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guys, do you prefer: toned women or soft ? why ? thanks !

_mistresspoppy_ said:
If you take a girl home, you should respect her for wanting to be with you. Okay, if you pay 100$ for a skinny hooker, and it turns out she's fat, you have a right to feel ripped off, but if a girls likes you enough to have sex with you, then you reject her for a minor flaw -After you get her in bed- that's pretty sad. It has nothing to do with penis size, I'm talking about respect.
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Oh my bad. I didn't reject her from the bed. But i definitely didn't try to hook up with her again.

sorry for the double post.
 
YOOOOOOO.

Some jiggle is good - in all the right places - tits N ass...MINOR thigh jiggle is acceptable, anything else isn't very attractive as it's signs of not being healthy...

That being said - some fat girls are nicely proportioned and can just pull off being fat...Obese is never cool though.
 
Among other things, this kinda thing depends a lot on cultural preference. In places where most of the women tend to be tones, even minor jiggle becomes less acceptable (and vice versa).
 
my boyf liked my body best when i had a training regime that i can no longer physically do due to various injuries. :(

i've tried what i can to get it back but can't. so he definitely prefers very toned women, which probably makes me feel way more wobbly than i am.
 
i use to work out ALOT especially my legs running jogging mainly i was in EXTREMELY good shape , i quit about 3 years ago and my body has gain fat in all the right places ass tits and legs and i love my body now it looks way more womanly and i look thicker. my boyfriend loves it he said he didn't really like that my body was so hard and toned before he prefers a nice fat butt :)

i think a girl should always try to maintain an overall nice shape (flat belly mainly ) the flatter the belly and the bigger your tits and butt is the better its hot to be thick in the right places at least were im from guys like fuller girls
 
a little jiggle all the way ;) more cushion for the pushin lolz but really it depends on the guy...but for me being a girl i think a little jiggle is a damn good thing
 
I'll have to add that a tiny belly is really cute...I don't like fat ROLLS though = fat, but a bit of "podge" is kinda nice...shows that a girl isn't TOO obsessed with fitting in to what "society" wants.
 
Im not a guy either, but I am also a lesbian.

In a girl I actually like the really skinny girls, that most people say is to skinny for them. I like boney girls. Im not a fan of reallyyyy fit girls though, I dont want to see your stomach muscles while your standing there, it grosses me out. Now if you flex your muscles to see them that ok.

i dont like really fat girls though, Ive dated a couple, but we never had sex, and no its not because they was fat. One girl we hadnt been talking long. Another when I started to stay with this girl everynight almost I noticed she didnt shower, yuck!

But I do find pregnant girls hot. I always have. I actually have a ex who I was with for 2 years, met her while she was prego, she left her gf for me. And she also got prego again with me trying to have us a girl. It got a bit crammed in the shower Lol, but I found her more attractive pregnant than I did skinny.

I have a thing where girls I like cant be any bigger than I am. Of course Im not super skinny, im 120 pounds, muffin top and kinda big arms, and I think my thighs are big also. The weight of the girls can be more than mine, its about how big they look. Of course I dont ignore bigger girls, I try to get to know them at least, and if we click than good, if not we can be friends. I dont want a girl who starves them self though, she needs to eat lol
 
A Blind Guy said:
before we invented agriculture we didn't need fat stores because we are pretty efficient at hunting through persistence. it actually yields more pounds of meat per time required than all other forms of hunting besides gun.
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not really. before we had agriculture, we needed fat even more since we didn't know when/where our next meal was coming from.

and what do you mean "hunting through persistence"? what other "forms of hunting" are there? you have to be persistent enough to kill the damn animal no matter what you're hunting or hunting with.
 
A little muscle with cushion over it. visible abs are alright as long as shes not more shredded than me.
 
Being an ex-stripper (was one for 14 years) and having seen A LOT of naked women, even the most toned ones ALWAYS had a little jiggle in their asses. That jiggle is part of being a woman. And most men seem to prefer the ones with a little extra layer, though really it is attitude which makes for true sexiness.

I am pretty fit, but definitely have a bit of an extra layer on my ass and thighs, (been working out and its helping!) but have never had a problem with anybody thinking I was unattractive as soon as I was naked. Men like women to look like women, imperfections and all. Anyhow, most guys don't have stereotypically perfect bodies and they don't have any problems getting laid!

And women in magazines and movies usually are underweight and have major airbrushing and professional makeup done to make them look "good".
 
I think theres a small discrepancy here on "jiggle," or, its too loose of a term ;) . Girls can have big curves and still not have alot of that jiggle which I like to define as having more cellulite. The girl I'm seeing now is definitely not skinny, and even though she doesn't have the toned "tightness" everywhere, she definitely doesn't jiggle, except in the expected places (ass & tits). The thighs usually give it away for me, they pretty accurately indicate how good the rest of the girl's body is. If they are nice and smooth, it doesnt really matter how ROUND or BIG they are, ALL smooth legs make guys want to caress them, and they usually hint at a very cute body underneath their clothing. On my campus I see a ton of legs, from huge tight and muscular Amazonian varsity athletes to shorter and rounder legs of smaller girls. Guys all over campus love to look at all of them. Alot of girls know the power their legs have too, some of them at clubs don't hesitate to inform me how smooth their legs are, even if they're not exactly "skinny" per se (girls are so cute like that... 8) )

That being said, for BOTH sexes putting on swimwear puts on alot of expectations. You do typically need to have a better looking body on the beach or at a rave than in a different place like a club or a bar, but if you at least work out enough to get rid of the cellulite, any man who deserves to be hooking up with you won't complain. This same expectation goes for guys as well, I've had times where I was really skinny and it really made me feel unattractive to the girls I saw at the beach. No bueno.
 
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I definitely like toned women more, but a little extra fat is healthier than being super skinny. I really like big butts (but not too big) but if a woman has a toned butt that is still somewhat jiggly, that is the sexiest thing ever. I love it when a girl works out/runs/bikes or whatever, I also work out alot and itd be cool if I could find a girl that would work out with me. the most important thing is that she is healthy and has a good personality though.
today onb the beach I actually saw a girl who was really cute from the front, thin, good looking, not too thin though, but then her but jiggled SO much when she walked, it wasn't big, it just looked like she had NO muscle there, only fat, it grossed me out.

but yeah, toned woman are the best. upper body tone is just as important as lower body tone though. I don't like jiggly arms
 
FerreNoctem said:
but if you at least work out enough to get rid of the cellulite, any man who deserves to be hooking up with you won't complain.
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A girl can be super skinny and still have cellulite. I have always had cellulite, even when I was 16, biking 20 miles a day and weighed 120 pounds (I'm 5'9" BTW so that is pretty skinny for my height!) I think 98% of women have cellulite so you gotta deal with it!
 
My girl has an incredibly round (big) ass. It hella jiggles when she's naked, I honestly don't give a fuck about jiggling.... Shit, my ass probably jiggles too. What makes her attractive to me is how amazing it feels to stick my dick in her from behind, I had never even tried doggy style before her and it's sincerely the hottest thing I have ever done. I love generous portions of ass.... My girl also has a really skinny waist right above that ass and her tits look small when she is clothed... With clothes off tho I swear they double in size, jiggle around and shit.

IMO if yer boy don't dig yer curves he's probably a huge closet fag.
 
munki said:
A girl can be super skinny and still have cellulite. I have always had cellulite, even when I was 16, biking 20 miles a day and weighed 120 pounds (I'm 5'9" BTW so that is pretty skinny for my height!) I think 98% of women have cellulite so you gotta deal with it!
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it's important to note as well, that without invasive surgeries, there is no "cure" for cellulite. one of its primary causes is the very hormone that makes us female: estrogen. women can work out to make it look better, but they can't "work it off". a man will have a rude awakening if he believes with enough effort a woman can get rid of her cellulite.

however, i'll go back to my original statement that i think people notice my cellulite MUCH less than i do. ime, guys are normally more forgiving and less observant of such things so even though many of them here are saying they prefer "no jiggle" a man's version of "jiggle" is much more lenient than a woman's version of "jiggle".
 
Cellulite isn't bad... I notice the guys in this thread are throwing around the word "soft" quite a bit with regard to what they like. I agree, when I touch a girl, I want to feel a bit of cushion. Even toned girls still have this cushion around the waist... If this is the cellulite in question, it's a good trait to most guys IMO.
 
From what I have gathered, men seem to dig whatever looks good on that woman in particular.
Personally, I love women and men, but I love women who have toned curves! I like a woman who you can tell eats, but you can tell also works out and cares about remaining fit. To me that shows that she is living life to the fullest and wants the best of both worlds—looks and a good meal! To me it is all about balancing femininity with a sense of strength that shows the woman cares enough about her body to put some effort into making it look good. I do fall for skinny chicks though, they can be fun to dominate, but my ex-girlfriend who I thought was an absolute knockout had a lil bit of meat on her. She simply worked out so her tummy was flat and she had a perfectly round toosh. I like bodies that look good naked. I understand that humans have flaws, but the body has to look as though they care about it once the clothes come off.
 
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I have gotten with skinny girls and larger girls, but i've never been with a girl that weighs more than 175lbs.
I think it is gross when girls are too thin, like you can see all their ribs and vertebrae in their spine. People who have muscle and work out and are toned but still have a little extra fat on them are healthier than those who don't have any fat on them at all. I think that different girls look better at different weights too. One girl might look good being very thin while another girl might look good with a nice big booty and a few extra pounds spread out over her torso
 
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