She's lying to you because she doesn't want it.
Break up with her and find a girl who really wants your dick. It's a waste of your time and hers and she is playing you for whatever she's getting out of "it".
I don't read those signals well at all. If they want it they're going to be direct, you'll know and they'll be grabbing at your dick.
100%.
P.S. anyone who thinks this is "misogynistic" of me... fuck that. If a guy treated me that way he'd be out with yesterday's garbage the next morning after I wake up and I'd have someone who really wants it lined up. You won't be young and hot and horny forever live it up, don't let someone without a sex drive waste your time.
If she doesn't want it she can be single and not have any sex and it shouldn't fuck with her sense of well being. If she wants it she can try with someone more patient than you. If "he" exists, lol.
She's along for the ride, man. If she doesn't want to for a valid reason she should be communicating that. If she can't it's her loss.
If you won't move on she will keep playing you. It's what I'd do if I was milking the situation (AND TRUST ME I KNOW HOW TO MILK A SITUATION). Don't hate the players hate the game, get someone who is worth your time.
JUST MY 2c
Don't have to live life the way I do in the fast lane. Take your time, sleep on it if you want. I wouldn't.
If they don't want to fuck that's fine but they better be buying me a meal, because I have a sex drive and if I'm providing I'm getting something out of it. JUST SAYING. I'm SO SORRY if that offends anyone here.