^ I appreciate the fact that your mind is open, GodandLove, and that you are willing to change your beliefs based on your knowledge.
Like you, I am also NOT fine with giving children speed. But I recognize that there might be some special circumstances where it is preferable to the alternative.
They do make products that are pure CBD, without any THC (or, possibly, just with very, very little THC?).
You are standing on firm ground in worrying about what THC might do to a child's brain - it is indeed very troubling.
But it might be better than the alternative...
Are you against giving all psychoactives to children?
How about caffeine? No chocolate for your kids?
Sugar?
I try to raise my kids with as few nasties as possible, but I do let them eat chocolate sometimes.
So, I can't claim that I don't give them psychoactives at all.
However, I would never let them use weed.... unless, God forbid, they had Dravet or something that terrible.