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Getting tired of this...as well as irritated.

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blondetips33

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Ok first off, guys masturbate. We will never stop them, they will never cease, so therefore, let them eat cake. Who cares? A guy is a guy is a guy.

I have never had a problem with my fiancé's porn or him masturbating. I have never cared cuz I myself, am one as well and love porn. In the years months of us being together, I'd frequently walk in on my guy doing the deed. He would be so embarrassed, it was a lil ridiculous till finally I told him that I do not give a flying rats ass about him doing it, hell, I'll even leave the room. I also always was very free about it, and did it next to him, in front of him, whatever. He likes it, but was never really comfortable doing it in front of me. Who cares right?
Also when we'd smoke meth, I'd often go down on him while he watched it. At first I had no problem doing this, but it started to annoy me after a while because number 1, it would take like an hour and 45 mins to cum. Um, sorry, I am not well oiled machinery. And after he did cum, he tended to forget about me. Plus, one time as I was doing it, I kept hearing him moan my name and "OMG you are amazing, omg your so fucking good.." so I looked up with my eyes, and saw him fixated directly on the two sluttys that were fucking eachother on the computer, while he was raving all about me. For some reason, that turned me off.

Anyway, now every single time we smoke(which is like 3 times a week), its like a fucking cycle. We will be in our room and then he will ask me if he can have his personal time, basically for me to leave the room so he can jerk it to porn for 3 hours. EVERY. INGLE. TIME.
This doesn't exactly make me upset, but it is starting to annoy the living shit out of me, and actually, I'm starting to get a lil offended. Its the fact that I NEVER ask him to "leave the room" to do this. And then it takes so long now that if I need something in the room, he gets irritated if I walk in and grab something and leave. Well pardon the fuck out of me for breaking your concentration.

And if I'm horny too, and want to have sex, I get turned down cuz as he states, he "will never cum"...so he claims he has to go jerk off to get that out of the way and then come fuck me. Hello?
Yeah porn is fun to watch while your having sex, but fuck. I don't need to watch it all the fucking time to be able to get off. And yes, meth upps mens sexual appetite 1000 percent, its harder to cum, yada yada, yes I know all of that. But its an consistent recurrence and I get so annoyed with him, it ruins my mood because I don't even want to talk to him afterwards.
I've never been this bitchy about this, why am I so annoyed?
And yeah, he masterbates a lot off the shit too, which I used to not care about, now it is. Can someone enlighten me as to why?
 
well that is pretty annoying if you're both tweaking and you have to actually leave the room for 3 hours so he can jerk off lol he's probably just watching some fucked up shit to get off and is embarrassed to have you know about it. So you must one up him and find some really bizarre shit, ask him to leave the room because you think it's too weird and if he's intrigued and stays... maybe it'll work out.

I'd much prefer to masturbate with a girl on meth than by myself! but i also get that i'll end up looking at some rather bizarre things while tweaked that i may not prefer another to see lol. Either way, i do it on my own personal time, i wouldn't kick my gf out of the room for 3 hours, tho it is true that jerking off quickly and getting it out of the way is the best way to get on with your high.

so yeah i'd be annoyed too, and offended but it's just a matter of communication and to figure out why he must jerk off for 3 hours by himself without you being there. my gf gets all judgmental on me so that's why i do it.
 
We fuck like every day, give or take we'll skip a day, maybe.
Now see, I just approached him about it, and he got all KINDS of defensiveness. "CUZ I LIKE TO MASTERBATE!!"
JESUS.
Then he fed me the stupid line of "jerking it first to be able to have sex with me."
Motherfucker, there have been times where I have sucked you off while you watched porn and gotten ZERO in return. I asked him to put himself in my shoes...like clockwork, we smoke, go to tweaking, I get horny as hell and don't bother to check if you are, and ask you to leave the room while I satisify my needs. He STILL didn't get it. .And if he looks at bizarre shit? Well hell, lemme see! He knows I do not CARE. WTF is going on? Am I wrong to be annoyed and a tad offended?? How can I explain this to him in a way he will understand?
 
sometimes i have found that on meth, I am pretty much fully soft when i cum. Thats with full on masterbation in theprivacy of my own home. The orgasm can be unreal, but the rigidity is deffo lacking.
Perhaps this is what bothers him.
I will also say that I still can be hard before and after, no worries.
And its not always, but often when tweaking hard (or not) :P
 
Unfortunately some men do not know boundaries when it comes to porn. If you give a little they get so out of control. Instead of sucking him off for an hour you should make him go down on you for an hour. Take charge honey and if that doesn't work then you have to decide just how much of this you are willing to put up with. Personally, If a man can't give as good as he gets and isn't willing to compromise he's out the door.
 
Nonono, its not the porn...or the masturbation. Like I said, I do and like both, and I know he checks out the chicks, I do too, and plus, he can't get any of those bitches anyways.
But this continuous cycle is growing annoying. I'm starting to find it a lil selfish. He just won't get it.
 
it is kind of selfish, how do you get through to him though? pull out the old refuse sex card? masturbate in a closet by yourself to satisfy your needs for a while? lol i don't know. Perhaps go pick up one of those bitches and bring her home, leave him out, see how he feels about that lol, or maybe he can just jerk off to that and you can have your needs satisfied as well, though i suppose he'd have to be watching via closed circuit television so he could jerk in the privacy of his own room haha.

the best idea is probably to just talk to him like you did here, when you're both not spun, perhaps he has a reason, like he wasn't sure if you'd appreciate what he's doing or be into it. I can understand the jerk off odyssey on stims that happens and sometimes you want that to be a personal thing. However i wouldn't turn my gf down if she wanted to join in on my personal jerk off odyssey and come along for the ride! We used to call them masturbation parties but the old ball and chain didn't appreciate the 3-5 hour journey or the weird places it'd take us and now they are no more.
 
I dont know much about speed but I know about sex and drugs and relationships. I like to fuck my sexual partners. Fuck Porn. I do understand watching porn while getting sucked off though. Thats pretty fun. But Id much rather fuck a woman than my hand. Me he likes to watch sneizer shit porn, beasteality or kiddy stuff and is embarassed. Maybe he wants kinkier shit and is afraid to ask. I dunno but its kinda weird to choose to jack off instead of have sex.
 
If the problem isn't the porn or the masturbation, then perhaps the problem is the meth?

Something to think about.
 
^you are definitely the exception my friend. You seriously are satisfied with jerking to your girls pics? man that is fucking boring lol

I think most guys would definitely not be happy with that, do you like to eat the same meal every night? Some people do, and i just don't get them.
 
Morphling said:
If the problem isn't the porn or the masturbation, then perhaps the problem is the meth?

Something to think about.
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Although I enjoy meth and I think porn and masturbation are great, this is a very good point...

RobotRipping said:
^you are definitely the exception my friend. You seriously are satisfied with jerking to your girls pics? man that is fucking boring lol

I think most guys would definitely not be happy with that, do you like to eat the same meal every night? Some people do, and i just don't get them.
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Hey if you have your own personal collection of your girlfriends pics, I can see you using that pretty often, not necessarily exclusively, but I know that's what my bf does. I mean of course he looks at other stuff, but he's got tons of my pics, videos, etc. that he uses ;p
 
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