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Girls: Would you be offended if your BF was masturbating and....

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lagger

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Girls.. HI HOW ARE U. :P You look sexy, hi.

Anyways
How offended would you be if you knew your boyfriend was masturbating and was not including you in their fantasies?

Do you think that we always have a choice of what comes into our minds when having a tug?

Guys that clicked here, do you masturbate over your girlfriends, wives etc when you are having some alone Tug Time with Mr Tiger?
 
I wouldn't be offended.... a lot of people masturbate to things which don't have anything to do with their partner. Or sometimes things that aren't even exactly sex (bondage/dom). You couldn't expect a partner to "include" you in their fantasy if that wasn't within the nature of their fantasy. I don't really think it reflects on the relationship what one masturbates to.

Unless of course you found them masturbating to pics of a mutual friend or something like that. As long as it's anonymous porn or kink its all good I say. :)
 
I would like a girlfriend to be happy they aren't included in the depravities and mess that is in my mind while having a pull.
 
I'm a girl and I masturbate without my bf and I usually watch porn

So it really does not bother me if my boyfriend masturbates

Maybe some alone time with yourself can help you get over it.
 
My boyfriend would rather masturbate to pics of me anyway ... I like it ... :)
 
lagger said:
How offended would you be if you knew your boyfriend was masturbating and was not including you in their fantasies?
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My boyfriend works away from home for weeks at a time, I'm assuming he masturbates probably most days he's away from home, and I know that he watches porn. So by logical conclusion that means that sometimes I am not going to be anywhere to be seen in his fantasies :D This does NOT offend me in the slightest because I know it's perfectly natural and normal to fantasise about people other than your partner during masturbation sometimes. It doesn't mean he's any less attracted to me, or any less in love with me. It just means he's normal :)
 
i really don't care. i would be slightly upset if it was over something weird or horrible like really young girls. anyone who does care needs to get a life really. if you want to control somethings mind learn to program a computer.
 
I'd be annoyed if they told me they NEVER thought about me while masturbating, but no generally not - I'd like it very much if they were thinking about other women while touching themselves, and I'd understand if they were thinking about other men to a certain extent.
 
lagger said:
does he wank while watching you naked not moving at all in a pose?
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Yeah he has a ton of pics of me lol

... a good idea is to do porn with him ...
Then he has something really good to watch!
 
I wouldn't be offended. As I've stated before, I think it's ridiculous for a person to get upset with their partner for masturbating because EVERYONE masturbates. I don't care if they say they don't because they do. Even the girl in Teeth with vagina dentata masturbated :P

Masturbating is not cheating. If your girl gets upset with you over it, sit her down and ask her, "Are you seriously intimidated by my hand..? You're obviously my preference but sometimes I just feel like doing it. It's not hurting anyone and it isn't damaging our relationship so I'd appreciate it if you would stop treating me like a kid and start treating me like someone you respect." Maybe the last part is a bit harsh but you get the idea. It's just plain ridiculous to get upset over something so trivial!
 
lagger said:
How offended would you be if you knew your boyfriend was masturbating and was not including you in their fantasies?
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Not offended at all. What goes on in his head to get the job done is of no concern to me.
Random weird stuff comes into my mind when having sex with my husabnd that has nothing to do with him.
 
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