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Girls: Would you be offended if your BF was masturbating and....

Hey, as long as you don't moan out someone else's name and insult your beloved, what the hell, right? It's like getting "strange" without cheating! Not cheating is best from where I sit. But I'm silly that way, your mileage may vary!
 
Perpetual Indulgence said:
What goes on in his head to get the job done is of no concern to me.
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TAB!!! 8o

User Name Here said:
I wouldn't be offended. As I've stated before, I think it's ridiculous for a person to get upset with their partner for masturbating because EVERYONE masturbates. .................................................................................... It's just plain ridiculous to get upset over something so trivial!
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Yo beautiful - you got the wrong end of the stick...so to speak.
 
I think a girl would be more offended by the fact that her boyfriend would tell her that she wasn't included in their fantasy.
 
Okay my girl and i both masturbate infront of eachother. Like sometimes one of us finishes before the other or is having a difficult time climaxing...what ever...its no big deal, she thinks its hot when i do. and then she want to help.

This morning she was pressed for time and i was having a difficult time climaxing (she came 3times though)...so she got up and finished getting ready while i finished myself off.

Point is....WE are a couple and accept eachother for what ever we want/do sexually. We are open and accepting to eachothers needs and that means we accept eachother without judgement!
 
^ I agree with quiet roar, I don't know of anyone who masturbates to pictures of their significant others. I wouldn't be offended at all whatsoever, because chances are, when I'm masturbating I'm not thinking about him (theoretical him, since it's not referring to anyone in particular).
 
I would not be offended unless he was masturbating to a picture/images/film of an x , or someone he knows in "real life"... And yes, of course I would like to be included in his sexual fantasies , but what we masturbate to, are ofter exactly that - FANTASIES. In my mind a dose of some good, old fashioned, anonymous porn will not hurt a relationship :)
 
wank fodder is just that: nameless, faceless imagery to stimulate the self-simulated orgasm; not something someone should need to justify to their partner, who has no logical right to feel offended by or become jealous over. porn exists in a number of transient forms so as to fill a sensory void in the human imagination - to afford it any sort of superfluous meaning as a serious threat to your sex life defeats its purpose entirely. after all, something that is so freely accessible and widely abundant is clearly not sought after for its intrinsically profound or meaningingful qualities. lol
 
nope nope. its his own fantasy and i can have mine so why should one get offended over it.
now if he thought about someone else during sex that might be a little different.
 
I don't have a bf, but if I did and he was thinking about someone else, that'd be fine- if he was thinking about a friend or someone we knew I might be offended but of someone detached or not involved socially then I would not care at all.........
 
it's perfectly natural to think about other people while masturbating, it's even natural to think about other things during intercourse, and i don't see a problem with it as long as you are thinking of someone completely different from your partner the entire time you are having sex.
 
purple_cloud said:
^ I agree with quiet roar, I don't know of anyone who masturbates to pictures of their significant others. I wouldn't be offended at all whatsoever, because chances are, when I'm masturbating I'm not thinking about him (theoretical him, since it's not referring to anyone in particular).
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hahhaa true ! its what your mind wants to do .
 
n3ophy7e said:
My boyfriend works away from home for weeks at a time, I'm assuming he masturbates probably most days he's away from home, and I know that he watches porn. So by logical conclusion that means that sometimes I am not going to be anywhere to be seen in his fantasies :D This does NOT offend me in the slightest because I know it's perfectly natural and normal to fantasise about people other than your partner during masturbation sometimes. It doesn't mean he's any less attracted to me, or any less in love with me. It just means he's normal :)
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Such a good attitude hun - i share the exact same attitude. This is why we have successful fulfilling and long standing relationships! :)

Perpetual Indulgence said:
Not offended at all. What goes on in his head to get the job done is of no concern to me.
Random weird stuff comes into my mind when having sex with my husabnd that has nothing to do with him.
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Hahaha well said :D Totally agree.
 
i agree with most of the replys here, I would only be offended if he was looking /thinking about very young teenage girls, or someone we knew, etc.. now saying that yrs ago when i was heaps younger, i used to get quite upset over my bf looking at books, pics of other women... cuz i had very low self esteem, and thought that if he's looking at this type of woman , that means he must want some one with those looks etc, it took me a very long time to get over this way of thinking, and i got rid of the dickhead too, so now days it doesnt bother me,
 
Offended? No. A majority of the time, I'm not thinking about him when I masturbate, so I really wouldn't expect him to be thinking about me. And honestly, I'd prefer to not know what, or who, he is thinking about when he's doing the deed. I'd be lying if I said I never masturbated to the thought of an ex, or even a mutual friend.

Now if he said the wrong name during sex... then we'd have a problem.
 
some women (many) have a hard time accepting the fact that most dudes jerk off to women they know and see on a regular basis (co-workers, fellow classmates, friends, etc.). It's a fact of life. esp. when it comes to ex gf's!
 
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