Why does it have to be a separate party? Can it be a rider to other events where we, bluelighters can have our own camp.
Pride aside, we can show others our numbers, creativeness, PLURy-ness, and what-have-you.
If the event does not need to be on new year, I would recommend some sort of a yearly ritual, something similar of going back to Mecca year after year: The Burning Man in the West Coast of the U.S. of A. (Labor Day weekend.) ;-)
Read more info on it, and you all will see why this event is THE perfect fit for bluelighter:
1. different camps, (creative arts, techchies, weridoes

P etc..)
2. natural setting (greatest plain of the desert),
3. appreaciattion of music, (Many generations of music lovers will be there. Show the older hippies the newer generation X .. err.. E ... er.. you get the ideas)
4. nearly bust-proof. (need to ask? read more on burning man and you will know. DEA and wutever usualay don't bother with this event. ;-)
5. There are more reasons. Read on, Find out more and tell yourselfthat .. for one time in your life, YOU want to go to this event.

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http://www.burningman.com
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