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haha its the eggs that are the problem, not the sperm.

i might have found a way out of it by having such shitty genes that the NHS would actually screen embryos and implant healthy ones in me. i can't imagine they'd fail to notice any serious issues.
You’re only about 34 right? That seems far too young to be worrying about the viability of your eggs. But you’re a smart cookie I presume you’re not jumping to conclusions and you’ve gotten some tests done. My ex was tested when she was about 43 years old, and only then were her eggs starting to be considered low probability. It is scary to get tested though, I don’t blame you if you would rather not know.
 
i probably have to shelve my travel plans for 20 years thanks to the pandemic.

i actually have a trip to tajikistan and uzbekistan fully paid for, i was supposed to go last june. fuck knows if i'll make it this year, i've already pushed it back from june til sept.

i'm turning 35 which is when that exponential curve for the risk of having children with severe genetic problems really starts to ramp up so gonna start trying soon.
I tried to arrange a tour of that part of the world and I was very discouraged at how expensive and difficult it was going to be. My hats off to you for figuring it out, I hope you get to go soon and post some pictures when you do.
 
it was a graph in a textbook when i had to learn biology- i believe it was probability of chromosomal defects with age, and it was still small at 35 but going up fast!! so eggs are viable, but the chances of healthy offspring are decreasing, while the chances of miscarriage are increasing.

ha i didn't arrange it, its this - it is eye wateringly expensive and i guess more if you gotta travel from america. but i didn't get into recovery to go to the peak district (local area of natural beauty) on holiday.
 
it was a graph in a textbook when i had to learn biology- i believe it was probability of chromosomal defects with age, and it was still small at 35 but going up fast!! so eggs are viable, but the chances of healthy offspring are decreasing, while the chances of miscarriage are increasing.

ha i didn't arrange it, its this - it is eye wateringly expensive and i guess more if you gotta travel from america. but i didn't get into recovery to go to the peak district (local area of natural beauty) on holiday.
Thanks for the link. I’ve looked into trip packages all around the world and was really surprised that this came back as one of the most expensive of them all. I wonder why that is, though.
 
I wonder why that is, though.
no idea!! for the sorts of tours i like to do £2k is generally par for the course. i tend to like niche destinations and getting some hiking as well as culture. i have seen more expensive.... but i've lusted after 80 day tours of the entire silk route so not surprising really!
 
I’ve recently booked a seven course lunch aboard the Northern Belle in June for my partner and I. Not quite the orient express, but fuck paying £40k for a train ride, don’t care how you package it, it’s silly money.

I miss holidays, miss city breaks, miss finding dirt cheap package holidays in the middle of nowhere, miss hiring a car or a boat and disappearing off into the mountains or country side. Feel like I’m being robbed of life experiences, money you can always make more of, but you can’t buy more time.
 
Buckfast Boy & K Coma Bandit love you Arnold. Only just woke up & I had a roll up, came online & found that diamond 💎 🤣❤️
 
I swear to God I really wonder at times how half of EADD are still alive? With our combined forum intake of horrific park bench alcohol & dope it would kill most normal people.

(Goes off to snort Zopiclone & smoke crack)
 
i guess if you are dead, you aren't posting in EADD.

two of the mods from H&R have died during the time i have posted in there, one wasn't drug related though.

i'm pretty sure my body is too much of a cunt to just let me die and have some peace. it will wait until i actually want my life and THEN decide to fuck with me.
 
i guess if you are dead, you aren't posting in EADD.

two of the mods from H&R have died during the time i have posted in there, one wasn't drug related though.

i'm pretty sure my body is too much of a cunt to just let me die and have some peace. it will wait until i actually want my life and THEN decide to fuck with me.
My grandmother had a colostomy when I was 9 and I remember she nearly died during the procedure. She couldn’t walk after it, she was around 70. She had vascular dementia. She developed septicaemia about 5 times and survived them all she had MRSA. I remember nursing her through all those times, crying thinking this was the end and she always pulled through. Her heart was so strong. She took 4 weeks to die at the end. 3 weeks she survived on nothing but saline and I just told them to withdraw it as I am sure she would have lasted longer. We upped the pain killers. She still lasted another week. I remember early at uni focusing all my work on heart issues because I wanted to learn how it was ever possible she lasted that long.
 
sounds horrible. my granny (i only really had one cos two were dead before i was born, other didn't speak english well) had a broken back from before i was born so paralysed on her right side but also was amazing at staying alive. nearly made it to her 90th birthday, but she got bile duct cancer and to the point where no amount of pain medication was helping so they let her die. i was away at uni so didn't nurse her but my aunt and uncle did and i'm so glad they were able to.
 
sounds horrible. my granny (i only really had one cos two were dead before i was born, other didn't speak english well) had a broken back from before i was born so paralysed on her right side but also was amazing at staying alive. nearly made it to her 90th birthday, but she got bile duct cancer and to the point where no amount of pain medication was helping so they let her die. i was away at uni so didn't nurse her but my aunt and uncle did and i'm so glad they were able to.
Oh yeah, I think family involvement is so important in elderly patient mortality. The same care is just not given to those without people who care about them. I used to always want to be a geriatric Dr when I was young, I could have easily, by the time I was 18 I was so well versed I was explaining to the student Drs what was going on when their “mentor” was off wandering and not interested when my grandmother was presenting with atypical symptoms for septicaemia yet again.
I realised though that it doesn’t take long to become disimpassioned and to stop seeing the patient as an actual person even if you have the best of intentions.

So, science it was. I became a rat murderer. Lesser of two evils? 🙃
 
sounds horrible. my granny (i only really had one cos two were dead before i was born, other didn't speak english well) had a broken back from before i was born so paralysed on her right side but also was amazing at staying alive. nearly made it to her 90th birthday, but she got bile duct cancer and to the point where no amount of pain medication was helping so they let her die. i was away at uni so didn't nurse her but my aunt and uncle did and i'm so glad they were able to.
I’m also so sorry about your Granny. It’s not nice watching someone you love suffer.
 
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