The less I need to worry about myself, the more energy I have to focus on the other people in my life, and I had really forgotten how rewarding that feels. There's great synergy in cheering up friends by having them along to do something I find fun. Fun can be infectious. I am not ashamed to wear my selfishness with pride. I want to have fun, I want friends to have fun, and frankly what they think they might possibly want doesn't factor into my thinking. Momentum belongs to the first one willing to grab the reigns and forge ahead. If you want pole position, you just have to reach for it before I do. I don't mind following someone if they can inspire me with their passion, will or enthusiasm but I am not going to waste my time following people who can't or won't lead. The flame does not need to worry about pursuing the moths, the flame just needs to radiate. That is all.
