ok, cletus is away and has given me the answer to this. i propose that, if nobody gets it by this time tomorrow, i'll reveal the answer and post another (as the next most recent correct guesser
true. it kind of starts coming to you when you obsess over one for a week straight... then when you go to post it cause you finally got it... and someone already beat you to it... you're more determined the next time.
you'll get one... as soon as you realize there is no spoon.