GF changed behaviour?

[citizen cained]

Ok so me and my GF didn't get off to a great start, 4 months and we have almost split up twice but we stayed together coz she doesn't want to leave me. Anyway long story short, about a week or 2 ago she decided she needed space so we broke all contact with each other. Basically we were only talking on her terms so if she wanted to talk she would let me know. This wasn't a break, we were still together and not allowed to "cheat" (she made this very clear) now about 3 days later (after 1 or 2 txts a day for 3 days) she is a different person, she says "I love you" more, calls me more than normal and when I say something silly which would normally set her off she just shrugs it off or doesn't respond rather than have a go at me. It is like this dark side of her has gone and she is only nice now (she is even taking me out for my birthday despite her being tight on money)

Whats going on here? do you girls know? I am not complaining I just want to know why she just changed so suddenly?

 

[GenericMind]

Dude women's behavior is a fucking enigma wrapped in a riddle wrapped in cheese. From what I've experienced, drastic and immediate changes in their behavior can be because of almost any reason. Maybe she cheated on you and now she feels guilty so she's being nice. Maybe she thought about the relationship in those 3 days and decided she loves you, so she's trying harder to show it. Maybe she decided she's going to break it off with you but she's being nice because she doesn't want to argue between now and when she breaks the news.

Really, the only way to know why she's acting like that is to ask her. Try pointing out the major differences in her behavior and ask her what caused them.

 

[neoblazing]

I am married with 2 kids and I still don't understand my wife I find it isn't worth trying to understand why they do what they do is just something that can't be explained, But is all seriousness GenericMind is right the only way to find is ask her is she doesn't know might help to get her hormone levels check as she may have a imbalance or a medically related issues

 

[Busty St Clare]

My grandfather wrote down everything I needed to know about women on a piece of paper and gave it to me on his death bed....

NSFW:

Bitches be crazy

 

[llama112]

People in general have mood swings, etc. For myself, there are certain times when I just get more irritated than usual. It happens to most people.
She probably missed you.

 

[lola]

As a woman, all I can say is... ENJOY IT WHILE IT LASTS

 

[TheLostBoys]

Maybe she wanted to see how her life would be w/o you in it physically for a while but she figured out how much she really misses you & what you mean to her, hence the reasons why she doesnt get mad anymore at you for saying stupid things because she doesnt want to lose you, at least this is my opinion that I gathered from what you wrote.

Also, women do see things differently & are a lot more emotional than men in these instances. Good thing she took a break, it looks like you have someone that really cares for you, at least for the moment.

 

[Lysis]

lol oh citizen. How old is this girl. I'm sorry for making light of it, but the "break up but no cheating" thing made me giggle. I'm assuming she's something like 16, and yeah, we're weird. Especially during that time of month. :D

Maybe she's trying to get a reaction from you. You sound like you're totally chill and whatever she wants, you're cool with, and she is trying to push your buttons for a reaction. I don't know. It just sounds like your typical teenage thing that we all go through.

 

[morpher001]

She sounds like a bitch.

You break up then don't because she changes her mind.

She wants to have a no cheating break. (no cheating for you that is)

No contact except on her terms. (terribly sorry to have bothered you, your majesty)

She gets 'set off' by your remarks. (she is short tempered and/or doesn't really like your personality)

I hope she's good in bed.

 

[Oats]

As a woman, all I can say is... ENJOY IT WHILE IT LASTS

FUCK yea agreeed. honestly dont ask her about it just enjoy it. she probably just realized how much she loves you. i dont think shes beign nice on purpose shes just doing it, bringing it to her attention may make her think about her actions and change her mood again.