i never said it would not feel great i am saying she is lying to the guy that is "small" by saying that he is not small and that he is average and that it felt great. dunno if it really did feel great to her but that she said she sugar coated that comment to i can assume not
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i never said it would not feel great i am saying she is lying to the guy that is "small" by saying that he is not small and that he is average and that it felt great. dunno if it really did feel great to her but that she said she sugar coated that comment to i can assume not
i think the sugar-coated part was saying he was on the "small size of average" as opposed to just saying he was "small". again, men put too much stock in the size of their manhood. if a woman were brutally honest and said, "yep, you're tiny", most often the guy would be hurt and feel self-conscious about his small size. ime, small does not = bad in bed and big most certainly does not = good in bed.
yea as i was saying..she was lying telling a guy that is small that he is average 5-6"
so she wasn't "sugar coating" the truth telling a guy that is less than 5-6" that he is average she was just lying to him to make him feel better
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if you are talking to me i never said it was5/6 inches is not small.
But I can see that you've probably decided that it is. For you that may be true. But your opinion is just that, an opinion. What you believe is not an absolute truth.
probably glitterbizkit is saying it is
I stand corrected. But why would you assume she is being disingenuous? How can you be certain that your opinion is more than that? Have you had any experiences that inform and validate your feelings on the matter?
Now I'm genuinely curious.
Now I'm genuinely curious.
dankstersauce
Bluelighter
I'd take their word for it. What I usually hear about my dick is "oh wow you're just right" or "wow, hey you're not small", when a girl first sees it. (maybe their surprised because I don't act like an arrogant prick). Or maybe it's just a nice way to say I'm average....but I hear it from pretty much every girl i fool around with. And according to the 5-6 inch thing being average, I'm a lil bit bigger than average, which probably feels just right for most girls.
I don't know if they're just lying but most of them explain that they don't want to get split wide open every day and I'm just on the right side of medium. So IMHO I take their word for it. After being with a handful of girls I've learned to accept their opinion.
Radio/Podcast guru Adam Carolla has a theory that the goofier the guy, the bigger the dick...to balance out the goofiness. And I've got my fair share of weirdness, so I've been blessed with a nice dick.....makes sense to me....lol
Don't worry about it. So long as you both have fun who cares. IMO dicksize is rarely a deal breaker unless you have a really really really small dick...and even then she/he still might give ya a shot. It's not a shocking comment but most guys put too much emphasis on their dick size.
I don't know if they're just lying but most of them explain that they don't want to get split wide open every day and I'm just on the right side of medium. So IMHO I take their word for it. After being with a handful of girls I've learned to accept their opinion.
Radio/Podcast guru Adam Carolla has a theory that the goofier the guy, the bigger the dick...to balance out the goofiness. And I've got my fair share of weirdness, so I've been blessed with a nice dick.....makes sense to me....lol
Don't worry about it. So long as you both have fun who cares. IMO dicksize is rarely a deal breaker unless you have a really really really small dick...and even then she/he still might give ya a shot. It's not a shocking comment but most guys put too much emphasis on their dick size.
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Yeah, what confuses me is the number of posters that seem to think a female would make the time to tell a group of strangers--on an internet message board--that some of her best sexual experiences were with smaller endowed men.
Whom would such a female be sparing their feelings?
Whom would such a female be sparing their feelings?
I stand corrected. But why would you assume she is being disingenuous? How can you be certain that your opinion is more than that? Have you had any experiences that inform and validate your feelings on the matter?
Now I'm genuinely curious.
nope no experience
well as i said before she said the guy was small then said she "sugar coated"it and said was average and he felt good. so she was lying unless she thinks the average size is small
rant*N*rave
Bluelighter
^Uh, dude, do you read? She never said that the guy in question was small. She never said smaller than 5-6 inches. For all we know, she was referencing guys with 8 inch dicks... If you say to a little bit smaller than average guy that he's a little bit smaller than average, it's not lying - the sugar coating was the "smaller than average but it feels good" rather than just saying "it's small".
I just wish guys would stop obsessing about it. The fact that I'm even writing this post is a testament to how deep guys get into the issue... nitpicking over something clearly misinterpreted... It's usually pretty obvious if a girl is having a good time. That's all that's important. And if she's not, chances are it has very little, if anything, to do with dick size (unless she's a size queen, I guess, lol).
As a female, this all actually pisses me off, because guys make girls feel inadequate all the freakin time, often for no good reason (I've been on the receiving end so much I thought at one point I was going to give up on guys forever). Girls don't diss guys' dicks. Stop worrying about your fucking penis for 10 seconds.
Pardon my rant, I'm cranky today.
I just wish guys would stop obsessing about it. The fact that I'm even writing this post is a testament to how deep guys get into the issue... nitpicking over something clearly misinterpreted... It's usually pretty obvious if a girl is having a good time. That's all that's important. And if she's not, chances are it has very little, if anything, to do with dick size (unless she's a size queen, I guess, lol).
As a female, this all actually pisses me off, because guys make girls feel inadequate all the freakin time, often for no good reason (I've been on the receiving end so much I thought at one point I was going to give up on guys forever). Girls don't diss guys' dicks. Stop worrying about your fucking penis for 10 seconds.
Pardon my rant, I'm cranky today.
Yup, we DO lie! But I don't think I know any girls who BLATANTLY lie about a guy's size. Most guys, IME, basically already know how they measure up. For instance, a couple of my exes were well endowed and damn well knew it.
The guy I'm dating right now is definitely on the small side though, and actually has some penis anxiety. Did I lie to him when he asked me how he measured up? No... I sugar coated... I said "your size is fine, and the sex is awesome," which were both true statements.
If you think you're on the small side, you probably are! So, work on those oral skills!
The guy I'm dating right now is definitely on the small side though, and actually has some penis anxiety. Did I lie to him when he asked me how he measured up? No... I sugar coated... I said "your size is fine, and the sex is awesome," which were both true statements.
If you think you're on the small side, you probably are! So, work on those oral skills!
ech0s85
Bluelighter
heres a story with a lesson for you:
My dick is probably on the smaller side of average. My girlfriend at the time would always say oh its perfect size for me blah blah. So one time we were fucking and i finally got her to do doggy which she for some reason had been resisting. Afterwards we were talking about it and she said "sometimes it felt like i was about to cum really fast, and sometimes i couldnt feel anything". Talk about the emotional rollercoaster hahaha i was so stoked after the first half of that statement bu then..... So anyway, learn what angles to do and what spots to hit and youll be fine.
My dick is probably on the smaller side of average. My girlfriend at the time would always say oh its perfect size for me blah blah. So one time we were fucking and i finally got her to do doggy which she for some reason had been resisting. Afterwards we were talking about it and she said "sometimes it felt like i was about to cum really fast, and sometimes i couldnt feel anything". Talk about the emotional rollercoaster hahaha i was so stoked after the first half of that statement bu then..... So anyway, learn what angles to do and what spots to hit and youll be fine.
hyroller
Bluelighter
glitterbizkit
Bluelighter
To be honest, I've never been with someone who was really tiny. The smallest would have been maybe 4 1/2, which I feel can rightfully be classified as the small side of average (or 'just below average'... it depends on how large the range is, it's not like it's set in stone).
Of course, an inch or two would have added to the sensation, but I never lie about it feeling good if it doesn't. Sex is about more than penis size, and anyway, smaller cocks can feel bigger if you find the right position.
That is what I mean by sugar-coating (not lying).
ISeeFractals
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lol wow why would anyone bother asking this ?
Seriously? Of course they do (with few exceptions i'm sure of course) either because they know they won't encounter it again, or because they are capable of seeing beyond the baby carrot......to the battery powered finger massager on the bedside table. Guys do it too...and i can think of one perfect example...
Your girlfriend/wife/sister/mom/friend/co-worker is wearing something new (skirt, pants shirt etc) and when they walk in the room they find the nearest man and ask "Now be honest, does this "______" make me look fat?"
Every one....everyone with the slightest modicum of observation skill knows...this is a trap. If it does make them look fat and you're honest, then the majority, especially if they're over 40....more so if they're single will react like you just swung they're baby...."mittens" by the tail and chucked it into a wall and how could anyone be that cruel...she's retaining water...she's getting older...she doesn't have time to exercise anymore....and it does not have anything to do with the ice cream she's eating right out the carton while this is going on at 9am you selfish bastard.
But then she might know that it makes her look fat, or at the very least is unflattering for her figure....and if you aren't honest then somehow you don't care how she looks, or what anyone thinks about her how could you let her walk around and allow people to laugh and comment about her size 42 miniskirt, halter top and new navel ring....that seems to be lost in a fold of flesh...YOU INSENSITIVE BASTARD!
Of course i embelish for comedic effect....but my point is still valid...and most respond by just ducking the question and saying "aw what are you talking about, you always look beautiful" or some such. But even that can turn out to be the wrong answer.....
My fiance pulls crap like that on me all the time, and perhaps you can tell, it bugs the shit out of me....cause every girlfriend i've ever had pulls that same crap....they can't take a compliment the first time, they want their ego stroked for 10 minutes as well.....and to hear you apologize for their percieved flaws. Now my fiance is 5 foot 1/2 tall and weighs like 95-100 pounds...she did gymnastics when she was younger and is only 22 now but she's put a few pounds the past two years which i thought she needed desperatly. She is the most beautiful girl who has, is or will ever live in my eyes and no matter how many times i tell her she lists everything she doesn't like about herself in response on So after hearing a line in a movie i found to be perfectly fitting 10years back or so i started using it when faced wiith these situations, though i'd never said it to her before.....
"that dress doesn't make your ass look fat, your fat ass makes your ass look fat"
In her case, not remotely true though it has been many other times i've said it. Does anyone think a woman really wants to hear that? Or a man for that matter? let alone "aw....look at the cute lil pee pee"
I'm 5'10 1/2, i've always ended up with girls shorter then me by a good deal, so when they would say "zomg you're huge, i never understood it and just wrote it off as one of those social contracts I just didn't see it, and it never really mattered to me, cause it's what you do with it that counts. I considered myself to be in proportion.
Granted this was back when i was 20. 21 or so, and weighed 135-140lbs of tweak carved muscle. When i got older and stopped indulging in substances, suddenly i'm up to 175lbs....and not liking proportion all that much lol. SO when my fiance gave me that same old line it just kind of pissed me off for a few weeks, cause she wanted to measure me something i'd not done, though i've heard for every 20lbs a man gains/loses.....he gains 1/2in in length and i was feeling self concious about if that were true...
...until i rememebered the 6'2 french wanabe model i'd been with before i gained the weight had said the same thing....and it was noticalbe to me so much as she was hurting me....so i got curious, which motivated me to drop back down to 145-150lbs in a month or so and next time she asked i let her do what she wanted.. so when she gave me the numbers i didn't quite believe her, and had to check for myself...and then again.....ending up at
7 7/8th in Length
6in Circumfrance or so which she being a math freak figured to be be
2 in thick or so
But it still doesn't hide the irish blood in me when i step out of the shower on a cold morning lol, which i had an ex of mine see me do one day and go "awwww look how little and cute you are when you're cold"
So it still doesn't mean shit to me, every guy is insecure, so is every woman in some aspect. So guys, if ever you encounter a woman who complains about your size....just respond in kind...
"You complain about me? well sorry but for a woman who sees so much action down there one would think you'd find the time for some kiegle exercises once inawhile, i don't care how wet you are i shouldn't be able to give you a round of applause while my hands are inside you....
If size is really a deal breaker, really wasn't much to be broken in the first place. Be confident, be attentive, and be the best you can with whatever you got.
P.S
You're all thinking it, and yes i am, cause that fly has been floating in front of my face for fucking ever :D
Seriously? Of course they do (with few exceptions i'm sure of course) either because they know they won't encounter it again, or because they are capable of seeing beyond the baby carrot......to the battery powered finger massager on the bedside table. Guys do it too...and i can think of one perfect example...
Your girlfriend/wife/sister/mom/friend/co-worker is wearing something new (skirt, pants shirt etc) and when they walk in the room they find the nearest man and ask "Now be honest, does this "______" make me look fat?"
Every one....everyone with the slightest modicum of observation skill knows...this is a trap. If it does make them look fat and you're honest, then the majority, especially if they're over 40....more so if they're single will react like you just swung they're baby...."mittens" by the tail and chucked it into a wall and how could anyone be that cruel...she's retaining water...she's getting older...she doesn't have time to exercise anymore....and it does not have anything to do with the ice cream she's eating right out the carton while this is going on at 9am you selfish bastard.
But then she might know that it makes her look fat, or at the very least is unflattering for her figure....and if you aren't honest then somehow you don't care how she looks, or what anyone thinks about her how could you let her walk around and allow people to laugh and comment about her size 42 miniskirt, halter top and new navel ring....that seems to be lost in a fold of flesh...YOU INSENSITIVE BASTARD!
Of course i embelish for comedic effect....but my point is still valid...and most respond by just ducking the question and saying "aw what are you talking about, you always look beautiful" or some such. But even that can turn out to be the wrong answer.....
My fiance pulls crap like that on me all the time, and perhaps you can tell, it bugs the shit out of me....cause every girlfriend i've ever had pulls that same crap....they can't take a compliment the first time, they want their ego stroked for 10 minutes as well.....and to hear you apologize for their percieved flaws. Now my fiance is 5 foot 1/2 tall and weighs like 95-100 pounds...she did gymnastics when she was younger and is only 22 now but she's put a few pounds the past two years which i thought she needed desperatly. She is the most beautiful girl who has, is or will ever live in my eyes and no matter how many times i tell her she lists everything she doesn't like about herself in response on So after hearing a line in a movie i found to be perfectly fitting 10years back or so i started using it when faced wiith these situations, though i'd never said it to her before.....
"that dress doesn't make your ass look fat, your fat ass makes your ass look fat"
In her case, not remotely true though it has been many other times i've said it. Does anyone think a woman really wants to hear that? Or a man for that matter? let alone "aw....look at the cute lil pee pee"
I'm 5'10 1/2, i've always ended up with girls shorter then me by a good deal, so when they would say "zomg you're huge, i never understood it and just wrote it off as one of those social contracts I just didn't see it, and it never really mattered to me, cause it's what you do with it that counts. I considered myself to be in proportion.
Granted this was back when i was 20. 21 or so, and weighed 135-140lbs of tweak carved muscle. When i got older and stopped indulging in substances, suddenly i'm up to 175lbs....and not liking proportion all that much lol. SO when my fiance gave me that same old line it just kind of pissed me off for a few weeks, cause she wanted to measure me something i'd not done, though i've heard for every 20lbs a man gains/loses.....he gains 1/2in in length and i was feeling self concious about if that were true...
...until i rememebered the 6'2 french wanabe model i'd been with before i gained the weight had said the same thing....and it was noticalbe to me so much as she was hurting me....so i got curious, which motivated me to drop back down to 145-150lbs in a month or so and next time she asked i let her do what she wanted.. so when she gave me the numbers i didn't quite believe her, and had to check for myself...and then again.....ending up at
7 7/8th in Length
6in Circumfrance or so which she being a math freak figured to be be
2 in thick or so
But it still doesn't hide the irish blood in me when i step out of the shower on a cold morning lol, which i had an ex of mine see me do one day and go "awwww look how little and cute you are when you're cold"
So it still doesn't mean shit to me, every guy is insecure, so is every woman in some aspect. So guys, if ever you encounter a woman who complains about your size....just respond in kind...
"You complain about me? well sorry but for a woman who sees so much action down there one would think you'd find the time for some kiegle exercises once inawhile, i don't care how wet you are i shouldn't be able to give you a round of applause while my hands are inside you....
If size is really a deal breaker, really wasn't much to be broken in the first place. Be confident, be attentive, and be the best you can with whatever you got.
P.S
You're all thinking it, and yes i am, cause that fly has been floating in front of my face for fucking ever :D
Jensyn
Greenlighter
Girls, I reckon you *should* be generous with compliments over a guy's penis size (I'm not saying lie *exactly*) - I don't reckon you're gaining anything by suddenly getting all moral, virtuous and honest just as you're getting your gear off next to the bed/couch/webcam/horse's stable. Isn't that where you're supposed to be getting down and dirty? Filthy even? If the guy's small - give him a little ego stroke - where's the harm? zingg, if you've had the luck of having nice girls exaggerate - I say - excellent! Girls you don't want us pointing out...well...whatever. Better to say you've got a great set of T&A rather than whisper "You're so hot...but...you're hips are a bit wide, hey?"
Aren't you girls supposed to be as sensitive about your whole body as we are about our dicks?!
So I'm for a little bit of foreplay fiction: tell him he's big, tell her she's got a hot body - no matter what.
Zingg...if that's your body in that pic, then I reckon most gals would forgive you whatever size you are! I know gay guys certainly would and I reckon homos are far more likely to be "size queens" than straight girls are.
Aren't you girls supposed to be as sensitive about your whole body as we are about our dicks?!
So I'm for a little bit of foreplay fiction: tell him he's big, tell her she's got a hot body - no matter what.
Zingg...if that's your body in that pic, then I reckon most gals would forgive you whatever size you are! I know gay guys certainly would and I reckon homos are far more likely to be "size queens" than straight girls are.
fastandbulbous
Bluelight Crew
More like shattering it. The male ego is the most fragile thing known to man (or woman!). Why else would we place so much self esteem in a bit of flesh compromising a tiny fraction of total bodyweight?
voxmystic
Bluelighter
guilty as charged, i guess. "ooo, yeah, fuck me with that average, hard cock" just doesn't have the same ring to it.
really, i just wanted to post on a sex thread next to fastandbulbous..............chemistry makes me horny
really, i just wanted to post on a sex thread next to fastandbulbous..............chemistry makes me horny
boltfan909
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Not to sound arrogant (cause by no means am I Ron Jeremy), but i'd say I am the best judge of my own size. We all watch (or at least I THINK lol) porn, have read up on what is "average" and so on. We all measure up and take pics, so if you need a women to tell you that you are well endowed it seems a bit insecure.
Another thing, DON'T ask "hey baby, how do I stack up against the other guys' you've slept with?" cause its lose-lose. She will either A) Lie and tell you that your the biggest and best-- B) Tell you that you are not the biggest and best-- C) Say you are JUST right ...lol Either way none of the answers are going to make you feel any better. In the best case, answer "A" will just have you thinking, is she lying? And the other 2, well obviously are not going to make you feel too good.
I know when my girl is INTO it and when she is cumming, as long as that happens who gives a shit. Some chicks prefer bigger, but most the time its how your doing it and how you prepped the sex sesh (all the forplay etc).
Another thing, DON'T ask "hey baby, how do I stack up against the other guys' you've slept with?" cause its lose-lose. She will either A) Lie and tell you that your the biggest and best-- B) Tell you that you are not the biggest and best-- C) Say you are JUST right ...lol Either way none of the answers are going to make you feel any better. In the best case, answer "A" will just have you thinking, is she lying? And the other 2, well obviously are not going to make you feel too good.
I know when my girl is INTO it and when she is cumming, as long as that happens who gives a shit. Some chicks prefer bigger, but most the time its how your doing it and how you prepped the sex sesh (all the forplay etc).