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Guys texting girls creepy/sexual/crude things

Are the "guy subjects" being discussed here faint acquaintances texting this shit or are we talking about guys as a whole, whether in an intimate relationship or not?

Truth be told I think sexting is hot as fuck when the actions are mutual. Even if said sexters aren't in a committed relationship. An ex of mine and I would get downright nasty sexting all day long, so when we met up that evening the sexual tension had been built up to unbearable and we'd ravage each other.

If it's some random dink then a polite "no thanks" should suffice from the woman's end. If he persists then blocking a number is just a couple button pushes away.
 
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llama112 said:
Polite doesn't have different definitions. If someone is talking to you in real life, and you didn't want to talk to them, it would be just plain rude to ignore them, walk away, etc. It's the same kind of thing with texting. Ignoring someone is rude. Therefore, responding to someone is polite.
If it gets so far as having a negative effect on you, then there is no need to be polite anymore. But that's a bit off the original topic.
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That's funny I never mentioned ignoring someone at first. Love, I think you got it twisted - I said be straight with them - as in politely tell them to fuck off coz you're not interested in a creepy fucker, and you also have a boyfriend. If they carry on, THAT is when polite doesn't even come into it - you just ignore them, and the abhorrent behaviour will cease when they're bored. Simples.
 
B1tO'RoughJack said:
In this case, "polite" apparently means being a pussy. Excuse me for being a blunt motherfucker, but "being polite" is being straight with someone, then stopping contact with them if they are having a negative effect on you and your actions haven't changed their behaviour towards you.
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LLama's right, that isn't the definition of being polite at all. Being straight with someone is the opposite of polite, lol.
 
Well, Llama's not right - and neither are you - being straight with someone CAN be polite as long as you don't insult them gratuitously in the process... Being real with someone, speaking your truth with someone is "polite" - otherwise being polite is worthless and only for those of you who are bred to be subservient! Think this is wrong? Prove yourself to be forthright, polite and full of autonomous confidence...being straight with someone will come into it, you're a fucking letdown in your responsibility to the human race otherwise, if you cannot be straight with someone and believe yourself to be "polite".
 
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Depends for me. If I just met you, I'm pretty shy and standoffish until I get to know you. Once I feel comfortable with you, I have a pretty sick sense of humor and if we are dating, I am ok with sexual innuendos or jokes. I make them too. :)

For me, I have to be attracted to you to get into truly raunchy texts and conversations. If I am not into you at all, I would probably just ignore it and hope it goes away. I get kinda annoyed if someone crosses the line and I am completely not attracted to them. If I am attracted to the person and we are flirting to the bedroom or dating seriously, then I love sexy texts especially during the day. It's fun when you're doing the usual shitty work grind for the day.
 
B1tO'RoughJack said:
Well, Llama's not right - and neither are you - being straight with someone CAN be polite as long as you don't insult them gratuitously in the process... Being real with someone, speaking your truth with someone is "polite" - otherwise being polite is worthless and only for those of you who are bred to be subservient! Think this is wrong? Prove yourself to be forthright, polite and full of autonomous confidence...being straight with someone will come into it, you're a fucking letdown in your responsibility to the human race otherwise, if you cannot be straight with someone and believe yourself to be "polite".
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I have addressed these things proactively. I'm polite and I don't need a point to prove so. A person that has any meaning to me will not fuck up if they ask my advice. My advice is not lacking in validity.
 
B1tO'RoughJack said:
Well, Llama's not right - and neither are you - being straight with someone CAN be polite as long as you don't insult them gratuitously in the process... Being real with someone, speaking your truth with someone is "polite" - otherwise being polite is worthless and only for those of you who are bred to be subservient! Think this is wrong? Prove yourself to be forthright, polite and full of autonomous confidence...being straight with someone will come into it, you're a fucking letdown in your responsibility to the human race otherwise, if you cannot be straight with someone and believe yourself to be "polite".
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Breathe.
You're wrong about definitions, that is all. I'm not saying you're wrong about the importance of "telling it like it is," but you're wrong about definitions.
You self-righteous bassist.
 
i know someone who is big into like, exchanging pics of his dick and tit pics with women. the most confusing thing is he seems to talk to mostly intelligent seeming women with real lives. i associate getting the tits out for net strangers with being a young teen and starved for attention, so it's just embarrassing to me. a different net culture, i guess. i grew up in a different era, so now i judge that shit. i guess grown ass women get their rocks off doing that shit. i won't lie, i still get naked on live webcam occasionally while drunk but only for like my ex boyfriend and one guy i have talked to for a long time.

as for just textual words, i don't get that at all. i am talking about texts like "oh my pussy is so wet for you now" etc. i don't get it unless you are like married and that shit is exciting in anticipation of sex later. i certainly don't understand what would be hot about texting that to random guys.
 
Jean-Paul said:
as for just textual words, i don't get that at all. i am talking about texts like "oh my pussy is so wet for you now" etc. i don't get it unless you are like married and that shit is exciting in anticipation of sex later. i certainly don't understand what would be hot about texting that to random guys.
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Or what would be hot about relatively random guys texting you this.
 
shishigami said:
Or what would be hot about relatively random guys texting you this.
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not unless they look like joseph gordon levitt, honey.

it just seems so stupid to me.

there is so much free porn available, can't you just J/O and conduct the rest of your business with actual thoughts and feelings apart from fucking? being funny will get a response from me. not "oh i am so hard right now". lolz.
 
`I just lookedd up the official definitiion for politness - I will addmit I am wrong on that, and my self righteous bassist point of view is one of integrity not politeness - SO I say to hell with politeness, etiquette and "manners" - they are there to (as I said before) keep you "In YOUR PLACE". Worthless in the real world then. Ignore the irritant texter. But leave it alone if it's not to you, and talk to your gf. Peace
 
I happen to like it. Especially when the pics she sends me are in random places, most of which are public and asking for me to come get her and fuck her right away. If sex isn't going to be happening soon afterwards or if I'm busy, than I won't even respond to that shit.
 
I wouldn't waste time responding to messages like that if I was a girl, somebody who does that definitely isn't your knight in shining armor.
 
i have the opposite problem. i used to fuck this girl in PA when I went to Penn State there and now that I live back in jersey she like stalks me. She'll send me nudes and provocative pics and messages when I don't even talk to her and at random times of the day. It is majorly annoying.
 
Lysis said:
Depends for me. If I just met you, I'm pretty shy and standoffish until I get to know you. Once I feel comfortable with you, I have a pretty sick sense of humor and if we are dating, I am ok with sexual innuendos or jokes. I make them too. :)

For me, I have to be attracted to you to get into truly raunchy texts and conversations. If I am not into you at all, I would probably just ignore it and hope it goes away. I get kinda annoyed if someone crosses the line and I am completely not attracted to them. If I am attracted to the person and we are flirting to the bedroom or dating seriously, then I love sexy texts especially during the day. It's fun when you're doing the usual shitty work grind for the day.
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+1

I have and will continue to ignore anyone I don't want to hear from...

I would consider those girls who are indulging, yet acting as tho they think it's creepy..
as just that..acting..so no one thinks bad of them.
 
Are you implying that the ladies perversions are twisted enough to want to appear to be saving face when in fact they are reveling in the creepiness of it all?

Inquiring male minds must know.
 
cheerio said:
Are you implying that the ladies perversions are twisted enough to want to appear to be saving face when in fact they are reveling in the creepiness of it all?

Inquiring male minds must know.
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No..not implying..
Stating as fact. ;)
 
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