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fuck me if i cant

mtu mwendawazimu said:
I feel bad, mostly for Kitty, not myself. Id love my parents, or sister, or aunt to take her. Not some, fucking cat-lady where kitty will be scared of the other cats and feel not special, like she has all the reason to feel since everyone has passed her off and she got lost in the street when the house burnt down for a month.

I can tell.. she's so thirsty for affection. She needs a good home.
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owwww i feel heartbroken for both you and her.

but if its going to cause friction, she would pick up on that, and lets face it you don't need any extra stress while you're working on saving your own life.

i hope you find a good home for her. i'd take her but we have a slight ocean between us and i can't afford another cat.
 
I'd love for family to take her so I can visit. Or my buddy who is my neighbor he is depressed and can definitely use a companion.

Id love her to be with you too.. could send me pics and I could duo Kitty
 
hoping the best yall been down like clowns and could imagine some head fuckery on the split up for the both of you
sorry it came to this but maybe for the best no one can really say.
stlii pains me to think of it, though.
i doubt the theatrics were too blown up i know you love kitty
 
how are you getting on with moving @mtu mwendawazimu - did the directors mum take Kitty? i want you to be able to visit her too. she'll probably ignore you, maxwell did while i was n rehab and she was at my parents, but cats have their own way of showing love that is hard earned but so meaningful.

anyway, other than the cat, how are you and your girlfriend? i hope you're both doing well.
 
Still no luck with Kitty. Looking into a foster program that DOESN'T keep them homeless between stages.

Prefer someone I know. I have a month to figure it out.

The office was closed at 4pm, which is stupid, so I put this under the door;




I'm doing fine, hope you are too
 
mtu mwendawazimu said:
Still no luck with Kitty. Looking into a foster program that DOESN'T keep them homeless between stages.

Prefer someone I know. I have a month to figure it out.
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its not the best route but have you advertised on facebook? i'm a member of several cat lady groups on there, PM me if you want me to add you. its not the best cos definitely having someone you know is preferable, but they might be able to point you to resources or decent fosters.

mtu mwendawazimu said:
I'm doing fine, hope you are too
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i'm doing better than i was. i'm just trying to distract myself otherwise i start crying and obsessing over things i can do nothing about right now.
 
Is it USA too?

Not sure how I feel about "cat lady's". In fact I specifically asked for no "cat lady's" to the people I asked.

I want kitty to feel special and not have her scared of other cats
 
mtu mwendawazimu said:
Is it USA too?

Not sure how I feel about "cat lady's". In fact I specifically asked for no "cat lady's" to the people I asked.

I want kitty to feel special and not have her scared of other cats
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there are people in the USA though it is more UK based. the US people might be able to point you to more local resources though.

the one i am primarily involved in describes cat owners as prats or slaves. there area lot of people involved in rescue so have contact with fosterers and reach for rehoming. its worth a shot but i can't promise anything.

i totally get not wanting her around other cats. maxwell lost a quarter of her body weight when i got wolfie due to the stress of another cat. her welfare is the reason i don't add another animal to my menagerie. she has regained the weight so she is healthy now and i want her to stay that way.
 
the cat will learn to stay away after a while, the vacuum and all. k. that serious !!!!!!! Awe.

I know it always has to be that way, not that simple. I'm so sorry. <3
 
hylite said:
the cat will learn to stay away after a while, the vacuum and all. k. that serious !!!!!!! Awe.

I know it always has to be that way, not that simple. I'm so sorry. <3
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It's simple for cats though, that's why I'll feel bad when we part ways.

She just wants love and food and security. I can't even explain to her the situation.

She will never know why I left.
 
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