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GOOD sex, and Girls who just Lie there,

ChickenScratch said:
exactly, sounds like op needs to be a bit more aggressive. every girl has an inner whore, for the most part. as men, it's our job to do the things that will allow them to feel comfortable enough to release said inner whore. some women just take more time than others, but if you're doing it right and take enough time, you'll have them begging to ride your cock and get fucked from behind before you know it.
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Thank you! Release the inner whore LOL <3

OP: if the chick is just laying there. get a lil rough. I LOVE IT when a guy gets rough, its fucking hot. Pull her down a bit, flip her over, lift that ass up and pound her into the headboard. I like to have gentle sex sometimes. But when a guy starts out average and then suddenly turns the tables and gets rough, it's such a nice surprise, gets the adrenaline flowing, and makes me want to get crazy too.
Dont wanna flip her over, then push her legs up as previously mentioned. Hold her arms down and make her squirm. Choke her, if you have to. If you do it the right way, it's a turn on.
My first wasn't exactly the most skilled lover, and could be repetitive. I dated a few other guys that were alright, before I started dating one that liked to be rough and playful and change things up all the time. That's when I TRULY started to appreciate and enjoy sex. So, get a lil rough, and maybe your girl will respond. Twist her into some interesting positions, get crazy, and so will she :)
 
i mix it up a lot....even when in missionary i cant lay still i have to do some of the work. i am quite confident in bed where as my fiance wasnt when we met. things have changed now tho and our sex life is amazing....never the same twice. stops it becoming boring and routine.
 
i went from an adventurous attentive sexual gf to just lie there girls :(

word of advise don't believe any girl that claims to be good in bed, kinky etc etc
 
I like lots of different positions... I'll pretty much try anything, as long as it doesn't involve my boyfriend doing my from behind. I have some sexual abuse that goes along with that position.

I honestly get bored from doing missionary a lot... I mean you can mix it up a bit so its not just the traditional missionary, but I like to to move around. My boyfriend was so excited by this when we started having sex and I asked him about it... apparently his ex would only do traditional missionary. I would die of boredom if I ever dated a guy like that.
 
I've never understood how someone just lays there without feeling incredibly awkward and useless. You should be burning some serious calories while having sex, not falling asleep :\

Anyway, even when I first started having sex I couldn't imagine just laying there. Once again, how awkward is that..? I thought it was kind of an exaggeration when guys mentioned girls they'd been with acting like this but after coming across this thread and hearing my guy's story [about a girl he dated for four years and how she would always just lay there and make it very obvious that she didn't wanna have sex], I guess my male friends weren't exaggerating at all.

Do you think these girls are usually either completely terrified of making a wrong move and subsequently embarrassing themselves or do you think they're borderline asexual and just trying to please their partner??
 
Mr_Fluffykins said:
ive been out of a serious relationship for 15 months,
ive had sex a few times over the course, and everysingle one, the girl just lied there, maybe being affectionate back but nothing really special

except one girl who actively jumped ontop of me, and started riding my cock in my car, this girl, is special, this girl is awesome:P im in love with this girl, just haven't been able to have bedroom sex with her. (can't wait to move out)

I like my sex to have multiple positions, even if they are only slightly different,

leggs up to the side over one shoulder seems to hit the pussy in a good way

so guys here, whats your opinion of girls just lying there,
and if you would consider that good sex,

or is good sex the type of sex that lasts awhile with constantly shifting possitions,

ive experimented with lots of different women, and i have come to find that really fat girls, don't make good sexual partners, and don't make for what i consider good suck, because they aren't as flexible, and depending on how big they are its hard to go leggs up? whats your opinion

girls? do you just lie there? why? if you do?missionary possition doesn't hit all the optimal nerves from my experience
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Hehehe I've already posted about this before, but HELL YES I do the missionary position, but not ordinary missionary; I do it like THIS. That way, if you stretch your legs apart as far as you can (as the girl), it causes your inner thigh and pussy muscles to flex and pulsate to try to pull back together= BEST ORGASM EVER!

However, I DO believe in trying all sorts of positions to see what's best for you. Doggystyle, girl-on-top, and different standing/sitting variations are all awesome! I just mentioned the above first b/c even though it's technically "missionary," the girl can (and hopefully WILL) participate by flexing her abs and pelvic muscles and changing her leg position.
 
User Name Here said:
Do you think these girls are usually either completely terrified of making a wrong move and subsequently embarrassing themselves or do you think they're borderline asexual and just trying to please their partner??
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Some girls are brought up feeling ashamed and "dirty" about their sexuality, so I would say probably the latter is more their problem (being borderline asexual & just trying to please their partner).
 
Becky, I personally think missionary can be freaking awesome. There are so many ways of doing it and every one I can think of is pretty awesome for both parties involved from my experience :P
 
lol @ dead fish

Yeah, in agreement with many of the other posts, there could be a number of reasons for why a girl just lays there.

1) She's inexperienced. In that case, I guess you have to decide if it's worth giving it a few more times to build her experience level. Maybe try guiding her to different positions and such that feel good to you, also keeping in mind what you think would feel good to her. After so many times, she'll pick up on it.

2) She's not into it. If you think you are fulfilling your role as a sex partner, and she's not reciprocating, then I guess it's just a difference in preferences. Oh well. There's plenty more fish in the sea.

3) She's shy. This can go along with inexperience, but it could also be that she's just timid with new partners. I'm kind of like this, although I certainly don't just "lay there", it take me getting comfortable with a person before I fully get into sex the way that I want to. Several past lovers have told me the first time having sex with me was pretty average, but that after a few go-arounds they enjoy it a lot more :) It takes me awhile to feel out what they are into and learn how to incorporate it with what I like as well. Suggestions, guidance, and compliments help a lot! I always feel more confident when a guy tells me when I'm making him feel good. Not that I'm suggesting you spit out compliments just for the sake of being nice, just place emphasis on the things she does that you really enjoy. And no good partner, IMO, will ever be offended by a little guidance. Sometimes it's actually a relief to have someone tell you upfront what they like.

4) She's really just lazy and doesn't care to do anything more than lie there. If you're not into that (which you clearly aren't ;) ) then just decline a repeat session.

Also, while what you're saying about fat chicks might make sense in many cases, one of my best friends is around 245lb., and from what every guy has told me, she's a tigress in the bedroom :) We've only shared one guy, and while my experience with him was simply a one night stand, he went back to her over and over again, lol... she's over 100lb. bigger than me but apparently whatever she was doing was more than what I could, and I actually ask her for sex advice a lot. So don't dismiss ladies from a certain weight range, as long as you are physically attracted to her, go for it!
 
I like sex the best when there's that physical chemistry there, I also like to change positions and get really into it. however sometimes when you're in a relationship you can get stuck in a routine of not so exciting sex.

Over the years I've come to prefer thinner women, mainly I think because I'm thin and it's always been a better experience for me when the women are thin also, the flexibility definitely helps. I had a girlfriend who started out as a cold fish but turned out to be one of the best lovers I've ever had.

I experimented with alot of different types of women in my twenties and I have a much better idea of what I'm into now, but life continues to surprise me! It's all about the chemistry for me.
 
Mr_Fluffykins said:
ive been out of a serious relationship for 15 months,
ive had sex a few times over the course, and everysingle one, the girl just lied there, maybe being affectionate back but nothing really special

except one girl who actively jumped ontop of me, and started riding my cock in my car, this girl, is special, this girl is awesome:P im in love with this girl, just haven't been able to have bedroom sex with her. (can't wait to move out)
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Maybe they are just lying there because you have them in the backseat of a car? Or were these in a bed?
 
Mr_Fluffykins said:
welll, back seat of the car the lying there is to be expected,

but no im talking about bedding
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LOL I thought it was worth asking :)

If a girl is just laying there it might help to grab ahold of her hips and move them along with yours. Slowly try different speeds.. If you're going faster than she can move she might be thrown off by that.

I think most girls with some decent experience under their belt become more comfortable and will tend to move around more. If they don't, they're not comfortable (in the environment, with themselves or with you) or it could be they don't even enjoy sex. Make it as fun for them as possible (people forget to smile when they have sex sometimes but I think smiling helps the other person) and if by the 4th time, it's not any better, then you might want to give up on that person.
 
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