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GOOD sex, and Girls who just Lie there,

i have to admit, depending on the angle of your respective parts, some positions just don't work. with some guys doggy is difficult, others both legs up hurts. it all depends on the way your pieces fit together :)
 
I'd say that most of these 'layabout' girls were probably just sleeping with you to be perfunctory. They probably weren't all that into you - I know that when I was younger, there were a couple of times where I would just 'do it' to get it out of the way if I was bored, slightly horny & felt the conversation was going nowhere. Now, I have no qualms in rejecting advances that I'm not 200% keen on - I have to be really into someone, for my own sake, to know that I'll put in maximum effort. That said, I've had an even bigger number of encounters with strangers that were totally red hot, but those came later - when I took more control in exercising discretion (by taking a more active pursuit in playing the field).
 
I've had this problem all of my sex life except with boys. The overwhelming majority of my lays have been lazy-ass-fucks who just want one position the whole time...me on top. I like this position and I like taking control but jesus christ f*cking do something! I'm bisexual and after my experiences with men I can say for sure that I prefer women in bed. Girls who like girls are so enthusiastic about pussy and pleasing women.

Although there was 1 guy who I can say was a good lover and I enjoyed our 2 hours of mutual work/fun that paid off for the both of us. It was a decent session and I think guys should learn from that fellow. We switched positions throughout the 2 hours, everything was intensely pleasurable and he didn't rush hence the 2 hour session. It was playful, it was fun.

In defense of the whole legs over shoulder position, I don't always fancy that position with large guys as your penis hitting my cervix is extremely painful which is the opposite of extremely pleasurable which is the idea of sex. I understand if you like that position but I really can't enjoy a sex act if I know its painful for my lover. I notice every guy goes for this position.

Point is guys can be dead fish too :( I agree that girls and guys should be enthusiastic about making love and fucking. If you are both only focused on pleasing the other person, I promise, you will BOTH win! ;)
 
If she's hot I could not care less if she just lies there. Just spread nice and wide.
 
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girls? do you just lie there? why? if you do?missionary possition doesn't hit all the optimal nerves from my experience

if you push down with your hips on the downstoke and stop you can press your pelvic bone down on her clit.

for me that feels like lightening and thunder.

you have to know what you are DOING DOWN THERE FIRST.:!
 
i hate men who don't know how to use their bodies....

if you aren't going to fuck me RIGHT

GTFO
 
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Doesn't matter how hot u r, u gotta put in effort, also if she's just laying there maybe its not her maybe its u ha

Thank you. That is my point to mr. fluffydoodoo.

if your woman is just laying in the bed then you are a shit fucker.

she is not attracted to you and does not want to be there.

you are a bore.

that's why she's just laying there.
 
i don't mean laying there silent, moaning always happens, even heavy kissing that and touching that always happens, when you can tell that they are into it, i just mean a lack of hip movement, or interest in other positions, and i think most of this is from lack of experience, :P i was pretty drunk when i posted this question/ thread and didn't word it properally ,
 
i hate men who don't know how to use their bodies....

if you aren't going to fuck me RIGHT

GTFO

Ugly you know what I hate more then a lousy lay , is a quick NUT. A Guy can lay there and I will use his Dick for my convenience as long as he doesn't bust a nut in 2 sec. . No cuming unless i say so . And you better hold that shit in . I fucking hate that . I feel no mercy gtfo for real! there are as many lousy guys that are more worthless in bed then a girl that just lays there.
 
Ugly you know what I hate more then a lousy lay , is a quick NUT. A Guy can lay there and I will use his dick for my convenience as long as he doesn't bust a nut in 2 sec. . No cuming unless i say so . And you better hold that shit in . I fucking hate that . I feel no mercy gtfo for real! there are as many lousy guys that are more worthless in bed then a girl that just lays there.

Hey Monkey!!!! I love this post. I agree. When I have the opportunity to get some dick, I want to enjoy the sensation and I want to have an extended session of sex. If he has premature ejaculation issues, and the whole thing is wrapped up for him in like 10 minutes, then I might as well not bother. It takes me 10 minutes to get into it! If he's going out the bedroom door and I'm barely getting started that pisses me off extremely badly.

I also don't mind if the guy just lays there and lets me use his cock. If he can get hard and stay hard, I can work my own magic within my own body just rubbing my tender parts on his whatever part. I don't need him to do shit. I can cum without a guy, by myself, and have a great time doing it.

If I am going to get waxed, shaved, douched, enemas, hair, makeup, mani\pedi then I would like to have my man also put equal amount of effort into sexing me hard and long and well.
 
Well I would either grab her and roll over so she's on top cuz she'll get the hint or just do what I do and toss her around the bed

exactly, sounds like op needs to be a bit more aggressive. every girl has an inner whore, for the most part. as men, it's our job to do the things that will allow them to feel comfortable enough to release said inner whore. some women just take more time than others, but if you're doing it right and take enough time, you'll have them begging to ride your cock and get fucked from behind before you know it.
 
Ugly you know what I hate more then a lousy lay , is a quick NUT. A Guy can lay there and I will use his Dick for my convenience as long as he doesn't bust a nut in 2 sec. . No cuming unless i say so . And you better hold that shit in . I fucking hate that . I feel no mercy gtfo for real! there are as many lousy guys that are more worthless in bed then a girl that just lays there.

no coming unless you say so? Are you sure you are looking for a MAN? 8)
 
if i haven't felt the flood gates of orgasm happen for my woman, i always ask if i can cum. she ususally says no.
 
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