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Gibberings CLXXVIII - Too skanky for your tastes?

best wet dreams ive had always involved some kind of ... manipulation. not necessarily hand made, but friction was probably involved. though, as such is the case with dreams, precise details are always a bit fuzzy.

im sure it is possible to have fully awake orgasms.

but how do you define an orgasm in the first place? any way to quantify it?
 
I've read them and they were hilarious. Possibly the least erotic things I've ever read, though.. I've read (and done) much better...
 
One of my ex's gave me a book of erotica short stories... never had delved into that world again though & certainly not 50 Shade of Grey.
 
MDB you're very good looking. I imagine you've had a fair few birds in your time. I'd not say no, that's for sure. You're one of the hottest blokes on here.

Evey

One of ! I thought i was the hottest out there with no question (joke). Thanks. Flattery will get you everywhere;)

Thankfully im not at all self conscious of my 'good looks' anymore, dunno if this is because they are fading with age, or if ive lost some kind of confidence thing that is a big part of perceived attractiveness, or if my cuurent lifestyle is taking the shine off somehow. But that "im good looking and i know it" attitude that i used to have in my early 20s used to wind up other males no end though plenty of females seemed to like a certin degree of arrogance and ego. I know ive never been 'everyones type'. on one occasion two girls were talking about me as if i wasnt there, one must have said 'he's pretty fit' or something along those lines, but the other said "What!!! You've got to be kidding me". I was dressed very scruffily at the time doing some manual laboring type work.

Somewhat cruelly, i went through a phase of being very shy and withdrawn in my early 20s when my sex drive was highest and i was at uni surrounded by thousands of hot student chicks where i got all the female attention any young man could ever ask for. Girls used to stick their toungue out at me, in a very suggestive manner, and back their asses into my crotch on the dance floor. Female hairdressers would press their tits into my back, or rub their crotch gainst me. God, how much do i miss those days. 8( My friend reckons its a a confidence thing, i need to get over, and could find myself back in the game if i do. That is a work in progress. 8)

I could have done a Russel brand quite easily, if i was that way inclined, but i prefer more long term relationships than taking a different girl home very night. Not that ive ever done that. I hope all this doesnt come across as terribly conceited, big headed or arrogant, im just staing the facts as i honestly see them. How id love to rewind the clock and get a second chance to relive my early 20s, i consider myslf lucky if i get any female attention atall these days, though when i first meet some people some of them clealry find me attractive, as i by now completely forget that i was once a looker. Females seem different to males in this regard, in that once they met me for the first time, they sem to very quickly get over my looks.

Anyway, enough about me, thats probably far tmi infact, I thought that you said that you dint like sex, and found it disgusting.:?
 
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Arrogance is a BIG turn off. I hate guys who "know" they're hot n can anyone if you know what I mean. Whether I like it or not looks is one of those initial factors that drives a oerson to another.

I, personally, think there's a lot more important things. Life style is important. I STUPIDLY went on a site called ok cupid for awhile n started telling to a bloke who was over weight. I knew I couldn't be with him n blocked him. OK that sounds shallow but before anyone judgrs, please let me explain.

I've battled with my weight most of my life; was obese n lived that unhealthy lifestyle. The bloke told me he ate pizzas n basically everything unhealthy. If I got with him I'd be back to my old ways before I know it. In a bit of a glitch right now but going to get back to healthy me where im exercising daily n eating healthy (just tackling the alcohol first.

But yea personality is more important than looks but I couldnt get with someone obese the same way that an alkie get get with another alkie.

Evey
 
I've read them and they were hilarious. Possibly the least erotic things I've ever read, though.. I've read (and done) much better...

Erotic Memoirs of Paris In The 1920s is the only all out one hand reading erotica book ive ever owned or read. Its quite corny, full of cliches, but its still quite a turn on. That wasnt by Geoff Nicholson, but his books are kind of incidentally packed with passages of very interesting kinky/perverted/fucked up sex. I ddint like the bit about the glas table and the Scat, in Volkswagens Gravity, but otherwise his books are great, extremely random and funny, and the erotic passages are highly imaginative and nicely done.
 
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Oh dear, that doesnt bode well should there ever be another attempt at the Manchester meet up. 8(

Or i could deliberatelky be more arrogant, just to please you. Narh, that wasnt meant to sound sarcastic, i just beleive in presenting an authentic appearance to the world, Im useless at hiding my thoughts and feelings anyway. Of course not everyone likes that, but i can live with that, and am finding that the more comfortable you become with that, you can be a more relaxed and more pleasant person to be aroud. you can only be yourself, what is the point in being likEd for being someone that isnt even yourself.

However, my self confidence varies dramatically across different scenarios. If im in a situation that i think i feel comfortable in and feel that i can handle it with ease then i'll be confident, but whenever possible i tend to avoid things that would push me outside of my comfort zone. I know that i should challenge that more, for my own 'personal growth'.
 
Nah, being yourself seems to generally be the best plan.. and if there were a meet-up planned then no need to try to please me as I wouldn't be trying to pull anyone. =D
 
i just beleive in presenting an authentic appearance to the world

Yeah I think that's important. If you aren't being yourself with someone, then somewhere down the road... they'll find out. I don't like it when people try to be someone else to impress someone.

However, my self confidence varies dramatically across different scenarios. If im in a situation that i think i feel comfortable in and feel that i can handle it with ease then i'll be confident, but whenever possible i tend to avoid things that would push me outside of my comfort zone.

I'm quite similar in a way, but I used to be very shy & by putting myself in those situations that were out of my comfort zone more often, I grew to become a lot more confident. Since my anxiety problems came along recently, it feels like I've lost most of the progress I made. My confidence seems to come back a lot faster though this time. Just got to put myself out there a bit.
 
Nah, being yourself seems to generally be the best plan.. and if there were a meet-up planned then no need to try to please me as I wouldn't be trying to pull anyone. =D

I sometimes tend to behave in 'people pleasing ways', its the just the way i am sometimes, (it doesnt neccasrily mean I'm trying to pull somone,) if ive not got my head up my arse being in a foul mood about something.
 
Nah, true, true. I think most people do that to some extent.. it sort of comes naturally. I probably do it too much because I hate confrontation and arguments.
 
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