Bob Loblaw
Bluelight Crew
A few nights ago I was out with friends at our usual spot; I noticed this gorgeous girl from a few nigts ago, sitting alone again. I went up to the bar to order drinks for the rest of my squad. I said, "Heyyy, you were here the other night... You were wearing a [restaurant located a few miles away] shirt. How's it going?" Don't rememeber the rest of the full conversation, but I wasn't drunk. We made some small talk, my co-worker came up beside us & talked for a minute or two. I said, "Heyy, does a guy named Jose work there? He works at [the restaurant where my firiend & I work]."
She said, "Ohh, yeah he does." I replied, "I thought so; he's one of my good work-friends." We made a bit more small talk; I intorduced myself, asked 3 times if I wasn't bother her, I just wanted to say 'hey'." Eventually I said, "SO I've seen you here alone before--none of your coworkers or boyfriend comes along?" SHe replied, "Nahh, they don't, and I don't have a boyfriend." I just said, "Ohh, that stinks, no one joins you."
Shortly afterward I got my group's drinks, then went back to our table. I never hit on her, offered her a drink, etc. didn't even ask what she was having.
I get incredibly anxious, so I felt like I ruined that girl's night (that was mostly the booze talking). So ladies, if a well-dressed, well-groomed guy comes up beside you & makes small talk for maybe 7 minutes, would you feel awkward/annoyed, or would you feel nice that someone talked to you for just a few minutes, then left without going for a kiss or even touching your arm? ALl my female friends think I'm crazy, that it might have even made her night, but I'm so anxious.
FWIW my female friends, (includijng some lesbians) all think I'm handsome & well put-together. Pic related
She said, "Ohh, yeah he does." I replied, "I thought so; he's one of my good work-friends." We made a bit more small talk; I intorduced myself, asked 3 times if I wasn't bother her, I just wanted to say 'hey'." Eventually I said, "SO I've seen you here alone before--none of your coworkers or boyfriend comes along?" SHe replied, "Nahh, they don't, and I don't have a boyfriend." I just said, "Ohh, that stinks, no one joins you."
Shortly afterward I got my group's drinks, then went back to our table. I never hit on her, offered her a drink, etc. didn't even ask what she was having.
I get incredibly anxious, so I felt like I ruined that girl's night (that was mostly the booze talking). So ladies, if a well-dressed, well-groomed guy comes up beside you & makes small talk for maybe 7 minutes, would you feel awkward/annoyed, or would you feel nice that someone talked to you for just a few minutes, then left without going for a kiss or even touching your arm? ALl my female friends think I'm crazy, that it might have even made her night, but I'm so anxious.
FWIW my female friends, (includijng some lesbians) all think I'm handsome & well put-together. Pic related
