drinking too much and maybe her troubles at Work and with her bf were also booze related.
My workload at the time was absurd, so were the quantities of blow I was doing , after several increasingly Crazy calls I realised that telling her to fuck off and stick that bottle up her arse was about to happen. I stopped talking to her instead.and we haven t talked ever since, just a couple of Whatsapp. She s better, had the sensr of leaving London with her bf , there s something that should be addressed, but how? Should I have taken more bemzos and be the punchball he needed ? Should I have tried to talk to her when she was sober? And who am i to talk about sobriety? 05:39 AM, 4 grams of blow só far but no questions....