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Girlfriend doesn't like my muscles.

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Comrade Kane

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I've been working out five hours a day for four days a week from six to eleven for the last 23 weeks and my muscles are getting larger and continuing to grow. I like them. The only thing I don't like is that I have trouble bending my fingers cause the muscles in my fingers are too thick to mechanically allow my fingers to close properly so while I can stil touch the ends of my fingers to the end of my thumb they sometimes can't grip thin things and so I have trouble masturbating but luckily I have vagina for that and if I do masturbate i have to use two hands clasped together to form a small enough seal and then it feels like I'm fucking a fleshy crab.

Now my muscles are large but not in my opinion very large and I don't see the problem but now my GF has banned me from working out and said they look disgusting and makes me always wear a shirt in public with her.

What should I do?
 
I would never break up with my GF. We've been together ten years this November.

However the thing is I don't see that I'm actually very muscly I have some muscles but they're not a lot of muscles but she prefers me to be skinny and weedy.
 
Wow , this seems a bit odd to me.

Most girls like muscles and men that are cut. Are you using any drugs to get you here?

If you are naturally working out and gaining muscles on your own, good for you man. Good for you. don't let someone hold you back.

Or look at the flip side. Maybe she's getting jealous of your looks. Maybe she's worried that someone is going to take you away. I would sit and talk with her.

I'm no body builder but not fat. I think I'm normal. I would no way walk around with my shirt off. I wish I was cut enough for that.
 
Warm clime by the beach. No more force someone to wear a shirt than force a Muslim woman to remove her nuns hat. Many men go shirtless here its totally normal in this town.

That's not the point though. My GF is ashamed of my muscles and wants me to look like a heroin user cause that's the going thing. Also my GF is bisexual and is allowed to have sex with girls and I suspect she wants me to look like a girl.

I suspect she wouldn't mind if I WAS a girl.


Ps I wish I could say I wasn't using steroids and other supplements...
 
Once she said why don't you get a sex change operation or words to this effect then said it was a joke when I didn't laugh but I think she wants me but as a girl. I explained to her that even if I did get a sex change that I wouldn't be a girl I'd just be a man with a mutilated penis.
 
If she doesn't like your muscles, then maybe you should stop working out. If you don't want to, tell her to deal with it or break up with her. It seems like this whole bi-sexual, okay to cheat with girls thing isn't working out..
 
This is not a matter that either of us would leave the other for.

She does not cheat on me. She has sex with my knowledge and consent only with other girls and quite often I'm even present. I only have sex with her.

The point is I think she wants me to look more like a girl. My entire body is clean shaven and my head hair long at her request. Often we have frottage sex where I leave on my underpants and rub against her vagina. She applys foundation to my face and sometimes eyeliner to my eyes. It goes beyond metrosexual in my opinion. She doesn't want me to be muscled. I'm fairly certain that when she masturbates me by hand she wants to 'finger' me and strokes my perineum and her fingers move south until I squeeze my legs together and she moves her hand away.

Do you think she fantasises I'm a girl when we have sex? Is anyone aware of any accounts of a man having a sex change operation for his girlfriend and the account having a happy not dissapointed ending?
 
Comrade applying the makeup, frottage and the fingers going south, I seriously confirm your suspicions this is definitely sounding like she wants you to be a girl! Can't say I know of any gents that have had the op and been happy another 10 years down the road, but this sounds very very very very different!

I'm not trying to sound offensive I agree I think she is taking the fantasy to a whole new level. are you freaked out about this or are you alright with it? like you've presented the facts but what's your general take on it all?
 
20 hours a week working out is really quite a lot. Maybe she resents how much time you're spending on it, and in turn your muscles?

What you said about her wanting you to look like a girl sounds like it fits. But you can't close your hands? Are you sure you look good, and not too big? I would take a poll among people who know you.
 
Comrade Kane said:
This is not a matter that either of us would leave the other for.

She does not cheat on me. She has sex with my knowledge and consent only with other girls and quite often I'm even present. I only have sex with her.

The point is I think she wants me to look more like a girl. My entire body is clean shaven and my head hair long at her request. Often we have frottage sex where I leave on my underpants and rub against her vagina. She applys foundation to my face and sometimes eyeliner to my eyes. It goes beyond metrosexual in my opinion. She doesn't want me to be muscled. I'm fairly certain that when she masturbates me by hand she wants to 'finger' me and strokes my perineum and her fingers move south until I squeeze my legs together and she moves her hand away.

Do you think she fantasises I'm a girl when we have sex? Is anyone aware of any accounts of a man having a sex change operation for his girlfriend and the account having a happy not dissapointed ending?
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Hm.. I think this goes a lot deeper and highly suggest a conversation with her regarding this. Is she happy in the relationship? Is she satisfied? With you?

Lol, OP got banned.
 
this is one of those crazy threads where i can't tell if it's just crazy people being legitimately crazy or if it's crazy that actually wants to talk about the guy-->girl fantasy. *shrugs shoulders not giving a f*
 
Just bang 1.5g test E a week. Don't use an AI and you'll be halfway there to what she wants you to be ;)
 
You should always wear a shirt in public. Unless you're at the beach.

Were you muscular when you two started dating? Or what?

My boyfriend has always been super skinny and he just recently started working out a bit and he's actually got some muscles (not big ones LOL, small ones, but they are there!!) and I'm not into muscles but it makes him happy so that's fine by me.
 
Good god this thread is funny.

Reading the OP's posts made me giggle like a small, muscle-less girl on Christmas morning.
 
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