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shishigami

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Why are so many girls fine with a guy doing something like this? Maybe not to the point of playing along but where they still continue responding to texts like this on a regular basis?
 
Because, -oh my fucking god- it is the case many girls find such comments and topics as amusing and/or humorous or otherwise to have some sort of merit. As such, they continue it for the same reasons.

Further, just because it someone does not like or dislikes something, that they will not still accept it or play along with it for social reasons.

Also, is it actually the case that "many" fine girls are fine with it? How many is many?
 
There are women who do this too. My friend dated a woman who would constantly text him the stuff you're describing. I found it rather odd but he met her on Craigslist. For example we were driving home from a concert and she was at a bar drunk texting him. She texted him many times nonstop in the short period we were in the car driving home, even though she knew he was at a concert with a friend and he'd go see her later after he dropped me off. She still texted him some sexual texts like "OMG my pussy is soooooo wet, and my clit is throbbing! I want you to come fuck me. I want that dick! NOW!!!" 8) and stuff like that while we were driving. I told him, you should reply back and write something like "*Yawn!* That's nice." and my friend told me how he did and how she'd just keep texting stuff like that to him nonstop. They didn't date that long since he said how she was way too sex obsessed and she even wanted him to do her without condoms when they'd just been dating for a short period of time.

I'm also wondering OP how many women are OK with what you described? My friend didn't really like it when the woman he was dating did this but he put up with it anyway since he was dating her at the time.

I rarely text anyone and if I'm in a relationship or dating someone who does text I don't text sexual things to them. I had a friend text some sexual stuff to me once when I was bored at work but I wanted him to do it.

Like Llama wrote I had some guy who was a few years older than me, who I had just met online and we then met up for a blind date and discovered that we're not compatible. He keep texting me just random stupid stuff like "OMG I'm at this party, and I hate these people here WTF should I do?" or constantly asking me to get together when I'd told him no in person and said how we're not compatible. He finally did contact me and ask if I wanted to date him and I told him how I thought we'd established that we're not compatible and how I'd said no. I'll tell people to stop texting me unless they're a friend of mine.
 
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1) Women on the more sexual end of the spectrum are IME more depraved and sex crazed than their male peers.

2) Directness, crudity, and embracing my inner creep have gotten me much farther with women over a long life than politeness and tact have gotten my friends.
 
I don't think sexting a girl friend is rude, I do think that sexting someone who isn't interested is both rude and creepy.

Examples:

A guy I know, A texted my sister for a long period of time stuff like I want to get you wet and begging her to hook up with him, she responded to everyone even though she had no interest in him and thought he was a creep.

Someone was texting an ex of mine (while we were going out) that she should start hooking up with him and leave me for him, she responded to all of them and didn't tell him to fuck off.

Someone was texting a friends girlfriend that he wanted to get her real wet and taste her juices, weird shit, and she was fine with it.


I understand that it could be amusing for a period of time but there are a decent number of girls I know who are fine with texting like this going on for a long period of time, when they acknowledge that he's creepy. I guess for many of them they like the attention.
 
shishigami said:
Examples:

A guy I know, A texted my sister for a long period of time stuff like I want to get you wet and begging her to hook up with him, she responded to everyone even though she had no interest in him and thought he was a creep.

Someone was texting an ex of mine (while we were going out) that she should start hooking up with him and leave me for him, she responded to all of them and didn't tell him to fuck off.

Someone was texting a friends girlfriend that he wanted to get her real wet and taste her juices, weird shit, and she was fine with it.
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I see what you're saying. I'd ignore stuff like this unless I was interested. Hell, maybe I'd initiate it!
 
In all of the cases given the girls would either ignore the sexual parts of the texts or say I'm not interested but if someone (be it guy or girl) were to do that to me I would simply ignore the texts from that person as a whole. When I talked to these girls they would say they thought the guy was a nice person and didn't mean any of it.
 
I like sexts from my bf, but otherwise it is just inappropriate. Not all women need an ego boost from random creeps. 8) Mild face to face flirtation among friends is an entirely different story, however.
 
And these girls like going on and on about how gross the guy is with all their girlfriends?

That IS creepy and sad all around.

I guess it takes two--or more--to tango. No?
 
I like sexts from my bf, but otherwise it is just inappropriate. Not all women need an ego boost from random creeps. Mild face to face flirtation among friends is an entirely different story, however.
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"Not all" is not equivalent to "precisely zero", is it now? Random Creep means exactly nothing since we have not established how much the value of some measure designated creep varies from it's expected value from one instance to the other or how a creep can be non-random, or what we do differentiate the various dimensions from each other.
 
A lot of people reply to texts because it's just polite. Many people don't know how to say "stop".
I had a guy that I barely knew keep texting me because he wanted to hook up. I had a boyfriend, that wasn't going to happen, but I told him that when I met him. He kept texting, I was polite at first but then eventually just stopped replying.
As well, for some people, they like the attention.
 
llama112 said:
A lot of people reply to texts because it's just polite. Many people don't know how to say "stop".
I had a guy that I barely knew keep texting me because he wanted to hook up. I had a boyfriend, that wasn't going to happen, but I told him that when I met him. He kept texting, I was polite at first but then eventually just stopped replying.
As well, for some people, they like the attention.
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Exactly. I've let things go to far with guys just because I'm too damned polite. And by the time it's too far I feel bad, like it's my fault for leading them on. It's not because I want attention, in fact I'd rather avoid attention if possible.
 
How about just texting the guys that you aren't interested ladies?

Really, how hard is that?
 
llama112 said:
A lot of people reply to texts because it's just polite. Many people don't know how to say "stop".
I had a guy that I barely knew keep texting me because he wanted to hook up. I had a boyfriend, that wasn't going to happen, but I told him that when I met him. He kept texting, I was polite at first but then eventually just stopped replying.
As well, for some people, they like the attention.
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In this case, "polite" apparently means being a pussy. Excuse me for being a blunt motherfucker, but "being polite" is being straight with someone, then stopping contact with them if they are having a negative effect on you and your actions haven't changed their behaviour towards you.
 
B1tO'RoughJack said:
In this case, "polite" apparently means being a pussy. Excuse me for being a blunt motherfucker, but "being polite" is being straight with someone, then stopping contact with them if they are having a negative effect on you and your actions haven't changed their behaviour towards you.
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Polite doesn't have different definitions. If someone is talking to you in real life, and you didn't want to talk to them, it would be just plain rude to ignore them, walk away, etc. It's the same kind of thing with texting. Ignoring someone is rude. Therefore, responding to someone is polite.
If it gets so far as having a negative effect on you, then there is no need to be polite anymore. But that's a bit off the original topic.
 
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