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Girls (or dudes whatever): Would you love/hate waking up to a head job?

I like to do it...never had it done to me, I don't think I would like to wake up out of a deep sleep to that, I would probably accidentally kick him in the head or something....

Anyway, my husband has to wake up for work at 4:30 am. My body naturally wakes up right before this I guess just conditioning, so I like to wake him up in this way from time to time. He loves it.
 
I'd hate it.
I'm a bit OCD when it comes to hygiene, etc. After I wake up, I have to have a shower, or I just don't feel clean. So I wouldn't want him going down on me when I didn't feel clean.
I also won't have sex right after we've been clubbing or after work or anything like that. Shower first!
I'm sure my bf would like it but I won't do it for him unless he's showered either :P
 
my ex didn't seem to have any qualms :D

and well I sleep in such a way that it would be unlikely for me to get woken up by this type of act...I doubt I would complain, if it were to happen!
 
Pagey said:
My ex used to love it if I did it.
I wish he would've returned the favor :p
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aww. there's nothing better than waking up to someone under the covers sucking your dick. makes the morning shine

there is a consent issue but i think if your familiar with someone its fine but with a random it may seem disconcerting though why are they in your bed in the morning (i assume this is a morning thing) if you're not happy with them playing with your genitalia.

on the subject of guys breaking into your house for sex a guy i was friends with used to climb the walls of our student massive house and come in through my window when i was asleep to have sex with my friend in the room upstairs. he was a bit asperger/autistic and just did what he wanted lacking social awareness. this was a regular occurence at one point fuelled by mdma and strong amphetamines. i was okay with it as long as i didn't get woken up
 
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llama112 said:
I'd hate it.
I'm a bit OCD when it comes to hygiene, etc. After I wake up, I have to have a shower, or I just don't feel clean. So I wouldn't want him going down on me when I didn't feel clean.
I also won't have sex right after we've been clubbing or after work or anything like that. Shower first!
I'm sure my bf would like it but I won't do it for him unless he's showered either :P
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that's really messed up.

Tude said:
I'd love it...assuming it's not a random man who climbed in through my window or broke into my house!
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Pagey said:
Really? You're not into that? And here I was thinking I was normal... :?
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Hahahahahahahahaha I loved this
 
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Depends what mood I'm in when I wake up to it. Sometimes great, causes sexy dreams right before I wake that continue into dreamy reality as I come out of sleep, other times, ah, no, get off me, let me go back to sleep. My ex was a fucker for waking up dead early on a weekend and doing it and I'd just roll over on her and go back to sleep. Try later at a more reasonable hour, I might be more accomodating.

I've gone down on girls. A bit of touchy-feely strokey stuff light enough not to actually wake them can be enough to get a response all the same that kinda green lights you, if you know them well enough that is. Girls who insist on putting their knickers or PJs back on to sleep in do present problems here though. Silly girlies. Get with the nekkids for morning sexeh tiems.

p.s. Pagey, I am shocked and saddened that you have yet to have this happen to you. Most unfortunate. There must be something wrong with the guys you're picking? Tell 'em to man the fuck up and get all dominant and stuff. That should work. ;)
 
^I know right?! I do have a history of not picking the right guys :( I'll have to try out the dominant stuff some time, it did seem to kinda work on you no? ;) (I'm still waiting on those pics in TL btw! Haven't forgotten!)
 
Hahaha. It did, yes, but then i can be quite sub and eager to please where attractive girlies are concerned. =D Practice more, you'll get the hang of it. I'll do what I can to help. ;) And I haven't forgotten about the piccies. Been meaning to get hold of a friend see if I can get some of her swinging party pics. There are some quite good means of me mostly nekkids in very compromising positions but involve other people so not sure I could post them as is. Photoshopping required. If I get them you shall be the first to know, how's that? ;)
 
pofacedhoe said:
there is a consent issue but i think if your familiar with someone its fine but with a random it may seem disconcerting though why are they in your bed in the morning (i assume this is a morning thing) if you're not happy with them playing with your genitalia.
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I disagree with this - having sex once (or any other sexual activity) shouldn't give the green light for more sexual activity for evermore. It shouldn't be assumed that because you've given consent to taking part in sexual activities once that you always will and you can take it whenever you want anytime after that. I think the same kind of argument could be used to justify rape not existing in marriage. I agree that when you know someone well it's pretty easy to see whether they consent or it might have been made clear that that level of trust exists between you, but I also think it's important to understand that someone might not be into it for whatever reason, and my view is that they should have the chance to say or indicate that - which while you're asleep, is impossible.
 
I agree I'd hate it and find it super creepy if a hook-up did that to me. I think the only scenario where it's fine is in a relationship/marriage whatever where the sex has always been consensual and one of the partners hasn't been withholding, or on the contrary overly pushy etc. In other words, it's only okay when both partners have been fine with the sex life they've had so far, sort of.
 
Guy here. I imagine I'd like it as long as it was from the right person, but I doubt that they'd like me inevitably kicking them by accident when I'm startled awake.

Seriously though, we'd have to be seeing each other and truly understand each other's limits for it to to be okay, but it sounds pretty dope as a tactile experience.
 
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B1tO'RoughJack said:
that's really messed up.
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I don't find it too messed up to have to be clean before him going down on me or me going down on him. Hygiene. One of the most important things.
I would hate to be smelly (you know, sweat or something, I'm clean!!) when he's going down on me.
And it would suck if he was smelly too when I was going down on him.
Thus ... showers!
I admit to being slightly OCD but I still don't see how it is "really messed up".
 
^seriously. are you people not self aware or something? not that cleanliness is my only issue with this, but it's one of them. i wouldn't want someone rolling their tongue around in my sleep mouth so why would i want their mouth on my vagina? sexy time is sexy time. sleep time is sleep time. they can converge if i am AWARE of them converging, and okay with it.
 
you know in theory this sounds lovely... but for me personally.... i would find it very very violating no matter how comfortable i am with my partner.... as jean paul said sleep time is sleep time.....
 
Apparently she did it a few times but I'm such a heavy sleeper (hypersomnia) that I didn't even wake up. Climaxed regularly and everything.

This was some years back.

Can't say I felt violated as I was unconscious, more intrigued by my own sleep issues than anything else. Hmm, hadn't really thought it over until now.
 
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