He sounds like an ass.
You’re better off without him.
Like the sad fact is too many men can be replaced with a viberator (I recommend the Hitachi).
Ok, so you think like this.
Look, here’s the deal, women don’t owe you emotional energy and sex, period, but especially also if you bring NOTHING to the table (like being funny or being nice to talk to or some shit like that).
Also, fuck you for implying our value lies in our fertility.
We are not just walking uteruses waiting for a loser to impregnate us.
OP absolutely should stop fucking this POS.
He brings nothing to the table for her sexually, emotionally, or otherwise.
Exactly ... This is me sucking his dick, and him not even touching my breasts unless I ask ... maybe it's because, as some of the guys have intimated, I'm not really worthy of sexual attention because I am older and not so hot.
Well he is four years older than me and not so hot himself these days.
Fuck it guys, some of you are waaay outta touch with reality.
Tonight my Dad's friend, aged 72 (SEVENTY TWO) is asking me out and telling me I am sexy and even feeling me up. He's, oh, gee, only twenty six years older than me. I suppose as a woman on the wrong side of 45, that's about appropriate, right?
All of that aside, with my FWB I might be prepared to put up with being treated like a masturbatory aid if he would give me some basic companionship and affection. Conversation, or watching a film (of MY choice for a change, not his) ... a cuddle. Being interested in what I am up to.
And yes, bugger it, if I'm pandering to his penis, he ought to be willing to lend me a little money if I really need it.
I have bought him drinks. I have given him free drugs. Recently I even paid him to do my washing in his washing machine because mine was broken - $20 bucks per load.
Finally, for the crew of dicks who think I'm a user cos I'm not thrilled to bits to be sexually exploited and disrespected and told not to "interrupt him when he's talking" ... back in January when I was staying in a women's shelter and still on crutches, he met me at my flat to "fix the lock on my door". He failed to fix it properly. I said "look I'm a bit tired ... " and politely tried to intimate that I didn't want to have any sort of sex that day. He simply refused to leave, though. He just hung around silently. So I had to do the usual to end it because there was a curfew at the shelter. He manipulated me into letting him FILM IT ON HIS PHONE.
Afterwards he didn't even offer me a lift to the shelter, although I was on
crutches. He just dropped me at a train station.
All of the above suggests I am an idiot and in dire need of assertiveness training. But certainly I have not been trying to "get a return on sex" in some callous way.
To hell with you misogynists assholes (you know who are). Go join the Men's Rights Activist on Forum or something.