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GIRLS! Don't you hate this?

snakjaw said:
I suggest trying to think of yourself as a human being rather than a "boy" or a "girl". It won't keep idiots from hitting on you, but it will open up your eyes to the fact that inviting someone to engage in sex is neither an insult nor a step toward the altar.

Some may not consider it an insult, but then again, a lot would. Think about it, if a guy meets a girl and almost immediately trys to have sex with her, that will probably be insulting to the girl. She would feel insulted due to the fact that the guy would think she looked/acted that easy. Giving her a "What you think i'll just fuck any guy if he has something I want!?" kind of attitude. Which I think is a totally fair way to feel after a guy offends you buy doing something like that.
 
hashish2020 said:
Mybe you just take some guy making a pass at you too seriously,

I mean, fuck, it's nice to get hit on---makes you feel wanted

But I guess your a spoiled bitch with that

So if a dealer turned out to be gay and started hitting on you and grabbing on to you, no problem right? Just tell him your not interested politely, and get on with the buisness, because if you react in any other manner your a spoiled bitch and are asking for it. :p
 
junksick said:
So if a dealer turned out to be gay and started hitting on you and grabbing on to you, no problem right? Just tell him your not interested politely, and get on with the buisness, because if you react in any other manner your a spoiled bitch and are asking for it. :p

Exactly
 
True, but like I said, the game that the dealers spit is...horrible! Just sraight cut to the chase, "dur nice shoes, wanna fuck?" crap. How can it be taken as a compliment that some guy sees you as some lose bitch he can use?

Heres some sound advice. fuck the dealer and get free drugs. just shut the fuck up and open your legs already!
 
way to many generilizations in this thread. not all dealers are jerks. some will try to use there drugs to get some, but then some girls will give themselves up for drugs. it all depends on the individual.
 
"True, but like I said, the game that the dealers spit is...horrible! Just sraight cut to the chase, "dur nice shoes, wanna fuck?" crap. How can it be taken as a compliment that some guy sees you as some lose bitch he can use?"

Well, I think here's the problem. He doesn't necessarily see you as some lose bitch. In fact he doesn't know if you're one or not. And he doesn't beat around the bush, so he just asks you directly. Some girls would say yes. But if you don't want to, just respond no, directly. He's asking you because he doesn't know, so let him know, and don't assume any negative connotations to his question.

If you're passive with your reply then he might think you secretly do want it or something. If you dress down, that's another sign that you want it, even if you say no. So just be direct about it and make sure your actions correspond to your desires; don't say no while at the same time dressing down, you know? If you're not direct then they'll think there's more to it.

Now direct doesn't mean you've got to be rude, it just means you've got to be direct. If he's direct. Be self-assured...that should scare off half the guys right there. ;) If he persists even after you tell him no directly, *then* you have grounds to fault him. But I wouldn't fault him for just asking the question.

If he's subtle, just ignore his subtle come ons completely. Don't respond with subtle denials because that just perpetuates things I suppose.

Oh, and there are plenty of cool guys out there who aren't like that. I sure as hell aren't like that. :)
 
dismantled_psyche said:
way to many generilizations in this thread. not all dealers are jerks. some will try to use there drugs to get some, but then some girls will give themselves up for drugs. it all depends on the individual.

yeah man, they're all "generalizations", no one is to blame. girls just really freely choose to become crackwhores. it's not like dealers initiate them, it's just a law of the universe, um, because these things mysteriously happen on a "individual" basis which makes any conclusions about the nature of the sex-for-drugs trade null.
 
Ireallylikebillhicks said:
yeah man, they're all "generalizations", no one is to blame. girls just really freely choose to become crackwhores. it's not like dealers initiate them, it's just a law of the universe, um, because these things mysteriously happen on a "individual" basis which makes any conclusions about the nature of the sex-for-drugs trade null.

What the fuck are you talking about? Did your girlfriend become a crackwhore or something? You seem to be so personally invested in the dealers are evil thing that you cant get your head out of your ass
 
Ireallylikebillhicks said:
yeah man, they're all "generalizations", no one is to blame. girls just really freely choose to become crackwhores. it's not like dealers initiate them, it's just a law of the universe, um, because these things mysteriously happen on a "individual" basis which makes any conclusions about the nature of the sex-for-drugs trade null.

You're such a shithead. Please just shut the fuck up if you have nothing of value to contribute to the conversation. 8( 8( 8( 8( 8( 8(
 
Originally posted by hashish2020
What the fuck are you talking about? Did your girlfriend become a crackwhore or something? You seem to be so personally invested in the dealers are evil thing that you cant get your head out of your ass
Exactly. Just because you've had some bad experiences with dealers doesn't mean every dealer is an asshole. Why is this so hard for you to understand?
Originally posted by Ireallylikebillhicks
yeah man, they're all "generalizations", no one is to blame. girls just really freely choose to become crackwhores. it's not like dealers initiate them, it's just a law of the universe, um, because these things mysteriously happen on a "individual" basis which makes any conclusions about the nature of the sex-for-drugs trade null.
The dealer may or may not be the one who initiates it but in the end it's the girl who must choose if she wants to give up her body for drugs.
 
hashish2020 said:
What the fuck are you talking about? Did your girlfriend become a crackwhore or something? You seem to be so personally invested in the dealers are evil thing that you cant get your head out of your ass

good argument!

yes, I have had a thing with a crackwhore. what of it?

dealers may not be outright "evil", but neither are they neutral. if you can't pick up on the shades of grey (addicts usually can't) than I suppose my "personal investment" doesn't make much sense.
 
FUTURAmike said:
You're such a shithead. Please just shut the fuck up if you have nothing of value to contribute to the conversation. 8( 8( 8( 8( 8( 8(

but.. but... that ^ is total ad hominem.

pot, meet kettle.

but really, that's being too kind. my invectives are in fact vehicles for some point, you just don't get it.
 
HazeEM said:
The dealer may or may not be the one who initiates it but in the end it's the girl who must choose if she wants to give up her body for drugs.

*sigh*... I didn't mean that the dealer merely "initiates" the sex deal, they initiate hapless girls into a lifestyle/ situation. fuck, you people are dense. lay off the drugs.

it's the difference between informed, true consent and the consent of one who is in the grips of a skillful, usually older manipulator.

I suppose this sort of distinction is lost on you people though, really.
 
Ireallylikebillhicks said:
good argument!

yes, I have had a thing with a crackwhore. what of it?

dealers may not be outright "evil", but neither are they neutral. if you can't pick up on the shades of grey (addicts usually can't) than I suppose my "personal investment" doesn't make much sense.

Yea--now I'm an addict---great read into my life man.

Dealers are whatever they are, regardless of what they do to make money.
 
Originally posted by Ireallylikebillhicks
lay off the drugs.
You're right, I really should cause drugs like, make you dumb and stuff!! 8)
Originally posted by FUTURAmike
You're such a shithead. Please just shut the fuck up if you have nothing of value to contribute to the conversation. 8( 8( 8( 8( 8( 8(
Please take this advice Ireallylikebillhicks.
 
HazeEM said:
You're right, I really should cause drugs like, make you dumb and stuff!! 8)

no dood, they, like, make you see things like they really are man! society just wants to hold you down, they don't want you to see the truth! drugs are the key to enlightenment, etc etc bullshit bullshit, blah blah.

haha, what a tool.

Please take this advice Ireallylikebillhicks.

well, see, no one is willing to actually try to defend the inane crank dealer apologetics that are being spewed out, so what am I too contribute?

all I have to respond to are along the lines of "you asshole, drug dealers are awesome, how dare you point at the giant pink elephant (ie sex abuse/ slavery in drug culture) in the kitchen!"

perhaps you'd like to contribute a defense of the "where your money comes from doesn't matter" argument?

really though, this incoherent defense mechanism shit just makes druggies look bad. sleep it off, sober up, then try to actually think about this.
 
I am sad for all the people on here who can't see the point of this thread. In this community we support and respect. This is not a drug deal, this is a human being expressing herself. Show some respect and some dignity for god's sake. No one here has the right to judge this person. It's important to take life seriously, but how many of us can say we listen more than we talk? This is real life, not some petty game, drugs or not there are people who have agendas and there are those who do not. Which one are you? What side of the fence do you walk?

What is this shit? Are your judgements any better than anyone elses? Seriously, get your head outta your asses and think outside of the box for just one moment. It will save you a lot of hassle.

To all the girls -- be safe. You know what you're here for and you know what you ain't. Just keep walking and keep your cool.
 
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